Worried about pleasing people?!
Question: Worried about pleasing people!?
I have excessive worry about pleasing people!.
Today, for example, I sat for about 3 minutes contemplating to place my bowl neatly back onto the tray (you know if you are in a food outlet - you get trays of food so you can put it onto your table)!. I know people don't care but most of the time I try to be 'neat' so that the
person picking up the tray doesn't have to pack too much!.
The problem is I couldn't leave :( because I don't want to please people
anymore!. Before I normally leave without bothering where my bowls are!. Now I do and I think its getting too much for me to handle!. Normally a person wouldn't give two hoots!. I wish someone would help me out!. I find it hard to leave !.!. I hate people who cares whether an item is placed in the wrong way!. Who really gives a toss!?!? Can someone with similar problems or who knows about this anxiety please answer me!?
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Today, for example, I sat for about 3 minutes contemplating to place my bowl neatly back onto the tray (you know if you are in a food outlet - you get trays of food so you can put it onto your table)!. I know people don't care but most of the time I try to be 'neat' so that the
person picking up the tray doesn't have to pack too much!.
The problem is I couldn't leave :( because I don't want to please people
anymore!. Before I normally leave without bothering where my bowls are!. Now I do and I think its getting too much for me to handle!. Normally a person wouldn't give two hoots!. I wish someone would help me out!. I find it hard to leave !.!. I hate people who cares whether an item is placed in the wrong way!. Who really gives a toss!?!? Can someone with similar problems or who knows about this anxiety please answer me!?
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Answers:
I kind of do that!.!.!. At fast food restaurants I always pick up napkins or straw wrappers that people didn't throw away and I always fix trays if they aren't stacked right, but I work in fast food!.!.!.
If you start to get anxious over it, just take a deep breath and walk away!. As long as you get most of your trash on the tray and don't pour ketchup or something all over the table, the person isn't going to mind!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you start to get anxious over it, just take a deep breath and walk away!. As long as you get most of your trash on the tray and don't pour ketchup or something all over the table, the person isn't going to mind!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think that you have to consider the number of times a waiter/ess goes to a table picks up the tray and simply dumps the dishes in the kitchen without another thought, its just dishes on a tray to them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi!.
This is perhaps not the best question to ask here!. You have a problem that is best handled by a professional!. Go see a doctor, I am sure your GP can make you feel better in little or no time!.
Best of luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is perhaps not the best question to ask here!. You have a problem that is best handled by a professional!. Go see a doctor, I am sure your GP can make you feel better in little or no time!.
Best of luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com