How can I get help for my problem and not disappoint my friend? Mature answers o!

Question: How can I get help for my problem and not disappoint my friend!? Mature answers only please!.!?

Ever since 2002, I have self mutilated on and off whether it be cutting or scratching!. One of my friends told me that if I cut myself he would hurt me!. I try not to do it but after he told me this, I have scratched myself twice!. Last night, I got overwhelmed and did this!. I was sad about a certain situation, cried, and was overwhelmed so I scratched myself!. I've thought about talking to someone about my problem and I have in the past!. Although, I'm scared to talk to someone!. I'm also scared I'm going to disappoint my friend and my family!. What can I do!? I've been told that people cut themselves or kill themselves because all they can see is the bad in their lives!. I know someone reading this is probably going to think I'm stupid, selfish, or something like that but I've tried talking to someone & I've tried to stop!. I know what I'm doing is wrong, but how can I stop self mutilating once and for all!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

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you need a hobby try to paint or draw or make collages something to keep your mind busy if there is something or some one who is making you feel this way then the best thing to do is separate your self from person/thing!. what you do is not good and you know that so think of it as an addiction if necessary go see professional help

i hope this helps
good luck

dont do what pagrus says unless you want to become an acloholic too
not the way to i mean turn to alcohol!? really!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Basically you need to talk to someone and I'm not trying to be mean but you need to get help from someone!. I don't know how old you are, but this is serious!. When I was 14 I used to cut so I know what your going through sweety!. Everything gets better and everything will!. So talk to someone and make it better cause only you can do it!.

I hope I helpedWww@Answer-Health@Com

First of all talk to your family!.You will need their help and support!.
Then,you have to realise why are you doing this:for your "friend" or don,t know!?If is because of him, then sorry,he isn,t your !.!.!."friend"!.Nobody ask such of harmfully thing to his" dear"!.Sorry,but his opinion it couldn,t be important for you in this case!.
Ask immediately help!.Professional help!.It,s about!.!.!.life and death!.
Don,t wait!.
Life is only one !.
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Before you cut or scratch think about who you will upset!. Will you upset your friends your family or someone very close to you!? Find someone you trust and maybe talk to them instead of cutting!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I hope these links may be helpful:

http://kidshealth!.org/teen/your_mind/men!.!.!.
http://www!.selfinjury!.com/
http://www!.kidzworld!.com/article/4217-de!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get professional help quickly!. You can be treated for this and get on with your life!. Your friend wants to help you, although their choice of treatment is bizarre!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

What I find really helpful to have a real fun relaxed stress and anxiety free day is to drink a few beers during the day!. Have a few good beers in the morning, then if you go out, take a hip flask of whiskey with you and have a few good swigs during the day!. After a super start to the day get stuck into the booze in the late afternoon!. It really gives you a good night

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