I've just read about David Foster Wallace commiting suicide. ?!


Question: I've just read about David Foster Wallace commiting suicide!. !?
Why do people that commit suicide leave themselves for the family to find!. I know their distraught but this has to traumatizing for the family!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Well, there can be a number of reasons why someone would do this!. Most people who are suicidal experience a sort of tunnel vision!. The same thought process that leads them to think suicide is the ONLY way to resolve their issues leads them to think of nothing other than, "I gotta get out!." Some even convince themselves that people will be happy that they've done this!.

There is a small group of people who want their suicide to be an exhibition to people that they feel have caused them problems -- think school shootings!. However, these people are not as prevalent as those who just want an out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

they think that is the only way out!. they don't think about the effect it will have on their loved ones!. they are only thinking of the problem that is causing them such distress!. when I hear someone speaking of suicide as a problem solver I say it is the coward's way out and they should stay and fight!. But if it is because they have a terminal illness and it is taking its toll on the person, family and the quality of life is gone and won't be recovered I don't say it is the coward's way out, it is a bold step and the family should accept it and realize the person wanted to end everyone's suffering!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Suicide is a selfish act, you think you will get away from your problems but all you do is take your baggage with you!. Plus you leave your family distraught and torn wondering if they didn't see the 'signs' or they could have helped!. Guilt trip for the rest of their lives, mean spirited people take their lives!. Anyone with a ounce of hope will find a way around their problems in time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

They want to be found because they wan't their family to see how badly they were hurting!. It's also a way of them telling their family goodbye for the last time!. If you think about it, which would you have!? Would you rather have your family find you to make sure nobody desecrates your dead body or someone who just doesn't care!? And quite frankly I disagree with you about suicide!. God put us on earth to grow and prosper, not slowly die on the inside!. I think I'd rather kill myself and spend an eternity in hell!. Why believe in religion when it causes wars!? People killing other people because they believe in god!.!.!.yeah!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It causes trauma to the family to find a family member after suicide!. My father killed himself, but we are lucky that he did that in the open space and not at home!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No idea!. It really sucks!. Trust me!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories