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ok , im 18 , male, and i think i have social anxiety disorder , or paranoid personality disorder ( or both mixed together )!. because i sit in all day and night, on my pc, and am sorta scared to go out and socialize!. what it is , is i think im ugly, i think people think im ugly aswell!.!.!.and i think people talk about me and laugh at me ect i dont no why but thats how i think and it has affected me socially!. now, ino u will say go to the doctors , well today i have an appointment , this is the first time ive ever done anything like this!. so , what i am wundering is, what will the doctor say wen i tell him about me!? will i get medication today or will he send me to sumwere were i have to go every day or every week and so on!.!.!.!.!.so if you understand what im saying please give me some idea of what might happen!. thanks, and serious answerrs please!. ( oh and i forgot to say , i dont have any money coming in because im scared to get a job , and my jobseekers allowence has now stopped bcoz i missed an interview!.!.!.!.again this was bcoz of my problem!. so will the doctor help me get some money sum how , and this is not all about the money but i desperatly need money bcoz my parents are keeping me for nothing, and they need money off me!.) !.!.!.so if there is anyone who answers this question who has been diagnosed with social Anxiety disorder or something of the kind please let me know if you get benefits or somthing !. thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I'm really proud of you! From the last post I saw by you this is a HUGE step!
Your doc will probably refer you to someone you can talk to for therapy and about getting pills, which may or may not be covered by whatever medical plan you have!. But don't worry about paying for the pills just yet, you don't need more worry!. Just like your body, your mind is starting to atrophy!. There are things you can do to strengthen yourself again, so you can handle yourself in social situations!. There are a lot of other people like you out there, and a lot of them don't even make the effort to get help, so pat yourself on the back!.
I doubt the doctor will try to help you get money, but if you go see a therapist they have tons of info and will probably tell you what your options are in terms of finding a job for someone in your situation!. Don't try to rush anything though, there's plenty of time to make money, you need to work on yourself first! Otherwise you'll never move past this point!.
dailystrength!.org is a great support site, I suggest you give it a gander!. It might bring you some comfort to be able to ask people with your exact problems how they coped and what they had to go through to get help!. And it's just good to see how many people are out there just like you, many in the same country as you!.
Once again, *I* don't think you're ugly, but that doesn't mean anything to you yet!.!.!.it's not that other people think you're ugly, YOU think you're ugly!. *hugs* Take care of yourself, there's only one you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your doc will probably refer you to someone you can talk to for therapy and about getting pills, which may or may not be covered by whatever medical plan you have!. But don't worry about paying for the pills just yet, you don't need more worry!. Just like your body, your mind is starting to atrophy!. There are things you can do to strengthen yourself again, so you can handle yourself in social situations!. There are a lot of other people like you out there, and a lot of them don't even make the effort to get help, so pat yourself on the back!.
I doubt the doctor will try to help you get money, but if you go see a therapist they have tons of info and will probably tell you what your options are in terms of finding a job for someone in your situation!. Don't try to rush anything though, there's plenty of time to make money, you need to work on yourself first! Otherwise you'll never move past this point!.
dailystrength!.org is a great support site, I suggest you give it a gander!. It might bring you some comfort to be able to ask people with your exact problems how they coped and what they had to go through to get help!. And it's just good to see how many people are out there just like you, many in the same country as you!.
Once again, *I* don't think you're ugly, but that doesn't mean anything to you yet!.!.!.it's not that other people think you're ugly, YOU think you're ugly!. *hugs* Take care of yourself, there's only one you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you ever been anywhere that you thought some of the employees you could see were kinda ugly!? Maybe a fast food restaurant, or a garage, or a corner store!? Maybe a Walmart or other department store!? Most jobs out there aren't really all that concerned with how you look in the face!. They care if you have clean clothes, clean and tidy hair!.!.!. you know, they care if you have obvious personal hygiene habits!. They are not taking pictures of you while you work to use as promotional material for their company!.
Let me come at it from this angle!. You think you are kinda ugly!. You think other people think you are kinda ugly!. Ok!. What are you going to do about it!? What *can* you do about it if you are indeed ugly!? If you wanted to get plastic surgery to have your face changed, then you would need a job to save that money!.
Sure, most of the "pretty" people are actually quite mean!.!.!. which makes them stupid and ugly inside where it really matters!. You know the old saying!.!. "Beauty is skin deep, but stupid is to the bone!." There are indeed some "pretty" people who will make fun of those they think are ugly!. Do you know why!? Because they have self-esteem issues too!. They need to do that to make themselves feel better!. It makes them feel like since there is someone "lower" than they are on the scales they judge the world by, then they must be "higher" on those scales by extension!. It isn't actually true, but they fool themselves into thinking it is!.
I know it isn't going to help, to say that it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks!.!.!. that it only matters what you think!. I know this because you already say that you think you are ugly!. I can tell you why you think you are ugly!.!.!.!. it is because you wish you were "pretty"!. You spend most of your time wishing you were someone else, wishing you could live someone else's life!. You see these people having fun, and you wish you were them instead of yourself!.
If wishes were fishes, we'd ALL be up to our eyeballs in fish!.
You need to spend more time living your life, and not caring what other people think of you!. You will never be able to be someone else!. Accept that fact!. Understand that fact!. The truth is, people don't currently seem to accept you, because you do not accept yourself!. You don't even give people a chance to reject you based on your looks!. You have already rejected yourself before anyone else is even in the picture!.
You know Jack Black, the actor!? He's not handsome in the least!. Why is he an actor!? Because he is confident in who he is!. I'm not comparing you to Jack Black!. I am pointing out a celebrity who is not "pretty"!. He is popular though, because of his confidence and skill!.
Believe in yourself!. If you don't, no one else will ever believe in you!.
And stop being scared!. Get a job!. Who cares of people laugh!. Turn it around!. Start being funny!. There are a ton of ugly comedians!. If people are laughing at your looks, that's actually half the battle of being funny!.!.!. making them laugh!. Now all you need is some half-baked material!.!.!. and you got a great night hobby!.!.!. stand up comedy!. Turn a disadvantage to an advantage!. Stop bemoaning your fate, and start living your life!. No one else is going to live it for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Let me come at it from this angle!. You think you are kinda ugly!. You think other people think you are kinda ugly!. Ok!. What are you going to do about it!? What *can* you do about it if you are indeed ugly!? If you wanted to get plastic surgery to have your face changed, then you would need a job to save that money!.
Sure, most of the "pretty" people are actually quite mean!.!.!. which makes them stupid and ugly inside where it really matters!. You know the old saying!.!. "Beauty is skin deep, but stupid is to the bone!." There are indeed some "pretty" people who will make fun of those they think are ugly!. Do you know why!? Because they have self-esteem issues too!. They need to do that to make themselves feel better!. It makes them feel like since there is someone "lower" than they are on the scales they judge the world by, then they must be "higher" on those scales by extension!. It isn't actually true, but they fool themselves into thinking it is!.
I know it isn't going to help, to say that it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks!.!.!. that it only matters what you think!. I know this because you already say that you think you are ugly!. I can tell you why you think you are ugly!.!.!.!. it is because you wish you were "pretty"!. You spend most of your time wishing you were someone else, wishing you could live someone else's life!. You see these people having fun, and you wish you were them instead of yourself!.
If wishes were fishes, we'd ALL be up to our eyeballs in fish!.
You need to spend more time living your life, and not caring what other people think of you!. You will never be able to be someone else!. Accept that fact!. Understand that fact!. The truth is, people don't currently seem to accept you, because you do not accept yourself!. You don't even give people a chance to reject you based on your looks!. You have already rejected yourself before anyone else is even in the picture!.
You know Jack Black, the actor!? He's not handsome in the least!. Why is he an actor!? Because he is confident in who he is!. I'm not comparing you to Jack Black!. I am pointing out a celebrity who is not "pretty"!. He is popular though, because of his confidence and skill!.
Believe in yourself!. If you don't, no one else will ever believe in you!.
And stop being scared!. Get a job!. Who cares of people laugh!. Turn it around!. Start being funny!. There are a ton of ugly comedians!. If people are laughing at your looks, that's actually half the battle of being funny!.!.!. making them laugh!. Now all you need is some half-baked material!.!.!. and you got a great night hobby!.!.!. stand up comedy!. Turn a disadvantage to an advantage!. Stop bemoaning your fate, and start living your life!. No one else is going to live it for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds to me that you do have a social anxiety disorder to me!. But what concerns me is your self esteem!. For others to like you, you first must like yourself!. We all can't be beauty queens or Mr!. Universe!. There is more to people than just their looks, it's whats on the inside that truly matters!.
Your problems are interfering with your ability to function outside the house, so you may qualify for social security benefits, seeing the DR!. is the right step in the right direction, I wish you well and God bless you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your problems are interfering with your ability to function outside the house, so you may qualify for social security benefits, seeing the DR!. is the right step in the right direction, I wish you well and God bless you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com