What do I do? I'm way too paranoid! HELP!?!


Question: What do I do!? I'm way too paranoid! HELP!!?
Okay, so this really nice, pretty girl likes me!.

But then I wonder, why does she like me!? Out of all of the better looking guys out there!.!.!. why me!? It's not that she knows me enough to have judged me for my personality!. What is this about!? Now I get odd looks when I'm hanging around her from "cooler" people who are surprised a girl like her would like me!.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not ugly or even bad looking!. I'm alright I guess!. I'm quite flattered by all the girls who like me!.!.!. I've gotten asked out by a few, had a few secret admirers etc!.

I really like this girl and have already asked her out!.

But another thing is, I have a really great feeling now!. I'm in 9th grade - it's my second week or so, and people actually like me! I went to a Catholic school with 14 of the same people and have never liked any girl, no one has liked me, and now it's a giant leap and people like me!.!.!.

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chillll!.!.!.just accept it and be happy dont constantly over thik everythingWww@Answer-Health@Com

Try not to be paranoid! You obviously have something that is attractive to her!. Girls don't usually say that they like you unless they really do!. Everyone has different taste!. Just like you might like Strawberry ice cream, but I only like chocolate! Luckily there are many flavors in the world and they are are beautifully made!Www@Answer-Health@Com

a simlar thing happend 2 me 2 like i used 2 be a nerd (still am and proud of it) but last year no boy like me now a bunch of them like me c the built this new school with 3 schools combined its ronald e!. mcnair discovery learning academy im in the 5th grade there im 10 and the school terry mill most boys like me Www@Answer-Health@Com

you just need a boost of confidence!. i had this too!. like why does my boyfriend like me!. why would he pick me out of all the girls out there!. adn i still think that once and a while!. but ive gotten used to it!. people must think your cute!. and you have to accept that!. its not a bad thing!. well it can be when you have a girlfriend!. but!.!. you get the point!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I hear ya! I went to a private Christian school my WHOLE life and then i transferred to a public school!. It was SOOOOO differrent! i nvr really thought much about dating either so!.!.!. yeah!. but anyway u can tell a lot about a person from first impressions!. and it IS possible that she does like u!. jus dont worry about it!. things happen for a reason (and dont i know it) and wahtevr happens, happens!.!.!. i miss tyler!. uh, sorry!. u dont wanna know!.!.!. anyway, hope this helps! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't be paranoid, and don't show any insecurity to any of these people!. Show weakness, and people who are jealous of your new found status will rip you down!. Just go with it! Realize that people like you and just go with it :) And kiss that pretty girl!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

how do you know she doesnt know about your personality!? she could have watched you from afar, like i do with the guy i like!. just because you think your 'alright i guess' doesnt mean she thinks that!. just chill!. just be you!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No offence, but you're an idiot!.

Life is too short to worry about why good things come your way!.

Just enjoy the moment, chances are you'll have difficulty in your life, don't waste the good times!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your just growing up man!.!.!.i was in your shoes once (i know i sound like an old geezer)!. Never question why a girl likes you or why, just go with it and enjoy it while it lasts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

That's freshman year for ya!.!.

Just take it in stride!. Things get MUCH easier, trust me!. Wind down a bit!. You don't even know the meaning of stress yet, lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

STOP thinking so much and just have fun you are too young to be this stressed out!. high school can be a blast, just make as many friends as you can and have a blast!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't know man, just be yourself, sounds like it's working so far!.
If people are starting to like you that's a great thing just keep walkin tall!. u shouldn't be paranoid!. join footballWww@Answer-Health@Com

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amazing question, i am speechlessWww@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe she just likes you!. It's not math, there's not just one simple answer!.
Why shouldn't she like you, anyway!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just calm down and be yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

aww thats really cute! dont sweat it!. just live your life! people obviously like you so u have nothing to worry about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

calm down and relax!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

there is a cool thing called T~H~E~R~A~P~YWww@Answer-Health@Com

just relax and go with the flowWww@Answer-Health@Com

so what do you need help with then!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

yea go with the flow be coolWww@Answer-Health@Com

it sounds like your already set!.!. what are u confused about lol!?

what did she say when you asked her out !?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why are you paranoid!? You should be really happy that people like you, and that your being more accepted now!.
You may be a little in need of some confidence, I'm sure your a really nice guy and they are reasons that this girl likes you!. The whole reason shes there is to show you what they are, thats what a girlfriend/boyfriend is for!.
Im in 10th grade now, and last year I met this boy named Mike!. He, like you, went to a Catholic school!. I have a giant crush on him, but of course I never told him!. Anyway, he went to a Catholic School and only 4 people came from their to our normal public high school!. At first, he was nervous because he didnt know anyone!.!.(the school I came from had 116 kids graduated from 8th grade) but quickly he made lots of friends!. Lots of girls were interested in him too, something he wasnt use too!.
Its all about growing up I guess, things like this happen!. Dont let those weird "COOL" people bring you down because there staring at you, there probably all jelous!. And I highly doubt there even cool!. Be yourself and good luck on your relationship!. Just relax and everything will work out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Welcome to high school my friend!. You describe all the common symptoms!. Don't be paranoid!. Just look who ever is in your face and LISTEN carefully to what they are saying, then respond!. Let me tell you something about the "hot"/ cute people by the time they get to high school they have had all kinds of crazy,lewd people coming at them!.They have been through people stealing kisses from them and running away, to people putting their hands on them without permission, to people on the train or bus touching parts of their body or hair and jumping off the train or bus!. By now they are tried of how the world treats good looks and have developed a kind of radar being able to recognize "barracudas" from" regular" boys!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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