I guess I really just need reasurance!?!
Question: I guess I really just need reasurance!!?
In response to this question: "I spent all day working out how to word this, please answer me!!?" please have a look at it on my profile because I'm not sure how to include a link!.
anyway things have got worse since then etc etc etc,
so I decide to take peoples advice and fill out a councellor form!. I had to go to school 45 minutes early so I could sneak in and no-one would see me (i'm ashamed to admit I need help to anyone who knows me)
then well I put the form under the door like i'm supposed to!.
and tomorrow I will get my appointment time!.
first of all I really want to go down to school right now and try pull the form out from under the door or explain that somehow it was a mistake or It wasnt me or anything!.
second of all I dont think I could walk there by myself to attend the appointment!.
third of all im starting to wonder if maybe i dont have anything wrong at all and that everyone feels this way and im the only one that talks about it so i would be wasting the councellors time because I'm really just fine!.
and then I don't even know what I would say!
I'm not used to being the one that needs help among my friends! i'm normally the one that helps them!.
I cant cope, any minute now i'm guna start walking back to school!.
please help me please please please
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anyway things have got worse since then etc etc etc,
so I decide to take peoples advice and fill out a councellor form!. I had to go to school 45 minutes early so I could sneak in and no-one would see me (i'm ashamed to admit I need help to anyone who knows me)
then well I put the form under the door like i'm supposed to!.
and tomorrow I will get my appointment time!.
first of all I really want to go down to school right now and try pull the form out from under the door or explain that somehow it was a mistake or It wasnt me or anything!.
second of all I dont think I could walk there by myself to attend the appointment!.
third of all im starting to wonder if maybe i dont have anything wrong at all and that everyone feels this way and im the only one that talks about it so i would be wasting the councellors time because I'm really just fine!.
and then I don't even know what I would say!
I'm not used to being the one that needs help among my friends! i'm normally the one that helps them!.
I cant cope, any minute now i'm guna start walking back to school!.
please help me please please please
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Answers:
Great idea to get counseling, nothing to be ashamed of!. Too many people need to go and don't!. Don't miss any of your appointments!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your the one that usually gives help - let it be your turn this time!. perhaps you have been so busy worrying about others you have forgotten to take care of yourself!. i have counselling from time to time, when things are difficult to cope with, and i have always found it helpful and often an enjoyable experience!. lots and lots of warm fuzzies :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do the counseling thing!. You will be glad you did!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You may be having anxiety now and for a few reasons!. It's normal, if you speak to a counselor he is going to suggest some type of change and we aren't comfortable with change!. Don't be nervous though about seeing one!. I found it very relaxing and comforting that other people have the same problems that i have and are dealing with them!. If you are vacillating about whether to go or not you are having problems making decisions and need to go!. You don't have to be in crisis mode to see the therapist!. You will be pleasantly surprised at how your problems go away just by having a different outlook on them!. Stop living in the problem and start living in the answer and the problem will go away!. Gaurantee it!.
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