See what i can do ?anyone has a comment that makes me feel worse ,i dont need it!
Question: See what i can do !?anyone has a comment that makes me feel worse ,i dont need it,!?
Today I saw pictures that I had from a past love *he isn
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I would say seek confidential advice and use a public telephone box!. Unless your the only one who see's your telephone statement!.
You have got to be very careful you could slip up very easily!. And so too could the history tab on the pc, and the cookies that are stored on the pc even If you click delete cookies!. The fact you cant get rid of the photos is dangerous to you and the guy concerned!. Do you hide the photos if so what If your husband found them hidden away !?!?
I'd like to think you have all those thing's covered!.
Everybody needs something to get them through the hum drum of life!. And the mind will do that quite perfectly!. It's when It gets out of control that causes the problems!.
I know of a friend who was married, and she too let a day-dream get too far into her mind!.
It took up most of her thinking time whether that was washing up, sitting down, going to sleep, waking up!. Mostly every part of her waking hours!. She thought she loved him too!.
Where as in fact she did not love him, It was her mind trying to take away some of her boredom and unhappiness she had in her real life!. It wasnt until her husband stumbled across a secret letter that she never intended posting ever!. You can imagine what It was like for her and her family and the guy whom the letter was about!. Although she did nothing apart from some foolish day'dreaming and a letter!.
She was treated as If she had an affair with all the upset that comes with it!.
The best advice (and you wont thank me for it) is !.!.
Seek help over the phone to help you cope with how you are feeling, and give you advice on what you can do!.
Never write these thoughts/feelings down anywhere!.
Tell no-one, be that friends/familys/distant friends!.
My thoughts on how you can help yourself !!
Everytime you think of him!. Tell yourself It is nothing but a fantasy he is not a perfect man, you are not at the movies!.
Fantasy can be a good thing in tiny doses!.
But dont let a fantasy ruin your life or his or your husbands!.
Please take it steady and dont do anything at all that you will regret!.
I wish you luck and send my best wishes to you!.
Take care
AJWww@Answer-Health@Com
I would say seek confidential advice and use a public telephone box!. Unless your the only one who see's your telephone statement!.
You have got to be very careful you could slip up very easily!. And so too could the history tab on the pc, and the cookies that are stored on the pc even If you click delete cookies!. The fact you cant get rid of the photos is dangerous to you and the guy concerned!. Do you hide the photos if so what If your husband found them hidden away !?!?
I'd like to think you have all those thing's covered!.
Everybody needs something to get them through the hum drum of life!. And the mind will do that quite perfectly!. It's when It gets out of control that causes the problems!.
I know of a friend who was married, and she too let a day-dream get too far into her mind!.
It took up most of her thinking time whether that was washing up, sitting down, going to sleep, waking up!. Mostly every part of her waking hours!. She thought she loved him too!.
Where as in fact she did not love him, It was her mind trying to take away some of her boredom and unhappiness she had in her real life!. It wasnt until her husband stumbled across a secret letter that she never intended posting ever!. You can imagine what It was like for her and her family and the guy whom the letter was about!. Although she did nothing apart from some foolish day'dreaming and a letter!.
She was treated as If she had an affair with all the upset that comes with it!.
The best advice (and you wont thank me for it) is !.!.
Seek help over the phone to help you cope with how you are feeling, and give you advice on what you can do!.
Never write these thoughts/feelings down anywhere!.
Tell no-one, be that friends/familys/distant friends!.
My thoughts on how you can help yourself !!
Everytime you think of him!. Tell yourself It is nothing but a fantasy he is not a perfect man, you are not at the movies!.
Fantasy can be a good thing in tiny doses!.
But dont let a fantasy ruin your life or his or your husbands!.
Please take it steady and dont do anything at all that you will regret!.
I wish you luck and send my best wishes to you!.
Take care
AJWww@Answer-Health@Com
I feel so sorry for you, being in an arranged marriage!. No wonder your heart is not there!.
You need to realize that alot of people would react in the same way--holding on to people they love--not letting go!. Don't beat your self up over it!.
There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them!.
I don't know what to tell you!.
Again, I'm sorry!. It must be hell to have to marry someone you don't love!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to realize that alot of people would react in the same way--holding on to people they love--not letting go!. Don't beat your self up over it!.
There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them!.
I don't know what to tell you!.
Again, I'm sorry!. It must be hell to have to marry someone you don't love!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
this must be an awful thing to have to go through but personally if i were you i would throw these pictures away and work on your marriage with your new husband!.
I dont see what other choice you have, unless you want to leave your husband!.
It sounds like your idolising this other man but you have never had a proper relationship with him so you dont really know who he is and what hes like deep down and what it would be like if you were together!.
Its o!.k to have fantasies about someone else but dont let it get out of hand, try getting to know your husband better ,who knows, you may even learn to love him in time!.
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I dont see what other choice you have, unless you want to leave your husband!.
It sounds like your idolising this other man but you have never had a proper relationship with him so you dont really know who he is and what hes like deep down and what it would be like if you were together!.
Its o!.k to have fantasies about someone else but dont let it get out of hand, try getting to know your husband better ,who knows, you may even learn to love him in time!.
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This is just a dream, and that's all it will ever be!. You are now married and probably soon will be having children of your very own!. Dont waste your time on a dream that will not come true!. Face the day as it is and your life as it is and be grateful that you have a good husband and marraige!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
:( i feel so so so sorry for you!. arranged marriage is backwards and wrong!. its from the bloody stoneage :( i hope things change in ur country!. life isnt about just squeezing babies out and being unhappy and "putting up" with someone or "getting to know" ur life long partner! its about love and choices of your own!. im sorry you were born into that sort of culture, if you wern't you could maybe be with this man and be happy, or be with him and be unhappy, the point is you would LIVE and make ur own choices, instead of jjust adjusting to ur current forced husband :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
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