How do I let go of a dream for my future?!
Question: How do I let go of a dream for my future!?
I lived in Hawaii for four years and was on the fast track to go back after working somewhere else the last four years!. But there is a volcanic situation making the air quality make the worst day in LA look good!. I cannot knowingly move back since it is the beauty and healthy lifestyle that was the attraction!. My future husband is military and realizing my ten year dream of owning a home there is being crushed, I know there is life on the other side, but how do i let go of something so deeply rooted in my heart!? Don't call me a baby, i've worked really hard to afford to buy a home there, really hardWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Thats a hard one!. I would say first realize that what is meant to happen will!. If you love this man who is in the millitary then no matter where you live you will be in good company!. You could also maybe readjust your dream and say that you would want to live in Hawaii when you both retire!. Just start slowly letting going and stay positive about it!. Look at all the good that could come!.
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't let anyone take your dreams away from you!. Some may believe that that is all we have to keep ourselves sane!. Maybe you can have sort of the same yet different dream but do it somewhere else!. There are plenty of beatufiul and healthy lifestyles out there you just have to find them!. Better yet think about your future instead of dwell on your dream!.!. It could help you to let it go and start getting excited about what lies ahead!.!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
well stick with your dreams if that's what you want!. i'm sort of doing the same thing in certain aspects of my life!. if you have to leave, then leave!.!.!.but if it is your dream to be there, stay there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are so many beautiful place to check out!.It sounds like you have a job where you can traval like a nurse if so see what is availableWww@Answer-Health@Com
Can you look for a place with similar qualities!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
You aren't being a baby, you sound like you are a hard working, goal oriented woman!. Life sometimes doesn't go the way we want, but when we look back we can see that something much better came along!. I am not saying you won't ever live in Hawaii , Who knows!? I don't think you need to let go of your dream!. First, are you sure you want to be a military wife!? If he is worth it, you could live in all sorts of interesting places!. Next, try to put some of the money you saved for your home away, where it can't be used for awhile!. I am sure you are still young enough to realize so much and you have a great future ahead!. Live one day at a time and maybe you'll be saying "Aloha" before you know it!Www@Answer-Health@Com