I hate weekends, am I werid?!
Question: I hate weekends, am I werid!?
Hi,
For the longest time now I have absolutely dispised weekends!. I think it's because of a few different reasons!. One being I feel more alone and panicky with my mental problems knowing that my GP clinic is closed and I can't really contact anyone I know to help me If needs be and this makes me feel worse!. Also I am not someone who goes out at night or drinks so I find the weekends boring and long!. I feel uneasy that the world changes for those 2 days a week, bussiness change hours, nothing is consistant and i think the biggest fear for me is being alone but it's stupid really because even on weekdays nothing in my life is much different anyway!.
does anyone else have a problem with weekends!? Or fear/worry about anything related to them!?
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For the longest time now I have absolutely dispised weekends!. I think it's because of a few different reasons!. One being I feel more alone and panicky with my mental problems knowing that my GP clinic is closed and I can't really contact anyone I know to help me If needs be and this makes me feel worse!. Also I am not someone who goes out at night or drinks so I find the weekends boring and long!. I feel uneasy that the world changes for those 2 days a week, bussiness change hours, nothing is consistant and i think the biggest fear for me is being alone but it's stupid really because even on weekdays nothing in my life is much different anyway!.
does anyone else have a problem with weekends!? Or fear/worry about anything related to them!?
thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
If your weird then i am too!. I'm exactly the same, i hate weekends and for all the reasons you mentioned, Monday is my fave day cos it's the longest time before the next weekend!. Sometimes i even hate fridays just because i know the weekend is almost here!. I just try to keep myself as occupied as possible and hope the weekend goes by quickly!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
im the same way, sundays and saturdays always suck but i work on the weekends and my anxiety makes me not go out hardly ever!. tonigh i wanted to go to a football game between the top two teams from texas and louisiana!. my naxiety is killing me but im hear for you if you want to talkWww@Answer-Health@Com
well if that makes you weird, i'm weird too b/c i don't like weekends either!. it's usually on the weekends that i end up binging or feeling extremely lonely!. i also always feel like i wasted my weekend by not doing anything productive!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
i used to hate weekends but i got a job and all that changed now i cant wait for them but sometimes i still do hate them, you not weird you just feel more vulnerable on a weekend Www@Answer-Health@Com
well i must be weird to because i don't like weekends either simply because it brings all the drunk teenagers out in the streets which is not alot of fun and im not keen on the new year eitherWww@Answer-Health@Com
Weekends are hard for me too!. Especially as my partner is no longer here to share them with!. You are not weird!.
I am here for you and we will get through the weekend together!.
:-)))
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I am here for you and we will get through the weekend together!.
:-)))
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No, you're not weird!. Its just your opinion!. :)
I hate weekends too lol!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hate weekends too lol!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're crazy!.!.!.!.!.!.or you have a nice job/go to a fun school!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i hate wknds bc i work at a restaurant and wknds are busy and stressful! lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
you are not alone by any means!! At one time I could say i hated weekends too!. It seemed as though I had way too much time on my hands!. I requested to bring work home just to keep me occupied b/c i didn't like to go anywhere alone!.
I managed to work my way with a raise, but still had the problem!. Saturdays then became okay for me and i found other ways to stay busy!. My favorite was still to go to barnes and noble and spend hours in there reviewing books, games, magazines, music, drinking coffee!. Before ya know it - the day has gone by and you have learned an awful lot!.
Now I have a problem on Sundays!. I had a great time on Sundays during my childhood so i have yet to figure out why!. I can only sleep on Sundays - can't find any other reason to get out of p!.j!.s and do anything productive!. The absolute only reason I ever get up, is when my husband isn't home cause I have 2 young children!.
As the other guy suggested church is a great resource!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I managed to work my way with a raise, but still had the problem!. Saturdays then became okay for me and i found other ways to stay busy!. My favorite was still to go to barnes and noble and spend hours in there reviewing books, games, magazines, music, drinking coffee!. Before ya know it - the day has gone by and you have learned an awful lot!.
Now I have a problem on Sundays!. I had a great time on Sundays during my childhood so i have yet to figure out why!. I can only sleep on Sundays - can't find any other reason to get out of p!.j!.s and do anything productive!. The absolute only reason I ever get up, is when my husband isn't home cause I have 2 young children!.
As the other guy suggested church is a great resource!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I dont hate weekends, but I hate sundays always have and always will do !.
I think my hatred stems from childhood , I had a mother who always seemed to throw tantrums which seemed more intense on sundays !.!. When I say tantrums this is an understatement she on occassions smashed up the furniture and destroyed precious things in the home!.
It has left a mental scar on my brain so i still hate sundays but i deal with it !.
I now work weekends and this means sundays are busy and filled !. Ifind this is a help!.
I wonder if your hatred of weekends stems from some experienc you had or is it just an insecurity thing you have!.
Believe me if you do need help at the weekend you will still be able to get it !.Hospitals are open 24/7 so no problem there!.
Being alone is a problem for everybody so I think you may want to try and get out and about , have you thought of joining a church , I aint religious but found the people in a church were generally good people and cared about others!. when I was a member of a church I found the social side much more important than the religious side !.
I hope you learn to perhaps not exactly love the weekend , but begin to tolerate it and maybe eventually look forward to it a little!.
Oh and your not weird at all lol !Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think my hatred stems from childhood , I had a mother who always seemed to throw tantrums which seemed more intense on sundays !.!. When I say tantrums this is an understatement she on occassions smashed up the furniture and destroyed precious things in the home!.
It has left a mental scar on my brain so i still hate sundays but i deal with it !.
I now work weekends and this means sundays are busy and filled !. Ifind this is a help!.
I wonder if your hatred of weekends stems from some experienc you had or is it just an insecurity thing you have!.
Believe me if you do need help at the weekend you will still be able to get it !.Hospitals are open 24/7 so no problem there!.
Being alone is a problem for everybody so I think you may want to try and get out and about , have you thought of joining a church , I aint religious but found the people in a church were generally good people and cared about others!. when I was a member of a church I found the social side much more important than the religious side !.
I hope you learn to perhaps not exactly love the weekend , but begin to tolerate it and maybe eventually look forward to it a little!.
Oh and your not weird at all lol !Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not so much on Saturday, but definitely on Sunday!. For me it's because weekends were always s**t when I was growing up!. We lived out in the country in Ireland and my mother was a depressed mess!. I wonder if your hatred for the weekend stems back to your childhood!. Plus I can understand the insecurity of your GP being closed!. I have suffered with severe depression through all of my teens and twenties and hate it when I know my counsellor is not at the cente or everyone else is with their family and I'm alone with my kids!. My husband often works on a Sunday and it's really miserable here because I don't have my family around me!. What a sob story!.!.!. perhaps I should be happy with what I have!.!.!. 3 beautiful, healthy children and a loving husband!. Self pity over!.!.!. night night!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com