Why am i such a perfectionist?!


Question: Why am i such a perfectionist!?
I try to make everything perfect all the time, but it's only with my physical appearance!. i recently started hyperventalating when my lipstick smeared at the last minute and i started crying when my mascara smeared!. I always feel like people are judging me and when i go someplace imporatant, even when i know i look great, when i come home, i always wondor if i could have looked better and start feeling almost sick!. Almost evertime i paint my nails, i have to keep redoing them over and over again just to get them perfect!. What is going on and how can i get rid of this obsession without going to a phsyciatrist!. I always feel like people are judging me because they are!. Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Everyone has their issues with their appearance, and they are usually not noticed by others!. We're all harder on ourselves than others are!.
Don't worry about what other people think!.!.!.it really doesn't matter!. There are more important things to think or worry about than your nail polish, lipstick and mascara!. Seriously, beauty fades!.!.!.stupid lasts forever!.
No, I'm not calling you stupid, it's just a saying!. But, you're making yourself miserable over things that add up to nothing!. People should like you for who you are, and if they criticize you for stupid things, they need to get a life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Oh i hate it when my makeup goes wrong at the last minute! I spose u should give your self a little more time :) I also get paranoid with painting my nails !.!.!. Have you tried talking to your friends!?!?!?
And if you feel good about your self - who cares what anyone else thinks!? Rise above it !.!.!. people who are judgemental must feel insecure themselves!.
At least you make an effort to look good!.
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Well, sounds like you are insecure about yourself!. You need to stop worrying about what others think of you and just concentrate on you and being yourself!. Just be yourself and others will like you too!. That's all it is, is an insecurity nothing more than that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Perhaps your desire to "make things perfect' is an extension of your inner feelings & desires to control your emotions or a situation that is beyond your control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am such a perfectionist but only when it comes to work, I never like to give less than 110%, I dont know why though lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

you have anxiety!.try st john's wort to calm you down!.you can get it over the counter!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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