Could you give me advice please? :/?!
Question: Could you give me advice please!? :/!?
i went to the doctors the other day for my weight check up!.!. it was the first one since school started & in the summer i was doing really well but as soon as school started i lost about half a stone :/
my mum was really annoyed & said that i was making her & my dad were feeling really down about my weight & making it seem like my fault :(
i cant help having an eating disorder & that school triggers it :/ why doesnt she understand!?!? :(
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my mum was really annoyed & said that i was making her & my dad were feeling really down about my weight & making it seem like my fault :(
i cant help having an eating disorder & that school triggers it :/ why doesnt she understand!?!? :(
thank youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It would have been helpful if you put your current weight!.
Sometimes parents are at a loss as to how to help their children suffering with mental illnesses as nothing they do seems to make any difference!. They also look at your illness from a different view point than you!. They see their daughter purposefully starving herself and making herself ill and they think they are somehow responsible!. They also see a manipulative and selfish teenager!. Sorry to say, but this is how many anorexics appear to others!. You could try talking to your parents about how you feel as regards school and explain that anorexia is a form of control!. As you feel out of your comfort zone at school, you counter balance this by taking control of how much food you put in your mouthWww@Answer-Health@Com
Sometimes parents are at a loss as to how to help their children suffering with mental illnesses as nothing they do seems to make any difference!. They also look at your illness from a different view point than you!. They see their daughter purposefully starving herself and making herself ill and they think they are somehow responsible!. They also see a manipulative and selfish teenager!. Sorry to say, but this is how many anorexics appear to others!. You could try talking to your parents about how you feel as regards school and explain that anorexia is a form of control!. As you feel out of your comfort zone at school, you counter balance this by taking control of how much food you put in your mouthWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sorry your parents aren't helping you in your time of need!. Your doctor should be able to point you towards some kind of specific help, or try the websites below to find something in your area!. Depending on your relationship with your parents, could you try and explain to them about your eating disorder as they obviously don't understand it!. Giving them a few leaflets about it, writing your mother a letter!. There's also a place called Parentline!. You mother can call them for free to discuss her worries about you and get more information!. (Their number is 0808 800 2222) Speaking to them will mean your parent's don't put any more pressure on you as they can talk about their feelings with someone who isn't suffering!.They are worried about you more as they don't know what's going on!. Oh yes, and it's not your fault!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hello!.
If you are not eating you may be wanting to hurt yourself!. Why would you want to do that!?
Your parents don't want you to hurt yourself, they made you and watched you grow for years and they are concerned!.
I think they may be confused because they are not in your head to feel and see what you see only that you are hurting yourself!. That is confusing for them and hurts them!.
To them school is for Education, friends and development although, yes it can be tough!.
So can you talk to them!? What is it about school that you may be afraid of!? You could start by looking at that!.
Maybe talk to them, or reply to this mail!.
God Bless you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you are not eating you may be wanting to hurt yourself!. Why would you want to do that!?
Your parents don't want you to hurt yourself, they made you and watched you grow for years and they are concerned!.
I think they may be confused because they are not in your head to feel and see what you see only that you are hurting yourself!. That is confusing for them and hurts them!.
To them school is for Education, friends and development although, yes it can be tough!.
So can you talk to them!? What is it about school that you may be afraid of!? You could start by looking at that!.
Maybe talk to them, or reply to this mail!.
God Bless you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com