I need help I almost killed my mom?!
Question: I need help I almost killed my mom!?
I'm 18 and I almost killed my mom this morning!.!.!.I was talking to her and she said something and I got mad and I threw something at her and hit her on the temple and she started crying and I felt really bad!.!.!.she could have died!.!.and I'm still feeling really bad I dont know what to do!.!.it's like sometimes I dont even realize what Im doing until it's too late!.!.what can I do!.!.!.I feel like cryingWww@Answer-Health@Com
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apollogize and feel bad,my friend
never do this again!.
make your mom be happy not sad,she's your motherWww@Answer-Health@Com
never do this again!.
make your mom be happy not sad,she's your motherWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hey,
you need to ask yourself a few questions:
- do you think you are capable of doing this again
- does your temper get out of control easily
- was the issue that made you mad even worthy of the amount of anger it generated
- is anger or depression something affecting your life
- is yoru mum afraid of you or any other family members!?
I think you need to perhaps sit down with your mum and talk about this issue, as you said yourself sometimes you dont even realse what your doing!. Ask your mum how she feels you have been and try to remember not to take what she says as personal criticism, you have to sit down calmly and be prepared to hear things you may not like or even agree with as we all see things differently!.
I think perhaps if you feel you need help with this and its a part of your behaviour that you want to deal with and remove from yourself then go to your gp and explain this!. Being angry is a normal emotion but when it gets to the stage of hurting others and loosing control of our actions then thats when we need some advice
best of luck
xWww@Answer-Health@Com
you need to ask yourself a few questions:
- do you think you are capable of doing this again
- does your temper get out of control easily
- was the issue that made you mad even worthy of the amount of anger it generated
- is anger or depression something affecting your life
- is yoru mum afraid of you or any other family members!?
I think you need to perhaps sit down with your mum and talk about this issue, as you said yourself sometimes you dont even realse what your doing!. Ask your mum how she feels you have been and try to remember not to take what she says as personal criticism, you have to sit down calmly and be prepared to hear things you may not like or even agree with as we all see things differently!.
I think perhaps if you feel you need help with this and its a part of your behaviour that you want to deal with and remove from yourself then go to your gp and explain this!. Being angry is a normal emotion but when it gets to the stage of hurting others and loosing control of our actions then thats when we need some advice
best of luck
xWww@Answer-Health@Com
That's pretty harsh, and I hope that now that you've done that, you would never do it again!. When you get angry, you have to remember what kind of damage that you can do!. You may want to talk to her about taking Anger Management classes!.
And if she seems to say things that make you mad often, then you need to try to inform your mother that when she says certain things, it really hurts you, but be prepared to hear some back at you!.
My own mother pisses me off a lot, and unfortunately for me, she will never change, but I've learned to deal with her terrible remarks!. Hopefully your mother is open to change!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And if she seems to say things that make you mad often, then you need to try to inform your mother that when she says certain things, it really hurts you, but be prepared to hear some back at you!.
My own mother pisses me off a lot, and unfortunately for me, she will never change, but I've learned to deal with her terrible remarks!. Hopefully your mother is open to change!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Okay!.
You're not bipolar or anything, I'm assuming you have no emotional problems and you just got mad!.
What did you throw at her!?
But you do sound like you feel really, really bad, that's a step right there in the right direction!. Go to your mom IMMEADIATLY!!!!!!!!!! Tell her all of this that you've told us!. Tell her that you feel awful, tell her that you "don't even realize what you're doin until it's too late!."
I have a temper to, and when I punched my little brother in the face, I realized it was time to change!. I sat down with him and my parents and told them everything that was going through my mind!. Now when I'm angry or sad, I write about it and or talk about it with someone!. Just TALK to your mom and tell her what was going through your head!. then you both can take steps to reducing your anger!.
good luck and hope this helps!
lillian Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're not bipolar or anything, I'm assuming you have no emotional problems and you just got mad!.
What did you throw at her!?
But you do sound like you feel really, really bad, that's a step right there in the right direction!. Go to your mom IMMEADIATLY!!!!!!!!!! Tell her all of this that you've told us!. Tell her that you feel awful, tell her that you "don't even realize what you're doin until it's too late!."
I have a temper to, and when I punched my little brother in the face, I realized it was time to change!. I sat down with him and my parents and told them everything that was going through my mind!. Now when I'm angry or sad, I write about it and or talk about it with someone!. Just TALK to your mom and tell her what was going through your head!. then you both can take steps to reducing your anger!.
good luck and hope this helps!
lillian Www@Answer-Health@Com
But feeling bad about it already shows that you still have a certain level of care and concern for your mother!. I am glad that you have a repentant heart!. Try to control yourself in future!. Take a deep breath, count to ten!. If it doesn't work, think of the consequences, remember this feeling next time you want to do it again!.
Good luck;D
An apology would be nice!. Ask for a forgiveness!. Tell her you won't do it again and mean it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck;D
An apology would be nice!. Ask for a forgiveness!. Tell her you won't do it again and mean it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to see a counselor - talk to a therapist - someone who can help you modify your behavior!.
Prison is not a fun place and once you kill someone you'll have no life and no choices at all!. Please call someone today and try to get help!. Many places offer free or low cost counseling services!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Prison is not a fun place and once you kill someone you'll have no life and no choices at all!. Please call someone today and try to get help!. Many places offer free or low cost counseling services!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Anger management classes really help!. It's better you feel bad that not feeling anything at all, then you'd really have a problem!. I think it's just a simple anger management problem!. Remember anger is a weakness and is a great downfall!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi,
We living in a age where there are many emotional upsets!.
First thing you have to do, is talk to your mother!.
Meaning you tell her how you feel, then you both go and get help!.
Meaning counseling
Also crying is great its a release !.!. so cry, scream!. ***
Release your anxiety and frustrations!.!.!. but not on your mother or friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
We living in a age where there are many emotional upsets!.
First thing you have to do, is talk to your mother!.
Meaning you tell her how you feel, then you both go and get help!.
Meaning counseling
Also crying is great its a release !.!. so cry, scream!. ***
Release your anxiety and frustrations!.!.!. but not on your mother or friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
U KNO WAT dont listen 2 those fuc kers who say "oh go get help" damn it help doesnt work the only 1 who can change anything is u !.!.ur the only 1 who can change it im sorry but seriously dont listen 2 those basterds who r saying "Oh u need help " or "go get sum help " Dont listen im serious if u want 2 do sumthin about this then DEAL WITH IT urself
btw i found tht out the hard way!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
btw i found tht out the hard way!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't worry too much when people get angry they can't always control what they do!. just calm down and go see a doctor a bout it!. also talk to your mother, tell her u are sorry and she will understand, try to get her to help u to get help!.!.!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Go se a doctor about your anger and get some anger management!.
The one good thing is you feel bad and know what you did was wrong!. Get help before you do someone some real harm!.
Good luck!. xWww@Answer-Health@Com
The one good thing is you feel bad and know what you did was wrong!. Get help before you do someone some real harm!.
Good luck!. xWww@Answer-Health@Com
YOU CAN ONLY cry & APOLOGIZE!.
but from inner heart
she will start crying & hug u & kiss you
both will feel better
BUT THIS IS A LESSON FOR YOU & SHOUD NOT BE REPEATED!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
but from inner heart
she will start crying & hug u & kiss you
both will feel better
BUT THIS IS A LESSON FOR YOU & SHOUD NOT BE REPEATED!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like you need therapy for anger issues, there has to be some reason you have them!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds like u have anger issues!.
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While I sense that you truly do feel bad and repentant, I am going to have to agree with the people suggesting you see a therapist, and maybe take some anger management classes!. That incident could very well have turned into an assault charge, but I am sure your mother loves you and wants what is best for you!. When we lose control, we MUST find a way of insuring it does not ever happen again!. I have often fantasized lately about just knocking the crap out of someone who irritates me!. I told my doctor, and he said it was part of my bi-polar condition and immediately put me on seroquel!. This is a new thing for me, and I hate the feeling, as I am usually a very patient and loving person, so it scared me!. I am not saying you need drugs, or that you are even bi-polar, but it might not be a bad idea to be evaluated by a professional!. I am sure you don't really have a wish to harm someone you love, or anyone else for that matter!. I'll bet you are feeling pretty low right now, just talk to your mother about getting help, I'd be willing to bet she will do all she can!. Best of luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com