My life has no direction?!


Question: My life has no direction!?

The reason I am saying this as I am 29 years old and have no direction in my life!.I made the choice by quitting high school in 1996 as I didn't care about my education!.All I did was work at low end jobs and party!.I finally woke up at the age of 25 as I had a life altering experience!.I lost my mother from cancer,I almost died from a severe gallbladder attack and I realize that I will not get no where with the lifestyle I was living!.
I got married in 2006 and the sadest part was I did not had my dream wedding like I wanted to!.1st time being married and having the JP is not your dream wedding as my immediate family refused to attend!.I was angry but I learned to let it go!.I reached out to my brothers,they told me they do not want nothing to do with me as they refused to let go of the past
I have a hard time with friendships and trusting people as I was betrayed by lots of people in my life which hurts my husband as he's close to his family and his friends!.I'm tired of living the life of a hermit but it is difficult to open myself up around my husbands family or friends!.
I am seeing a therapist but it seems like everything I say to her gets twisted around and after each session,I have a awful headache!.I know I do suffer from severe depression!.I'm trying to better my life overall by going back to school and getting my GED and hoping to enroll in college by next year!.Its difficult to move on when I let this eat me when all I'm trying to do is shut the door on my past!.!.

Please,if you are going to bash me!.!.I prefer you keep your comments to yourself!.
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The hardest thing for many of us to do is forgive ourselves when our choices in life have hurt others!. Hold your head up high and continue to go to school!. Your family is looking back instead of forward!. Your past is just that, you can not change what has happened or undo the choices you have made!. Don't be afraid to reach out to others, your husband loves you and his family will also if you give them a chance!. I'd suggest a new therapist if the one you are seeing makes you feel worse after each session!. Have faith that your future will be brighter because of your hard work and your family will lay the past to rest!. I wish you the very best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get your GED and then enroll part time at a community college!. Take basic classes like english, history, psychology!. These are the kind of classes you can apply to a lot of degrees, in the meantime figure out what you would like to major in!. Nursing is very promising!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am so sorry to hear about your Mom!. That in itself is a hard adjustment!. We all need a mom to talk to when we need support!. I think that also losing a job is equally hard to deal with!. Does your husband understand and being supportive through it all!? I think you should go to school, it is never to late! Good for you! You aren't being a mooch, I am sure you cook and clean and do laundry!. Don't be hard on yourself, you are doing what you should be doing!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Your life has become challenging - but there is a way out!.

We need to start asking what Our Father intends for us - and I believe if you do that - things will turn around!.

Often, we try to construct our lives in a manner that He does not intend!.

You sound bright and honest and expressive!.

Start praying and asking for direction!.

If you start praying with your husband, your marriage will be repaired!.

You can start by gently holding his arm and saying softly - Lord, thank you for this husband, help us in our need, and help me be the wife he needs!."

I promise - he will feel loved and respected by his wife - the first step toward a wonderful relationship!.

Once you have God directing your paths - you will intuitively "know" how to resolve each issue!.

But make sure your marriage is solid through this period!.

Bless you - I will pray for you tonight!.

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I'm always reluctant to offer my best answer because I know that many people have had problems/bad experiences in the past and are often resistant to this but I would feel guilty if I did not say this : Every person's life has a "God -sized hole" in it that can only be filled by God!. People try to fill that gap with a lot of things: money, drugs, power, sex, love, excitement !.!.!.!.!. and some feel pretty good for a while, but the only thing that fills it is God!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

u should consider waiting before u bring a child into ur current situation!. it is not fair to the child and though it might not be something u want to hear it is a valid point!.

get ur GED and then go to college, if ur having second thoughts about ur therapist get a new one!. don't pay for something that isn't working!. oh and ur not mooching off ur husband, for richer or poorer, right besides ur not the only one unemployed!. and who cares if ur family ignores u, its there loss i was signed away by my mom and taken by the state from my dad and i turned out alright so far with a couple of bumps along the way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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