How to find the power to make things work?!


Question: How to find the power to make things work!?
please help!. i am not a miserable person or anything, i just have some insecurities!. for example i am in college but when i think of my future i am sure i will have the most difficult time ever!. or, i rarely ask girls out because i am afraid of rejection!. i have finally asked the girl i like out and she accepted! but i am soo pessimistic! i say "even if we become a couple, it will not last long!. maybe i should end it now!.!.!." i am also afraid i will want to spend time with her but i have the phobia that at home my parents will have a problem with me leaving all the time!. (they are not too strict but i still think of that)!. I just need to find the power to stand up for my needs!.!.!.!.!.!.please help!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I think you have already taken the step to be more confident by asking this girl out and she said yes!. That is all it takes stepping out of your comfort zone and doing, start with one thing at a time, and even if the result is negative, try again!.

We never move forward if we do not try, and failure is not a bad thing, its a way of moving forward!. There is a saying ' its not that we aim too high and miss, its that we aim too low and hit'!.

We are all full of insecurities its just that some people are better at hiding these than others!. Every time you try and project yourself as confident will actually increase your ability to do that again!.

During your day, (morning is a good time) repeat a positive sentence to yourself in the mirror, something like, I can achieve what ever I want, or similar, this will start to be a thought process which is positive, instead of your present ones which are negative, and it is these inner thoughts which shape you, these are the thoughts you have to change!.

Don't be afraid of failure, don't let this stop you achieving what you want in life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

What I've been doing these past 3weeks is I have been looking at life from a different angle!. I used to be very insecure, without reason, and now I just look at everything I do is something new, living for the moment!. And if you're afraid it wont work, don't think about the future, think about the Now!. Are you happy she accepted!? Yes, of course you are!. Then when you go out with her, simply be yourself and live for the moment!. Give your entire self to the situation that you're actually with this girl!. And don't think about the future, that would be a big mistake!. If you're happy Now, isnt that all that matters!?
It could be you have fun, or not!. But wait judging the situation till you're actually in the situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes, you are pessimistic and insecure, which is a common problem of all of us and most if you are in you aer a teenager!. This sounds silly but repeat to yourself : "You can do it"!. It works!. Need to work your self esteem!. And you will only lose your fears when you fail!. So choose a girl, prepared to be rejected and be rejected!. Next time it will be easier!. You'll get more confident by practicing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

try to go out a couple of times and see how it goes!. Before you go think of all the positive things you can think about yourself!. Examples!.!.good looking, friendly, smart" you are in college", things that you do to help people, etc!. Then with all that in your mind, relax, breath!. And be your real self!. She must have liked ya or she would not have agreed to go out with you!. Have fun!! Www@Answer-Health@Com

I recommend this website called http://www!.LetsReflect!.com

It changed my life



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