Having a.d.h.d is really depressing?!


Question: Having a!.d!.h!.d is really depressing!?
i have a!.d!.h!.d, its quite bad iv always loads of energy when im around people and stuff, and today i was in school and there was a school mass (im 17 btw) and i couldn't sit still or keep quiet and whenever someone would ask whats wrong because i was fidgeting so much and really hyper or something i'd say iv a!.d!.h!.d they would give me looks like im a freak similar things happen all the time and if someone asks my friends whats up with mr they it they phrase it "she has something wrong with her" they dont get there upsetting me and its the way they see it!.!.!.!. i fidget the whole time and can be really loud but!.!.!. im not going to take the medication as i believe its a part of who i am and i dont want to change it!.!.!. but why do people treat me like a freak>!? like they never know what ill doWww@Answer-Health@Com


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My son has ADHD and he struggles every day, until recently ADHD was seen as an excuse for bad parenting and due to peoples ignorance it still is!. There is a lack of understanding about this condition and all the repercussions from it, my son takes Concerta XL and it really helps him to concentrate, but does not turn him into a zombie!.
Why not ask if you can do a 5 min presentation about ADHD to your class, so that people can be educated and know that you are not a freak but someone with very special qualities!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

people are so judgemental!. nobody said you have to be a certain way or act a certain way or even look a certain way!. you are who you are and dont change yourself!. you were born this way and thats how you are!. ppl have to change and accept everyone for who they are!. nobody is perfect therefore nobody is wrong!. YOURE not wrong for howyou are!. YOURE not a freak either!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

i have 2 sons with the same condition,we tried lots of remedies, but the only thing that worked was ritalin, i think you should seek special medical advice , you should never self diagnose and treat!. speak to the first person who said you had a!.d!.h!.d!. and ask advice!. good luck!.
P:S: if you have A:D:H:D your school is entitled to extra funding, to aid your education!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Have you considered one of the excellent medications out now for ADHD !? You are an adult and if you have college plans, you'll need to buckle down and study!. When you get to college, you'll be amazed at how many people are on meds for ADD!. It is a common disorder that is quite treatable with medication!. In the meantime, while still in high school you might want to try engaging in "intentional fidgeting" by taking notes during mass - you'll look interested, not bored (but don't doodle!)!. Also, a little foot-tapping and gum chewing can help with your nervous energy!. My best friend had one of those gel stress balls that she would squeeze all the time!. She really worked on that thing!. Our teachers didn't mind because it kept her calm!. As for your friends, you should be able to explain to them that their phrasing is rough on you and they should be able to rephrase!. ADD and ADHD is nothing to be ashamed of!Www@Answer-Health@Com

dw about it i also got adhd!. im always loud and hyper doing random stuff , only a few close friends know about it, but alot of people just think im a psycho or a freak, and my teachers are always moaning at me!. it can get frustratin and slightly depressing, but i guess we just hae to pull through it!. because lets face it if they didnt have people like us in their lives theyd be soo bored they wouldnt know what to do with themselves!. i know whenever i go to school i brighten up the place (providing im in a good mood that day) but yeh we should embrace our vibrant personalities and not worry bout people thinking we are deranged lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

because they dont understand what your going through!. just like if you saw a maniac shooting up a school you would probably think hes crazy!. people are afraid of what they do not understand!. my brother also has adhd but hes just like any other person!. but i would just try to take the meds because its not worth all of the people critcising you and making you feel bad just take it and dont let anyone know!. and in a few years you can stop taking it and you might stop fidgeting!. couldnt hurt to tryWww@Answer-Health@Com





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