Why am I feeling this way?!


Question: Why am I feeling this way!?
I've been with my man for 4 years now!.!.we met when we were 19 and we were kinda on and off!.!.we both had serious relationships at about 20-23ish!.!.!.at age 23 we became friends again!.!.!.then became more than friends!.!.!.!.and now we're 27 and have been engaged for a year!. Even though I have had slight doubts about his "partying" behavior I have no doubt in my mind that he is and will be faithful to me!. He supports us both financially and even though he was not raised with religion in his life!.!.he attends church with me and is open to learning religion!. We are quite different when it comes to background!.!.not too different!.!.you tell me!. He is Mexican/American no one in his family has attended college!.!.!.or higher education!.!.although they are all middle class and make good money!. He is in sales and does a very good job (always top performer)!. I am German and come from an educated family (Ph!.D!.s, M!.D!.s, etc) and value prestige and professionalism-also middle class (same as his family)!. We are opne with one another in discussing conflict, etc!. but sometimes I wonder how the future will look!. He likes to party!.!.!.hang out with the guys!.!.drink!.!.get drunk!.!.act silly!.!.!.and I find that all pretty annoying!.!.I am over that "frat" boy behavior!. He sees it as innocent fun and a release from work stress!.!.!.I see it as embarrassing but don't want to be the controlling spouse who has him on a leash!. Here's the problem!.!.this weekend we went to a football game and there he was goofing around with his friends!.!.acting like a kid!.!.and I ignored it!.!.at one point I walk to the consession area and I see my ex!.!.!.some guy who I briefly had a cute lil college relationship with!.!.and my heart is beating super fast!.!.I don't even know exactly why!.!.maybe just from surprise of seeing him!.!.!.he didn't acknowledge me!.!.he saw me but quickly grabbed on to his wife's hand (he's been married for about 3 -4 years now)!.!.and it was weird seeing him!.!.!.I think I was jealous! He was just sitting there enjoying the game with his wife like a normal guy watching football!.!.not a crazy kid playing around with his friends!. He was planning on going to law-school!.!.!.no clue if he ever did or what he is doing career wise!.!.!.but I was also jealous of that!.!.jealous that he is smart!.!.and more on my level intellectually!. Now I am sad!. I am sad cause I love my fiance and I know he loves me!.!.but seeing my ex threw me off!.!.I'm super confused now!. It's not that I want to be with him!.!.!.my ex!.!.!.we didn't even have anything going back then!.!.!.bt I am jealous that he is mature and smart!.!.and my fiance still acts like a 21 year old!.!.I'm not saying that I would be happier with my ex!.!.!.I'm just confused!.!.!.what gives!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Well, my friend, I would have to say this is maybe a sign that you need to wait longer before you commit totally to your fianc



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