Can someone help, im so lonely!?!
Question: Can someone help, im so lonely!!?
Ok, i am REALLY shy and i even feel akward talking to my own family! I have one friend at college but we're not close!. I have no other friends, i had to leave school because i was so depressed from having no friends!. It's extremely hard because im so shy!. I'm sick of being known as 'the quiet girl!.' I've had counselling but it's not helping!. My mum doesn't seem to care, she's too interested in her new boyfriend!. Can someone please help me I feel like dying:(Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Your next to the last sentence states exactly what is troubling you!. Your mom doesn't seem to care or she doesn't care!? Personally no man could ever come between me and my children!. I am married so that helps!.
You sound like you have been shut out!. You can let it get the best of you or you can make something out of yourself!. You recognize you have a shy problem and that's good!. At least you know it!.
My sister has that problem too and me I talk to any one, almost!.
I would try a class that is going to put you out there where you don't want to be!. My son took a class in public speaking (he raved about it), that would do it!. If you don't, you will always have this problem of approaching people or talking to people!. Another way to end the awkwardness of talking is taking a creative writing class where you get to focus on how to write therefore making how you speak to others sharper and to the point!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You sound like you have been shut out!. You can let it get the best of you or you can make something out of yourself!. You recognize you have a shy problem and that's good!. At least you know it!.
My sister has that problem too and me I talk to any one, almost!.
I would try a class that is going to put you out there where you don't want to be!. My son took a class in public speaking (he raved about it), that would do it!. If you don't, you will always have this problem of approaching people or talking to people!. Another way to end the awkwardness of talking is taking a creative writing class where you get to focus on how to write therefore making how you speak to others sharper and to the point!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I was always shy also!. As you get older you will have different ideas, goals, outlook in life etc!. My parents were foreign and did not understand me at all!. Hang in there and one day, you will meet a certain someone that will be there for you!. Honestly one good friend is better than a whole lot of friends!. Find an interest like reading, scrap booking, crochet, knitting, cross stitch, etc!. even religious organizations!. They all have groups that get together!. I like the idea of a health club to meet people of all ages!. Honestly most people do not look like movie stars!. There are a lot of people just like you and the way I was!. I found love and happiness and you will too!. Just hang in there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't be shy!.
you know the answer you just need to work on that!.try to communicate more with people around you!.your neighbors,people you see in a shop on a bus!.!.!.
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come to yahoo answers! it will help you the most!.you won't feel lonely when you know you have someone to talk to!.most people here are ready to listen
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you know the answer you just need to work on that!.try to communicate more with people around you!.your neighbors,people you see in a shop on a bus!.!.!.
AND
come to yahoo answers! it will help you the most!.you won't feel lonely when you know you have someone to talk to!.most people here are ready to listen
;)
good luck
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Get involved in a Christian church near you!. Usually they have a youth program or single classes!. That would be a way to meet new friends, they usually welcome you with open arms!. The pastor or youth director will be someone to talk to and will listen to you!.
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Wat ever you do don't shut yourself away and let your head win your better than that! tell yourself i will get more confident drum it in to your head! i left school because of the same thing and now my life is so bad because i let my depression win
don't let it beat you
just hold on
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don't let it beat you
just hold on
goodluck xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Get counseling!.
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I really want to give you a hug right now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm like you!. I can go to a party and just stand in the corner and watch!. I try and will people to come talk to me!.!.!. cause I'm lonely and super shy!. It is never going to happen though!. I know this!. If I dont' do the hard thing and put myself out there no one will come talk to me!.
So I take a drink and go and stand in a group!. I listen to everyone talk and follow along the conversation with my eyes!. I offer and yea, uh-huh, or i agree here and there!.!.!. so I seem involved!. Guess what this is how I catch peoples attention!.
In class I do the same thing I FORCE myself to go and get involved in this same mannerism with a discussion in the class!. When I get the courage I start talking!. I've actually made some friends doing this!. I go and look for other people who look similar to me and maybe shy even like me and I get them to talk!.
Don't go and drop out and shut yourself away!. That will never make you happy!. It will never get you what you want!. Re-enroll in school and take a chance! You can do it! Just go and practice and talk to people!. It's alot easier than you think and no one has EVER been mean to me when I tried this!. They always talk to me, sure it doesn't always equal a friendship!.!.!. but sometimes it does!Www@Answer-Health@Com
So I take a drink and go and stand in a group!. I listen to everyone talk and follow along the conversation with my eyes!. I offer and yea, uh-huh, or i agree here and there!.!.!. so I seem involved!. Guess what this is how I catch peoples attention!.
In class I do the same thing I FORCE myself to go and get involved in this same mannerism with a discussion in the class!. When I get the courage I start talking!. I've actually made some friends doing this!. I go and look for other people who look similar to me and maybe shy even like me and I get them to talk!.
Don't go and drop out and shut yourself away!. That will never make you happy!. It will never get you what you want!. Re-enroll in school and take a chance! You can do it! Just go and practice and talk to people!. It's alot easier than you think and no one has EVER been mean to me when I tried this!. They always talk to me, sure it doesn't always equal a friendship!.!.!. but sometimes it does!Www@Answer-Health@Com