Getting affected by what other people thinks... ruin everything? ?!
Question: Getting affected by what other people thinks!.!.!. ruin everything!? !?
Even though i know i shouldn't listen or care its just that my mind keep pushing the thought until i really got affected by it!. And right now i ruined EVERYTHING!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
When you totally accept yourself, what they think won't disturb you!.
Here's an example of what happened to me recently:
Last year I worked at two schools!. This year I'm at one school!.
The Principal from the school that I no longer work at called me to see if I had any of their equipment over at my current school!.
My fear was that she would think I was a thief!. I did have some of their equipment which I used for both schools, but it belonged to her school!.
I checked the equipment and it did have the name of her school written right on it!. So I told her I had some of her stuff and would bring it right over!.
The HONEST truth is, I knew I had that equipment and probably would have kept it to use at my current school!.
I felt like a thief keeping that equipment and yet I had all these great reasons for keeping it!. She never treated me like a thief, I did this to myself!.
I was ashamed for being dishonest, but once I accept that I DID do that and am capable of that behavior and that I am a thief, I can choose better actions next time if I want to keep my self-respect!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Here's an example of what happened to me recently:
Last year I worked at two schools!. This year I'm at one school!.
The Principal from the school that I no longer work at called me to see if I had any of their equipment over at my current school!.
My fear was that she would think I was a thief!. I did have some of their equipment which I used for both schools, but it belonged to her school!.
I checked the equipment and it did have the name of her school written right on it!. So I told her I had some of her stuff and would bring it right over!.
The HONEST truth is, I knew I had that equipment and probably would have kept it to use at my current school!.
I felt like a thief keeping that equipment and yet I had all these great reasons for keeping it!. She never treated me like a thief, I did this to myself!.
I was ashamed for being dishonest, but once I accept that I DID do that and am capable of that behavior and that I am a thief, I can choose better actions next time if I want to keep my self-respect!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well u could tell them that u thought these things and if they still dont believe u then they dont relaly love u!. if they care about u enough to accept that then that is the main point!. and first u could try apoligising and making stuff right by doing stuff for those people and staying intouch with them more!. if ur symptoms persist see a doctor eargantly for treatment i feel sorry for u =( *cries*Www@Answer-Health@Com
yea i agree :(
its impossible not to care about what others think
They say things more negative than positive = I am negativeWww@Answer-Health@Com
its impossible not to care about what others think
They say things more negative than positive = I am negativeWww@Answer-Health@Com
if you know that it is wrong , stop it , use self controlWww@Answer-Health@Com