My girlfriend is pushing me away since her dad (only parent) died and i dont kno!
Question: My girlfriend is pushing me away since her dad (only parent) died and i dont know how to help her!?
she goes through moods where she wont talk to me for days, she's 14 im 16 and we don't live that near so when she doesn't all i can do is text her!.
she has broken up with me 3 times because she is scared of being together but I know she needs me and she loves me so much when she is in her good moods!.!.
I don't know how to help her when she won't talk to me anymore,she won't tell me whats wrong so I can't help her
Any advice please, i love her more than anything and I know it's just her dad dying that has made her like this
her mum died a few years ago, her dad died this summer
i think she is scared of being hurt or of me being hurt, she said she is scared of losing me but that seems crazy to me
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Due to the fact that both her parents have died, especially in such a short space of only a few years, it is not surprising that she is going to push you away!. Because if she is attached to you she is scared then that you will also leave her like her parents did (just not in the same manner)!. This is going to be a very hard time for her obviously, so you may just have to bear with her until she can sort things out possibly, though it may take time!. My girlfriend lost her father two years ago, but I know she is still terribly upset about it, and I cannot imagine losing one, much less both, parents within a few years of one another!. Maybe you could try postponing(even unofficially) your romantic relationship and simply be more friends!. it may be hard for you, but in this way she can keep you as her friend, without having to be so concerned about losing you!. I think possibly the biggest thing you have to understand is that she really is scared of losing you, and that may sound "crazy", but after losing both parents it really is not at all!. Right now you should probably be thinking about her, and just being there for her!. I really do not know how to do much more than that, I guess some grief therapy possibly!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
With matters so sensitive, nothing is crazy!. Loosing a parent is the hardest thing but to loose them both at such a young age is insane to even try to comprehend!. Her head is in a million different places right now her heart has well if you love her like you say you do maybe what she needs is just not to talk but to know you are there if she needs to!. Maybe a nice card and some flowers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
OK first of all
i know where's shes from
i'm 13 but my father died when i was 8 and my mother gave me to my father at birth
Give her 5 days to cope with everything
Than tell her
How much you love her
that you'll be there for her
but not in those words please be ****** original we get tired from hearing the same thing from person to personWww@Answer-Health@Com
i know where's shes from
i'm 13 but my father died when i was 8 and my mother gave me to my father at birth
Give her 5 days to cope with everything
Than tell her
How much you love her
that you'll be there for her
but not in those words please be ****** original we get tired from hearing the same thing from person to personWww@Answer-Health@Com
im sooo sorry!.!.!.tell her u love her more than anything and u wont hurt her !ever! but dont constantly call her over and over tell her u'll always be there if she needs anyone and not to worry b!.c things will get better Www@Answer-Health@Com
SHES NOT REALLY APRECCIATING WHAT SHE HAS WITH YOU! SHE DOENST REALLY KNOW WHAT SHES GOT!
LET A LITTLE BIT OF TIME PASS, & IF SHES STILL ACTING THE SAME MOVE ON I N LIFE BUDDY!Www@Answer-Health@Com
LET A LITTLE BIT OF TIME PASS, & IF SHES STILL ACTING THE SAME MOVE ON I N LIFE BUDDY!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try to get her to move with you and buy her lots of gifts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ur too old for her first of all secondly just tell her if she needs u ur only a call away!. i mean shes going through a tuff time so just be strong Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try letting her move in with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just comfort her as best as u can i dont know what to tell u buddy!.!.!.sry to hear that!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
She is going through a lot especially with losing both parents at such a young age and it also seems like she is afraid to get too close to you because then it might not hurt as much if she loses you too!.!.
just try to be there for her as much as you can!. also she should be seeing a therapist or getting some kind of professional help!. maybe you can try to talk her into seeing one or going to the school counselor and telling him/her what is going on with your girlfriend!. yea she might be mad but she should be able to realize eventually that you are doing this because you love her and don't like to see her this way and realize that she is lucky to have youWww@Answer-Health@Com
just try to be there for her as much as you can!. also she should be seeing a therapist or getting some kind of professional help!. maybe you can try to talk her into seeing one or going to the school counselor and telling him/her what is going on with your girlfriend!. yea she might be mad but she should be able to realize eventually that you are doing this because you love her and don't like to see her this way and realize that she is lucky to have youWww@Answer-Health@Com
That's so sad! My father also died, a few years ago, and I had a boyfriend who probably felt a lot like you!. I would want him one second and then want to be alone the next!. You should make yourself available by telling her you're there for her!.!. she'll know that you are!. When she wants to be alone though, let her be alone!. Texting and calling can be annoying, remember that!. Don't ask what's wrong!.!.!. her parents are gone!.!.!. enough said!. Just let her be and hopefully/eventually she will be in touch with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com