How can I stop obsessing over how I look?!


Question: How can I stop obsessing over how I look!?
As a young girl, I would turn heads everywhere I went - the store, the mall, school - You name it!.

Up until late (3 1/2 years later) it has stopped a lot!. So much that I started noticing that I was obsessing over wanting to get people to notice me again!.

I was driving myself crazy!. In fact, I'm only 19!. Even when I dress up to my best, its not the same anymore!. I want to stop being like this because it has made me so miserable!. Like I am just not happy with myself anymore!.

I don't want to be all about looks!. I want to have values!.
How do I stop this obsession!? Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
welcome to the first stage of being an adult!.

you need to realize that at this day and age people tend to become more mature and overwhelmed with responsibilities at younger ages,not saying that mature men do not look at girl they just do not go to the mall, stores or school to do so!. most times when in places like these men are thinking about other things and do not really have time to side track for a trivial girl walking pass!.!. If you were 16 then yes the 16 year old guys who are in the mall to waste time will have a lot of time to look and follow you around!.

most times dressing up can cause girls to look immature and young and that is a big turn off to the average man believe it or not most girls who dress up to get attention tend not to get as much attention as girls that just flow natural because the more you dress up is the more unrealistic you look!.

stand in front the mirror look your self from head to toe and ask your self "who am I do i really need my looks to get attention!?" look your self in the eyes and answer truth fully and you will know what to do to stop you obsession!.

you sound like a intelligent girl and you obviously have some pretty strong values for coming on here and saying that you think that your wrong for being so shallow, the fact that you drive you self crazy says that you have a very high expectations for you self and i think you should just follow your mind and you will make the rite design for dealing with you looks obsession!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am sure there are millions of guys who would want to do things to you, but is that the kind of attention you want!? When guys turn their heads they are thinking about disgusting things that you probably don't want to know about!. All you need is one guy who thinks you are beautiful and I guarantee you that such a guy exists!. Just don't worry about it!. I am 31 and I still haven't found the right girl!. These things take time, but they will happen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Acceptance and being greatful for what you have!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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