Is America headed for a depression?!
Question: Is America headed for a depression!?
I have endometriosis and some other health problems!. My husband and I have dug ourselves into a financial hole trying to correct my health problems so that we can have a child!. We so desperately want to be able to have a child that we borrowed money and spent more than we had trying to fix things!. I still don't know if I will ever be able to get pregnant or not, but now with the economy the way it is and the debt we have gotten ourselves into with my health issues, I feel like we should stop trying to have a child now!. We have no money in savings, we owe so much, and if we are headed for a depression in debt and with no savings then we are in no position to adequately support a child!. My in-laws are putting pressure on me to have a child!. They do not know about my endo, my other health problems, or the financial situation it has gotten us into!. I'm depressed!. Thoughts!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I felt the same way as you did before my son was conceived!. It took five years and during that time my husband's employment fluctuated!. I didn't give up no matter what!. You are sad that it is so hard and you must invest so much in something others achieve without thinking!. By the time I got pregnant I was so hopeless I stopped counting days and whatnot!.
BTW, What finally worked for me was acupuncture!. AMAZINGLY helpful with all the menstrual issues and even migraines!.
IMHO you are thinking of excuses you can tell people to cover up if it never happens!. That's really okay, too!. I never discussed my infertility with my in-laws or acquaintances!. Just too painful!.
On the trying to conceive online discussion boards we would say that just think, if the treatment doesn't work, you won't need to save for college!.
Lastly, having a child does wonders for some men's careers!. Don't remember exactly why, but I did see some statistics!. My husband makes three times as much now as when I was TTC!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
BTW, What finally worked for me was acupuncture!. AMAZINGLY helpful with all the menstrual issues and even migraines!.
IMHO you are thinking of excuses you can tell people to cover up if it never happens!. That's really okay, too!. I never discussed my infertility with my in-laws or acquaintances!. Just too painful!.
On the trying to conceive online discussion boards we would say that just think, if the treatment doesn't work, you won't need to save for college!.
Lastly, having a child does wonders for some men's careers!. Don't remember exactly why, but I did see some statistics!. My husband makes three times as much now as when I was TTC!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Only if Obama wins!. If you remember when the republicans were in control of congress, the stock market was over 14,000!.!.!. Now that the democrats are in control, Pelosi in particular, the stock market has dipped more that 3000 points in just 2 years!.
Doesn't make sense to think that this guy can fix something his party broke!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Doesn't make sense to think that this guy can fix something his party broke!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you are having second thoughts, don't get pregnant!. The in-laws cannot live your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com