Help, i have been thinking about suicide for many years, but lately its been wor!
Question: Help, i have been thinking about suicide for many years, but lately its been worse!?
im a 16 year old girl, i had a very bad childhood, my mom and dad have been on and off for years, my dads an alcoholic who mght be using drugs!. in tenth grade i started not caring about anything, and as a result i got bad grades( according to my parents), so i got grounded, and they took away the only thing i care about, (figure skating), i know it sounds childish, but it was the only thing that kept me sane!. its been 7 weeks since i have skated, and a day doesnt pass without me crying!. i started cutting myself again, and ive been having suicidal thoughts, im scared to talk to anyone, cuz they wont undeerstand please helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
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suicide is a very serious thing ! what im about to say may be a lil harsh but that's because i've been where on several occasion!. i to have had a bad childhood, been molested for 4years by my brother and i have been homeless! I tried to commit suicide 3x, but i talked myself out of it and found someone i can confide in!. i know it sounds easy but its not!. You have to open up, focus on your school work, so that you can get to skate again,and release those negative thoughts of suicide, u also can start doing yoga, which keeps you flexible and can also help in you becoming a better skater!. One piece of advise, is that threes always someone else worse off! Please don't cut yourself anymore i know u don't know me, but if u really want to talk email me at jada_kiss27@yahoo!.com and we can meet and talk about this more, but please don't cut yourself!! look forward to hearing from youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to a guidance counselor/teacher/adult you trust!.
I have nothing against suicide (having attempted it before), but most attempts fail, and some are quite painful!.
I have nothing against cutting either (I've done that too), but it's not worth trying to explain the cutting to someone else if they find out!.
If you get put on medication, try your best to tolerate it!. Antidepressants can knock you out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have nothing against suicide (having attempted it before), but most attempts fail, and some are quite painful!.
I have nothing against cutting either (I've done that too), but it's not worth trying to explain the cutting to someone else if they find out!.
If you get put on medication, try your best to tolerate it!. Antidepressants can knock you out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
my live has been similar to yours!.!. the only thing you can do if your not gonna tell anyone is to write about it although i would reccommend a counsellor!. i hadnt tried them until now and im 19!. i know how much it sucks to hold it in!.!. the only way to ease it is to let it out in which ever way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just call this number and get help:
1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
http://suicidehotlines!.com/national!.htmlWww@Answer-Health@Com
1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
http://suicidehotlines!.com/national!.htmlWww@Answer-Health@Com
Please go see your school counselor, or some other local teen services!.!.!.!.!.THINK OF YOU!.!.!.do NOT allow the problems of your parents to rob you of a life & future!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are being childish because you are a child!. You have a dysfunctional family that you can not control!. You are not responsible for your parents silliness!. Please take the advice given here!. You may not know us but we really care and don't think suicide is the answer!. As for the scars you create with cutting, my son is 21 now!. When he was your age, he loved cutting his arms, now he has these very large raised scars up and down his arms!. They do not look good at all!.
People still don't understand the dynamics of suicide ideations (constantly thinking about it)!. Many people think we could just snap out of it!. It seems you want to prove to them how serious you are about suicide, and that will make you foolish enough to actually do it!. Listen, the people who are causing this stress on you as a kid does not know how it can affect you for life!. Tell them!.
If you have an aunt and/or uncle you can confide in, do it right now!. They can make sure you parents get you treatment even if they take you!.Their are adults in school who can report your family issues to the appropriate governmental agency!.
Stop cutting yourself--why do you feel guilty!? You could not pick your own parents but if you could, I doubt you will pick these!. Don't blame yourself for their bad parental skills!. Just promise yourself you would never treat your children this way!. Tell them and keep it in mind!.
Not being able to figure skate hurts your heart and they know it!. I can relate!. Ask them if it is time now!. Start writing a journal of your feelings each day!. Be honest, if you feel suicidal one day because of a situation, write it down!. The next day, write down how you resolved or dealt with the situation!. Write about your long term goals and how figure skating makes you feel!.
Start your journal now, it may be a referrence in the future when caring for your own children!.
Best wishes!. Put that damn knife or razor down, NOW and pick up the phone to talk to adult family members!. Ask someone to buy you a journal--available in most all bookstores!.
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People still don't understand the dynamics of suicide ideations (constantly thinking about it)!. Many people think we could just snap out of it!. It seems you want to prove to them how serious you are about suicide, and that will make you foolish enough to actually do it!. Listen, the people who are causing this stress on you as a kid does not know how it can affect you for life!. Tell them!.
If you have an aunt and/or uncle you can confide in, do it right now!. They can make sure you parents get you treatment even if they take you!.Their are adults in school who can report your family issues to the appropriate governmental agency!.
Stop cutting yourself--why do you feel guilty!? You could not pick your own parents but if you could, I doubt you will pick these!. Don't blame yourself for their bad parental skills!. Just promise yourself you would never treat your children this way!. Tell them and keep it in mind!.
Not being able to figure skate hurts your heart and they know it!. I can relate!. Ask them if it is time now!. Start writing a journal of your feelings each day!. Be honest, if you feel suicidal one day because of a situation, write it down!. The next day, write down how you resolved or dealt with the situation!. Write about your long term goals and how figure skating makes you feel!.
Start your journal now, it may be a referrence in the future when caring for your own children!.
Best wishes!. Put that damn knife or razor down, NOW and pick up the phone to talk to adult family members!. Ask someone to buy you a journal--available in most all bookstores!.
Www@Answer-Health@Com