Please Help Me! I don't know who I am?!


Question: Please Help Me! I don't know who I am!?
Sometimes I act
---consevative, modest, serious
Then sometimes I Act
---wild, crazy, and very fun

I am 13 BTW!.!.!.!.!. I there anything wrong with me!.!.!.!.!. how do i find out who i am!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
There's nothing wrong with you

Just do what you feel is YOU and if that is to be very spontaneous then that's perfectly OK!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

HEY ! Take it easy on yourself ! that is why that song was
written a while back!.!.!.!.

Would you believe me if i told you !.!.!.you are perfectly okay !?
Listen as we grow , sometimes certain aspects of our personality
can really just literally jump up and surprise us!.

I remember many a times , where mostly i was shy, but out of
the blue i said something really funny but on thinking about it
it was really silly by my own standards ( i thought ) and i went
REdder than a tomato from the embarrassment !

Our personality's will change here & there just a little , until we
do grow up a bit and with the experiences we face , we kind of
end up Balancing ourselves out!.!.!.!.!.So this then makes up who
we are!. Sorry, you just can't rush this process, because time
and experience is what makes us who we are!.

So back to my earlier advice, ' Take it easy on your self ' shrug
and face another day, another situation!.!.!.Part of your make up
is to certify your beliefs!.!.!.the sooner you accept what you believe
unconditionally without everyone Else's influence, the sooner
you become stronger and your opinions will matter which in
turn gives you that grown up Confidence!.

And by the way * YOU questioning this makes you way ahead
of the pack!. Your really very astute and an intelligent person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Humans aren't black and white, cut and dry in who they are!. We all have grey areas!. I'd be more worried if you never, ever contradicted yourself or strayed from a certain attitude!. All of this just means you're human!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

why can you not be both at appropriate times!? when with friends be the fun loving wild one and with adults who might not like that BE THE other you will learn who you are soon enough !. 13 year olds are all a little like you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I expect this is just the result of normal teenage hormonal fluctuations, but if it persists into young adulthood, get yourself assessed for the possibility of borderline personality disorder, or bipolar disorder!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

thats fine ur well balanced that is healthful spec ar ur ageWww@Answer-Health@Com





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