Why do people keep finding ways to depress me and bring me down?!


Question: Why do people keep finding ways to depress me and bring me down!?
I don't get it I am a nice person!. I have never been anything but nice to anyone but my friends let me down all the time!. I am not successful as they are!. I try to be nice and friendly but people just don't like me!. Am I meant to be alone forever!? Www@Answer-Health@Com


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maybe you should stopp being so nice then honey,or when some one brings you down try to talk to some one who make you happy!.!. usually when people hurt other people they are trying to make thmselfs feel better by hurting some one else so when that happens just think you are the better person at the end for not being a dick and no your not meant to be alone!. there is some one out there for every one and i trully hope you find some one that respects youWww@Answer-Health@Com

Honestly I'm in the same boat as you!.

Some friends that I have hung out with for years have lately been making me feel like **** and constantly putting me down!. I am a nice person too!. It really is a horrible feeling!.

Make sure you don't take apart and hold onto what they say - because it WILL stick!. Your brain is an amazing thing and it can be shaped!.

First thing you need to do is disregard the statements they make!. Because these people mean so much to you, pondering those constant statements can literally make you feel like that is who you are!. Tell yourself who you know you really are!.

If things don't improve eventually you should try to distance yourself from these people!. Start talking to people that don't say stuff to constantly put you down!.

People can just turn into jerks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You will not be alone forever, no one is!. You have lots to offer to others and I'm sure they see that or they would not be your friends!. Don't measure your happiness by success rate, there is always going to be someone more successful then you, you should fine other things that make you happy!.

If you feel extremely depressed you should seek professional help!.

Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know what you mean!. I think I was in your shoes before!. That is their loss for not being your friend!. That is not your problem!.!.!.it is their problem!. No, you are not meant to be alone forever!. You will find new friends!. Maybe your friends will come around!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

you cant let other people choose how gud or bad your day is going to beWww@Answer-Health@Com





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