Should I send this email after being dumped and not being told why?!
Question: Should I send this email after being dumped and not being told why!?
tim,
i don't want to pretend like what we had, whatever you wanna label it as, wasn't special!.!.!.because it was special to me!. it was amazing, and when i miss you it's because i start thinking back to those times!.
i remember all the good times we had making plans to go to Sonic, Mackinac Island, and Cedar Point!.!.!.we even talked about going to Chicago!. You use to call me all the time!. I miss your voicemails saying things like: "I've had 11 boyfriends and no ones ever done anything this nice for me before!. The stuff you gave me really made me feel special!." It was so adorable!.
I miss driving around Flint and buying cigarettes at 7-11 while avoiding your mom whos also headed to 7-11, i miss buying dr pepper in the ghetto surrounded by your "people", and i miss driving around Paro and yelling at you for tracking mud in my car because of all the rain!.
i miss all the good times we had "waking up" that lady to do one of our old numbers, i miss your smile and your sense of humour, i miss having you as my friend and in my life!. i miss seing you smile when i gave you a new watch, cologne, or clothes that were too big!.!.!. and reading your text messages asking if you "smell" because i gave you so much cologne!.
i miss the times we would talk about bipolar, seroquel, and how you smashed a vase on your moms head!. i miss making fun of ryan whitson and geting jealous when we talked about ron (with the small cock!.) i miss trying to help you get a passport and with phone numbers for court!.
i miss hearing you count all your ex-boyfriends over the phone and telling me how hurt you were when one of them ignored you & found someone new!. I miss hearing how you colored your dog pink and the times you took her to the vet!. i miss when you saw me as a good person instead of being afraid of me, and treating me like i have the plague!.
i wish you understood the only reason i visited you at work was because you emailed me 3 days earlier, saying you missed me (twice) in big capital letters, so naturally i thought you'd be happy to see me after 2 months!. why would you post a bulletin giving out the exact location unless you wanted your friends to visit you!?
im proud of you for getting off drugs and finding a job!. i wish i could go back in time and fix whatever i did that triggered you to wake up one day and decide: "today is the day im going to dump greg out of my life forever"!.
i don't know what else to say Tim!. i could never be mad at you; however, it's really not fair to say "don't ask" and leave me hanging in the wind!. its cruel!. its mean!. its heartless!. i know you'd rather not talk to me right now, but maybe you would consider having one of your friends email me to let me know what happened, and why you hate me!?
obviously anyone would want to know "what happened" in order to have closure and move on with their life instead of waking up every day hurting, and not knowing why things ended the horrible way they did!. if i ever did anything nice for you or brought any shred of happiness to your life then all i ask is the simple courtesy to know what happened!?
peace,
gregoryWww@Answer-Health@Com
i don't want to pretend like what we had, whatever you wanna label it as, wasn't special!.!.!.because it was special to me!. it was amazing, and when i miss you it's because i start thinking back to those times!.
i remember all the good times we had making plans to go to Sonic, Mackinac Island, and Cedar Point!.!.!.we even talked about going to Chicago!. You use to call me all the time!. I miss your voicemails saying things like: "I've had 11 boyfriends and no ones ever done anything this nice for me before!. The stuff you gave me really made me feel special!." It was so adorable!.
I miss driving around Flint and buying cigarettes at 7-11 while avoiding your mom whos also headed to 7-11, i miss buying dr pepper in the ghetto surrounded by your "people", and i miss driving around Paro and yelling at you for tracking mud in my car because of all the rain!.
i miss all the good times we had "waking up" that lady to do one of our old numbers, i miss your smile and your sense of humour, i miss having you as my friend and in my life!. i miss seing you smile when i gave you a new watch, cologne, or clothes that were too big!.!.!. and reading your text messages asking if you "smell" because i gave you so much cologne!.
i miss the times we would talk about bipolar, seroquel, and how you smashed a vase on your moms head!. i miss making fun of ryan whitson and geting jealous when we talked about ron (with the small cock!.) i miss trying to help you get a passport and with phone numbers for court!.
i miss hearing you count all your ex-boyfriends over the phone and telling me how hurt you were when one of them ignored you & found someone new!. I miss hearing how you colored your dog pink and the times you took her to the vet!. i miss when you saw me as a good person instead of being afraid of me, and treating me like i have the plague!.
i wish you understood the only reason i visited you at work was because you emailed me 3 days earlier, saying you missed me (twice) in big capital letters, so naturally i thought you'd be happy to see me after 2 months!. why would you post a bulletin giving out the exact location unless you wanted your friends to visit you!?
im proud of you for getting off drugs and finding a job!. i wish i could go back in time and fix whatever i did that triggered you to wake up one day and decide: "today is the day im going to dump greg out of my life forever"!.
i don't know what else to say Tim!. i could never be mad at you; however, it's really not fair to say "don't ask" and leave me hanging in the wind!. its cruel!. its mean!. its heartless!. i know you'd rather not talk to me right now, but maybe you would consider having one of your friends email me to let me know what happened, and why you hate me!?
obviously anyone would want to know "what happened" in order to have closure and move on with their life instead of waking up every day hurting, and not knowing why things ended the horrible way they did!. if i ever did anything nice for you or brought any shred of happiness to your life then all i ask is the simple courtesy to know what happened!?
peace,
gregoryWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I love the letter! and I don't even know you two! It made me laugh, it made me tear a little, and it even made me wonder, why!?! I'd so send it! You two sound like fun together! Good luck! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes u should send him this mail as a way 2 refresh d deep and fond memories he has made 2 ur life!.!.!.!.!.!. hope that he understands dat u really love him very much!.
Best of luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Best of luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should definitely send it! It made !.me!. tear up a bit and I dont even know what half the things meant! Haha!. Its very personal and in depth and Im sure he will like that!. :) Alot of those things made me think of silly things me and my girlfriend do so I think it was really adorable!. Best of luck to you guys figuring something out hun!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Send it!
It shows your true feelings toward him!. Be careful to use "I" statements and not "you" statements!. "You" statements lead to fights and anger!. "I" statements lead to making up and happiness!.
For example :
I called last night!. I thought maybe we could go to the movies together!. Maybe tonight for the movies, since you were busy!. Thanks :)
NOT
You didn't pick up ur effing phone! What's wrong with you!!!! I wanted to go to the movies last night but you wouldn't pick up the phone!!!!! Now
I'm so mad at you!!!!! Call me now im so mad!
See the difference!? :PWww@Answer-Health@Com
It shows your true feelings toward him!. Be careful to use "I" statements and not "you" statements!. "You" statements lead to fights and anger!. "I" statements lead to making up and happiness!.
For example :
I called last night!. I thought maybe we could go to the movies together!. Maybe tonight for the movies, since you were busy!. Thanks :)
NOT
You didn't pick up ur effing phone! What's wrong with you!!!! I wanted to go to the movies last night but you wouldn't pick up the phone!!!!! Now
I'm so mad at you!!!!! Call me now im so mad!
See the difference!? :PWww@Answer-Health@Com