Help! i'm scared of dying!?!


Question: Help! i'm scared of dying!!?
okay i know death is part of life but im scared of it coz like what if i havent been good enough or something to go to heaven that is what creeps me out is this normal!?

oh and p!.s anyone else feel like this!? or is it just me!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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It is normal to be afraid to die because it will be painful, even if only for a second, this life will end, and there is a relative unknown after death!. That last issue deals with security that is more of a subconscious fear until pointed out by the famous American psychologist Abraham Maslow in his hierarchy of needs that security is one of the second most important needs, only second to those needs for basic survival like food, water, and air!.

Enjoy your life and don't do anything really dangerous like walking around in a hurricane or tornado and that will take care of the small cause!.

The larger cause is the lack of security knowing whether or not you will go to heaven!. Remember John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life!." So if you believe in Jesus as the savior of your sins, then you will be saved and will no longer have to worry about where you are going regardless of your good deeds and misdeeds!.

This is rephrased a few times including in Acts where Paul and Silas answer their jailer's question "Sirs, what must I do to be saved" with this reply "Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved!."

It is rephrased again by Paul in the letter to the Romans "For everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well one thing you could do would be wake up, there is no god, no devil, no heaven no hell, consciousness is just the transfer of electrical signals in the brain and death is the lack there of!. You should accept that there is nothing you can do, you and everyone is going to die in a never ending cycle of life!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's not that you are afraid to die!. You are afraid of your faith's expectations of you!. if you are immersed in your faith, and you feel that you haven't lived up to the expectations, you should get reassurance from your faith!.!.!. I don't know what your faith is, but it's usually a priest, minister, bishop!.!.!. could even be family members!. If you can't analyze your own morality, then maybe get an outside opinion!.

I don't think I necessarily feel the same way!. I know I could die at any moment, and I'm more afraid that I haven't lived my life as much as I wanted to!. I believe I am a good person, but I don't adhere to strict religious guidelines to determine if I am fit for a heaven!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's normal!. Most people are terrified of dying!.

Just look at it this way!. You're going to die!. Everybody around you, in 100 years, will be dead!. If there is a heaven or hell, and if you are sent there by a God that thinks you deserve eternal hell even though you're not a bad person, then that means God is not fair, or just, or good!.

Which means heaven isn't really heaven!. Eternity of fear at the feet of a tyrant would be another form of hell!.

Wait, was I supposed to make you feel better!? Oops!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Most people are scared of DYING (will it be painful, etc) but there is no real reason to be so afraid of death that it affects you living your life!. Death is inevitable, it's rather silly to be afraid of something that is going to happen no matter what!. Just don't let it scare you out of having a good life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think maybe to get over your fear you should just not think of it!. Enjoy your life while you're still here and make the most of it!.

I personally don't believe in heaven, so I'm not really afraid of dying, but just try to be a good person and have fun while you can!
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Everyone is afraid of dying!. And just so you know no one is good enough to get into heaven!. The only way to get to heaven is to accept Jesus as your savior!. Live your life and be happy, try to be as much like Jesus as you can!. Don't try and be perfect because no one is!.
Yes how you feel is normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's ok babe i use to feel like that when i was younger like 13 or so im 18 now!. but you have a slim chance of dieing when your young so worry about when your older!.

life your life the best you can right now!. just think of it like this, the time to worrying about flying is when you're on the ground!. When you're up in the air, it's too late!. No point in worrying about it then!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, I guess we are all scared of dying!. But a friend once told me that the greatest fear for a human should not be the fear of dying but it should be the fear of being dead while alive!. Life each day to the fullest without regrets and try to do your best a person!. Leave the rest to God!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's NOT about ur beliefs ,,it is about the way u handle it!.!.!!!
let me tell u something i always think of death but at the same time i work very hard to reach as far as i could ever do,,the same u should do!.
it is only passing stage of ur life ,,i'm sure u r younger than 24 and that is normal with reliable females nowadays!.
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Look, everyone will one day die!. I doubt you have done such bad things NOT to go to heaven!. So don't worry!. My advice to you is to live your life to the fullest and be YOU!. Don't fear death because death is something you will never be able to escape!. Just have fun!.!.!.!.and dnt worry about heaven!.!.!.I'm sure you're a shoe in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You dont "be good enough to go to heaven" you have be a believer and know god and worship and love him!. otherwise you should be afaraid of growing old and dying cause if you dont know the lord you will go to hell!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is perfectly normal!. Everyone has these types of thoughts!. I wouldn't worry so much about it, but if t really does bother you than it might be a sign to start making some positive changes in your life!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's never too late to change girl just start to do good like helping people and sooner you should not be afraid
No i'm not scared of dying and i don't feel like this because i try to do good
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i feel like giving up everyday but i keep fighting!. i know its tough but for people like me and you ther is a golden lining at the end!. mail back if you wantto talk!. i could use someone as wellWww@Answer-Health@Com

Dont be scared!. Just live every day like its your last!. Do good deeds and try to refrain from bad deeds!. Dying is just a passing phase, life has to go on!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

lots of people feel the way you do!.

im sure your good enough for heaven ;)

dont worry so much about death, just enjoy life and live it up to the fullest =DWww@Answer-Health@Com

just live life to fullest, realize that hundreds of billions of other ppl have already died and millions die every day so you're not alone on thisWww@Answer-Health@Com

everyone scared of dying!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, death is a part of life

Just think of it as like!.!. going to sleep

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Turn around!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you need to live life Www@Answer-Health@Com





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