Are all guys perverted ? or are they not as much as they seem to be?!


Question: Are all guys perverted !? or are they not as much as they seem to be!?
i have a lot of guy friends which cant stop talking about perverted things or !.!.!.!. well u get it !. and im a girl so im not that interested!. i've tried telling them to stop being that perverted, but all they say is " we can't that's just how we are "!. they think being perverted is actually cool!. help !? Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Yes, guys tend to be sex-obsessed!. Women tend to see sex more as another way to bond with their partner; guys tend to be more into the act itself!. The fun part is when both assume the other does -- or should -- have the same approach to sex as they do (and women wonder why guys seem to approach sex more casually, and men wonder why women get so obsessive about cuddling after, etc!.) Usually this is intensified by adolescent hormones -- guys are still getting used to the whole new "sex" thing they didn't care about as younger kids!. It gets another kick when reinforced by a crowd; they play off each other!. It's also often a way for them to get attention; and they also tend to think that women should think like they do, and surely they're as impressed by witty sexual innuendoes (or maybe not so witty) as their buddies are, and so may be spurred on by your reacting to their crudeness!.

As they get older, most guys learn to tone it down to what applies to any particular circumstance; it's not such a new toy for them to play with, and they learn that women may not be instantly attracted to Beavis and Butthead clones -- and if they do respond to sexual humor, it usually is something with some wit and style and originality!.

If you are offended or bored by a particular group's repetitive and crude comments, just roll your eyes if you need to and ignore the comments, or go do something else until they either get a bit more witty or change the topic!. You could try to add more wit to the innuendoes, though this will egg them on -- it depends on what bothers/bores you more, the topic, or the low level of brainpower involved!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sorry if this sounds old fashioned but I do this, and it always works!

When a guy is crude or telling vulgar jokes etc and I really dont like it
I say 'excuse me do I look like a man'
when the guy says no I then reply 'well then treat me like a lady'
If thay are half decent guys with any manners they usually blush and appologise!.
Men need reminding evey now and again that they are not in the company of ladettes!Www@Answer-Health@Com

no i dont think so!. i just think society is peverted and all the guys just try to fit in!. because before i joined middle school curse words were never said because they were really bad (i thought) but when i went into middle school people were saying suck my d*ck like it was going out of style or something!. but i dont think they all really think like that probably just wanna be cool and be like all the rest of the retardsWww@Answer-Health@Com

not a whole lot of us guys know how to respct women these days!. i meet women and treat them like one of my buds!. a handshake and a new friendship!. if something developes into a realtionship its good but at least i have a friend first!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

us guys joke around but nerds can't help itWww@Answer-Health@Com





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