I have a problem.is it an addiction?!
Question: I have a problem!.is it an addiction!?
i cant stop hooking up with guys!. lately it has been really bad!. girls boyfriends!.!.!.i love to makeout so much though!. i dont have sex i always say no!. but i do everything else!.
a few times ago this girl i know, her bf and i went down to a local park and hooked up in his car!. its getting bad!. and anytime i get an offer i say yes!. i lie to teachers and say im going to the bathroom when im really going to the stairwell!.!.!.!.what should i do!?!?
my friends get really mad!.!.too!.!.!.
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a few times ago this girl i know, her bf and i went down to a local park and hooked up in his car!. its getting bad!. and anytime i get an offer i say yes!. i lie to teachers and say im going to the bathroom when im really going to the stairwell!.!.!.!.what should i do!?!?
my friends get really mad!.!.too!.!.!.
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Answers:
yew're not a slut!!
dont listen to these ppl! there just jelous haha
no im pickin but it is really bad! yew shouldnt do that!
mii friend was in the same potition and she came to me for help
and she had done sent pics of her crotch and boobs
to the guy i was "talkin" to!
but i mean she found a guy that really loves her and stuff and now she loves him and she doesnt do anything like that anymore!.!.!.!.
Just find a guy that really loves yew for yew!
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dont listen to these ppl! there just jelous haha
no im pickin but it is really bad! yew shouldnt do that!
mii friend was in the same potition and she came to me for help
and she had done sent pics of her crotch and boobs
to the guy i was "talkin" to!
but i mean she found a guy that really loves her and stuff and now she loves him and she doesnt do anything like that anymore!.!.!.!.
Just find a guy that really loves yew for yew!
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Girrrrl I would go talk to a therapist if I were you!. You may not be having sex right now!. But it will end up getting to that point!. Then you won't be able to stop having sex!. You will have a sexual addiction!. Then it may come to the point where you won't have anymore friends!. Or you become pregnant!. Or you get an STD!. Or you become pregnant w/ an STD!. You really should consider speaking to a professional about this!. Good luck!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
The answer is that your a slut!. Just the reality of it!. Maybe hearing people tell you outright will help it sink in!.
You do realize that even the guys don't respect you RIGHT!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
You do realize that even the guys don't respect you RIGHT!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
A therapist can help you sort out your motives!. Talk to your mom or doctor about seeing a therapist; all your talks will be confidential!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
can you say bad friend, carma, what goes around comes around!.!.!.!. get it together, or you will develope a repWww@Answer-Health@Com
Could it be low self esteem!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Low self esteem, low self worth, needing to feel wanted!.
I don't think its an addiction!. But it has to have a pay off for you or you wouldn't keep at it despite negative consequences!. Figure out what it does for you and either find a better behavior or fix the problem ie!. self esteem issues!.
The fact your asking the question seems to indicate this is not the "type of girl" you'd like to be seen as or known for!. And whatever comforting or good feelings this provides in the short term will eventually snowball all over you when not only your friends and other girls are mad at you, but when the rumors start to fly that you went farther than you did, and when you begin to come to the realization that the guys aren't wanting you because of "you" their wanting you because the know they can have you!.
Figure out what it does for you to do this and find some other way to feel good, wanted, whatever!. Thinking a few steps ahead about what will eventually happen to your friendships, your reputation, and even the denigration from those boys you keep saying yes to , to your self esteem might make you think twice!.
Afterall boys like the chase!. The harder you are to get the more they actually want "you" not to use you!.
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I don't think its an addiction!. But it has to have a pay off for you or you wouldn't keep at it despite negative consequences!. Figure out what it does for you and either find a better behavior or fix the problem ie!. self esteem issues!.
The fact your asking the question seems to indicate this is not the "type of girl" you'd like to be seen as or known for!. And whatever comforting or good feelings this provides in the short term will eventually snowball all over you when not only your friends and other girls are mad at you, but when the rumors start to fly that you went farther than you did, and when you begin to come to the realization that the guys aren't wanting you because of "you" their wanting you because the know they can have you!.
Figure out what it does for you to do this and find some other way to feel good, wanted, whatever!. Thinking a few steps ahead about what will eventually happen to your friendships, your reputation, and even the denigration from those boys you keep saying yes to , to your self esteem might make you think twice!.
Afterall boys like the chase!. The harder you are to get the more they actually want "you" not to use you!.
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