Obsession with a girl HELP?!
Question: Obsession with a girl HELP!?
I've liked this girl for more than a year now and no matter what i can't move on!.!.!. she always seems to be in my mind and i always think about her!.!.!. I used to be friends with her and talked to her a lot until i told her i liked her for the third time and getting rejected!.!.!. all my friends know how i feel because its so obvious even when i try to hide it , they even felt bad for me before they tried to convince her to give me a chance didn't obviously !.!.!. I'm incredibly hurt and i can't seem to move on i see her everyday at school she's in two of my classes!.!.!. we no longer speak and I'm incredibly shy now since i got hurt 3 times specially when she told me in the past before i told her i liked her she liked my cousin!.!.!. and that she liked someone else when she thought i moved on when i first told her which even hurts more !.!.!. until now i can't forget her shes always stuck in my mind and I've even wrote her more than 12 songs which refer to how i feel just go get my feelings out of my system yet !.!.!. my friends are saying I'm obsessing over her!.!.!. I really tried hard to move on yet i can't no matter what shes what I'm always thinking of and how much she hurt me!.!.!. and how i feel the same !.!.!. do i have an obsession I'm starting to think i do yet i don't know what to do!.!.!.
Can anyone help me and give me some advice!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Can anyone help me and give me some advice!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Yo mikah/zach its me you idiots!
FIRST OF ALL!.-- READ WHAT THESE PPL WROTE!. MOVE ON!.
and one huge reason mikah can't move on is because you guys kept making fun of him!.!.!.so yea!.!. gotta stop that right!?
and finally!.!.!. I ain't a bad person!.!. i just think being with someone that i don't really wanna be with in the first place is wrong!. Giving someone a chance can lead to nothing if there's no feelings at all!. so PLEASE!.!.!.!. STOP BOTHERING MIKAH COZ IT DOESNT JSUT AFFECTS HIM! CONSIDER ABOUT THE PPL AROUND HIM AND ME!.
peace!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
FIRST OF ALL!.-- READ WHAT THESE PPL WROTE!. MOVE ON!.
and one huge reason mikah can't move on is because you guys kept making fun of him!.!.!.so yea!.!. gotta stop that right!?
and finally!.!.!. I ain't a bad person!.!. i just think being with someone that i don't really wanna be with in the first place is wrong!. Giving someone a chance can lead to nothing if there's no feelings at all!. so PLEASE!.!.!.!. STOP BOTHERING MIKAH COZ IT DOESNT JSUT AFFECTS HIM! CONSIDER ABOUT THE PPL AROUND HIM AND ME!.
peace!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to move on she is just not into you, writing is good but you need to find another girl and try and get over it!. This may take moths and it doesn't get easier with age, but there are girls out there that will like you for you!. Do some soul searching and find out what you really want for a girlfriend!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have a similar problem and I suggest looking for people that try to flirt with you!. ie!. Look in your direction a lot or start playing with there items when they see you!. Sometimes the best cure is just to look away!. Its really hard I know but just try to be intone with people around you!. I wish you the best of luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Man o' Man can you say run-on sentence!?
She obviously isn't into you, no matter how many songs you dedicate in her honor you will never win her over!. Enough is enough, you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and MOVE ON!. Im sure you will look back at this and laugh when you get older!.
Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com
She obviously isn't into you, no matter how many songs you dedicate in her honor you will never win her over!. Enough is enough, you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and MOVE ON!. Im sure you will look back at this and laugh when you get older!.
Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com
how ironic lol I wrote this same question lol ok dude this is what you do!.!.!. are you ready!? MOVE ON!!!!!!!! NOW!!!!!! their are other woman out there who will care about you and not reject you that are a million trillion times better, trust me plz I'm begging you lol there is always hope :) laterWww@Answer-Health@Com
You don't say how old you are but my guess is you are hormonal, going through puberty!. This is not normal but hormones can make you crazy!. Go to your doctor and talk about these feelings!. You may need medication or therapy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Well while u we dragging urself over her u could have meet someone who could bring u to life again
listen to
Paramore they can brake it down for you Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Paramore they can brake it down for you Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get a life!.
Seriously!. There is no reason to keep your mind on her!. It's not like you 2 even went out or had special time together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Seriously!. There is no reason to keep your mind on her!. It's not like you 2 even went out or had special time together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
umm yea!.!.!.ur definatly obbsesed and i would just give up even if you still like her, obviously she doesnt like you so yeah, find someone new bro !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your best chance is to move on!. They always want what they can't have!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Love hurts!.
Without a doubt this is not going to be the last time you get your feelings hurt!. If you continue to survive-and you will, she is just the first of many!.
You know, I had to learn this lesson the hard way myself, that sometimes the things that we want are not always the things that we need!. There is someone out there that can appreciate you for you, someone that will cherish the person that you are, and someone as wonderful as you are!. I heard this saying one time-He who angers you, controls you!. Now think about that for a minute!.!.!.even though she isn't "angering" you, she is consuming your every thought-now!.!.!.
does she really deserve that much power!? I didn't think so!.
good luck dear!.
aliciaWww@Answer-Health@Com
Without a doubt this is not going to be the last time you get your feelings hurt!. If you continue to survive-and you will, she is just the first of many!.
You know, I had to learn this lesson the hard way myself, that sometimes the things that we want are not always the things that we need!. There is someone out there that can appreciate you for you, someone that will cherish the person that you are, and someone as wonderful as you are!. I heard this saying one time-He who angers you, controls you!. Now think about that for a minute!.!.!.even though she isn't "angering" you, she is consuming your every thought-now!.!.!.
does she really deserve that much power!? I didn't think so!.
good luck dear!.
aliciaWww@Answer-Health@Com
even if you guys dont talk as you used to try to talk to her one more time!. explain to her how you felt before she rejected you and tell her how you feel now!.
it doesnt have to be in person, you can write her a letter, not a song a letter, and give it to her!. dont try to sneak it in her bag cuz she'll freak out!.
dont get too personal in that letter, dont tell her you love her, that wil freak her out, dont tell her you think about her 24/7, and dont tell her about the 12 songs you wrote!. she'll be afraid of you!.
in the note ask her to tell you her side of the story!.
and if she never replys or she doesnt want to accept the note then its over!. forget about her!. you have to move on!.
you'll just keep hurting yourself!. and the longer you wait the more it will hurt!.
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With all respect to you, it sounds like this is verging on obsession, which is obvious that you really do not want to happen!. Dont worry, she is obviously a lovely amazing person who has touched you in a very special way to cast such a spell on you!
I almost became obsessed with an Ex!. You will need some time to yourself and a good friend to help you get through this!. What I did was clear out anything that reminded me of him, letters, poems, anything, pictures and jewellry included! Then whenever you find yourself thinking about her, distract yourself, go out for a run, read a book, do 20-30 press ups, anything!. If you are at home one day and it is particularly bad, call a friend to come over or to go out somewhere random and exciting to get your mind off her!.
At school and in your class, stop yourself from looking at her!. If she talks or you hear her talking, try to blank out her voice!. Its so so so hard at first, I know Ive been there but keep at it, after a few weeks things will become easier, but you must trust in yourself and be determined and be strong willed - this is going to take time!
Good luck!
P!.s: Can I have some help on my question!? thanks!
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I almost became obsessed with an Ex!. You will need some time to yourself and a good friend to help you get through this!. What I did was clear out anything that reminded me of him, letters, poems, anything, pictures and jewellry included! Then whenever you find yourself thinking about her, distract yourself, go out for a run, read a book, do 20-30 press ups, anything!. If you are at home one day and it is particularly bad, call a friend to come over or to go out somewhere random and exciting to get your mind off her!.
At school and in your class, stop yourself from looking at her!. If she talks or you hear her talking, try to blank out her voice!. Its so so so hard at first, I know Ive been there but keep at it, after a few weeks things will become easier, but you must trust in yourself and be determined and be strong willed - this is going to take time!
Good luck!
P!.s: Can I have some help on my question!? thanks!
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i'm not a specialist or anything, but u should ask urself some questions, like, what makes her soooo important 2 u!?
u got hurt 4 the 3rd time!? or 3 times by the same girl, which really makes u getting hurt once!. the world keeps turning and life goes on, why r u standing in the same place!? sorry, i know i'm asking questions, but i think that these r questions u should b asking urself!.
what is important 2 u!. dont say the girl, shes just a cover, what is important 2 u!? or maybe what r u afraid of!? u r the person that u were b4 u met her!. or was there someone else!? prob not, sooo what changed!. why r u making her sooo important that the world will end if u stop thinking about her and move on with ur life!?
i dont think that she is what u r dealing with!.!.!. find that out and u r good 2 go :o)Www@Answer-Health@Com
u got hurt 4 the 3rd time!? or 3 times by the same girl, which really makes u getting hurt once!. the world keeps turning and life goes on, why r u standing in the same place!? sorry, i know i'm asking questions, but i think that these r questions u should b asking urself!.
what is important 2 u!. dont say the girl, shes just a cover, what is important 2 u!? or maybe what r u afraid of!? u r the person that u were b4 u met her!. or was there someone else!? prob not, sooo what changed!. why r u making her sooo important that the world will end if u stop thinking about her and move on with ur life!?
i dont think that she is what u r dealing with!.!.!. find that out and u r good 2 go :o)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not even half as bad as what happen to me!. I met this girl and befriended her for 5 years!. On the last day of the 5th year, I found the courage to ask her out and she rejected me!. AFTER 5 YEARS!. Now I can't ask any other girl out because it really hurt that day!.
I left the state, played football for a couple of years in high school, lost like 20 lbs of fat and replaced it with muscle!. Then I got my first haircut in years!. I went bak to California where she went to school with me!.
Now 8 years later in High school, She likes me and I HATE her!.
:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I left the state, played football for a couple of years in high school, lost like 20 lbs of fat and replaced it with muscle!. Then I got my first haircut in years!. I went bak to California where she went to school with me!.
Now 8 years later in High school, She likes me and I HATE her!.
:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sit down with her and tell her that you are having a hard time moving on!. Ask her to help you move on!. Ask your friends to help you move on!. Try looking at other girls!. It sounds like you are still in high school!? You are still really young and its really rare that people meet their lifelong love in school!. You will go to college and trust me you will find someone that LOVES you!. It's just one girl!. Through the rest of your life you are going to meet thousands of other girls!. Don't limit yourself to loving one girl you met in high school!. It happens a lot that a girl you like is dating someone else or doesn't like you!. It happens a lot!. Take it as she said it!. She doesn't want to be with you!. When you start to think about her make a picture in your mind of pop tarts or horses or your car!. Eventually you will stop thinking about her, give it time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wut does ur mind, heart and body tell you!? if all three of them tell u yes then u r inlove, bt if not then i think its an obssesion, look my sis loves adiana lima, and i now it must be harder on you, because u see her every day, bt look she obviously dosent have any self respect or morals because she should give everyone a chance, and she might not know what she could be losing, and look u never know what u have untill u lose it!. u obviously seem like a really nice guy, bt ask her again, trust me , and if she says no then shes not worth it!. u r to good 4 her, and try to move on, dnt look @ her, talk 2 her, or dnt even try 2 think about her bite your lip really hard and forget, this is to much pain 4 u, and she might think ur desperate or something bt, try u never know how its going to be in the end!.Www@Answer-Health@Com