I have thoughts about wanting ...?!
Question: I have thoughts about wanting !.!.!.!?
To get a person in a basement, tie them up, undress them and rape them, I know its wrong, what do I do!? :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
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It is OK to have fantasies!. But, it is not OK to rape!. There are many people out there that act on sexual fantasies that are not illegal, are consensual, and practice safe sex!. For example, people that practice bondage can tie each other up, etc!. However, if you find yourself to a point where you can not control these thoughts, I strongly suggest seeing a therapist to help you with this!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would agree with what Diane says about fantasies and making sure you keep control!. I would like to add that if you ever find yourself in a position where you think you are going to do ANYTHING to someone against their will that you get to a hospital where they can keep you and everyone else safe until you get things sorted out!. I assure you, you would rather spend a week in a psych unit than years in prison!.
Also, as far as a therapist goes, if you are questioning these thoughts, I would recommend you see a therapist just to help you examine them even if you aren't on the edge of doing anything yet!. It may help you understand what is going on in your head better and keep you from being so scared about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, as far as a therapist goes, if you are questioning these thoughts, I would recommend you see a therapist just to help you examine them even if you aren't on the edge of doing anything yet!. It may help you understand what is going on in your head better and keep you from being so scared about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
They key word here is rape!. Yous aid rape!. You didn't say bond them, or I like s & m!. Your specific fantasy is rape!. If the person consents then it isn't rape and therefore that is not what you want to do!. Rape makes you a monster!. You need to get some help to figure out why dominating and hurting someone against their will is appealing to you!. A therapist will be able to help you examine why you want to do this!.
Now for some tough love: rape makes you a monster!. If you kidnap someone and rape them, what will you do next murder them to hide the crime!. You can't let them go!. Do you want to be murderer or get killed!? You may get your *ss whipped trying to abduct the wrong person who will fight back!. That leads me to the fact that by posting here you want help and in essence want to be caught and/or get attention!.
You can have sex and have bondage with consent!. But you cannot have rape with consent it is an oxymoron!.
I'd look at my past, why you feel no man/woman would want you without rape!. Why you have a desire to ruin someone else's life and your own!. Why you feel inadequate to where the only way another person would want sex with you is if you forced it on them !. I'd also examine why you want the attention of posting such a question on this forum!. After all it is for attention!. I'd even guess you have exposed yourself-rapists don't just go rape, the work up to that!. Anyway get some help-it's free!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Now for some tough love: rape makes you a monster!. If you kidnap someone and rape them, what will you do next murder them to hide the crime!. You can't let them go!. Do you want to be murderer or get killed!? You may get your *ss whipped trying to abduct the wrong person who will fight back!. That leads me to the fact that by posting here you want help and in essence want to be caught and/or get attention!.
You can have sex and have bondage with consent!. But you cannot have rape with consent it is an oxymoron!.
I'd look at my past, why you feel no man/woman would want you without rape!. Why you have a desire to ruin someone else's life and your own!. Why you feel inadequate to where the only way another person would want sex with you is if you forced it on them !. I'd also examine why you want the attention of posting such a question on this forum!. After all it is for attention!. I'd even guess you have exposed yourself-rapists don't just go rape, the work up to that!. Anyway get some help-it's free!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Fantasies are a normal part of conscious brain thinking!. Unusual and even violent thoughts creep into our minds from time to time!. It's the acting upon these thoughts that may or may not make us a violent person!. The fact that you realize that these thoughts are wrong make you a reasonable minded person who does not believe in violence!. Tell yourself that these are only fleeting fantasies, try not to dwell on them and move on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Google some articles and personal stories by real rape victims!. Seeing the other side of it will help you get away from it!. You're fantasizing about the romanticized illusion of it!. The reality is soul wrenching, it's not how you're imagining it!. Heck, even do a search on Y!A for overcoming rape and look at what people have to deal with every day of their lives after something like that!. If you're having sex, you could find partner who will do BDSM or pretend with you!. Maybe you could let this out a healthier way!.
Edit: I've heard that rape is about power, not sex!. Are you being denied power in some aspect of your life, or control where you should have it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Edit: I've heard that rape is about power, not sex!. Are you being denied power in some aspect of your life, or control where you should have it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
You see your family doctor or medical centre and have a chat with a doctor - a chat with a doctor and maybe seeing a counsellor or another agency will really help out!. Certainly if you ever feel yourself at risk of hurting another person or yourself for that matter see a doctor straight away - even calling your local emergency number number (111 in NZ, 911 in USA etc etc) if you feel you cant hold back, ask for the police, they will come you won't go to prison as you have not done a crime, but they will refer you to a doctor or medical team who can help out straight away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Make sure the basement is soundproof!.
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YOU SHUD GET A RELIGIONWww@Answer-Health@Com