I was molested as a child. Now that I'm an adult...?!
Question: I was molested as a child!. Now that I'm an adult!.!.!.!?
I am now 26 years old!. I have been having a rough time in the dating game and can't stop thinking about my molester lately!.Since he is being released for good behavior in November, do you think he might want to date me!? I mean, obviously he found me attractive and I think I am in love with him!. Since he was attracted to me then!.!.!.will he still be attracted to me now!? I gained a bit of weight, but I'm willing to travel for him if I need to!. What do you think!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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uhhh!.!.!.you're too old for him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't do this to yourself!. He was interested in you because he could control you when you were a child!. Don't place yourself in his control again!. There's a chance for you to get past it with therapy, but you need to be honest with yourself about what happened to you and how it affected you!.
Your molester needs to be confronted, even if it's only through a letter you never send!. You can't let him control you anymore, even when he's not there!. I understand how you can be confused emotionally, but trying to be with your molester again is not going to make you less confused!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your molester needs to be confronted, even if it's only through a letter you never send!. You can't let him control you anymore, even when he's not there!. I understand how you can be confused emotionally, but trying to be with your molester again is not going to make you less confused!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think that he attacked you as a child for a reason!. Mainly the fact that you couldnt protect yourself, you couldnt stand up for yourself, you couldnt go to someone for help, you couldnt do anything to stop him!. There are many reasons why molesters choose children, he may be a paedophile for example, and you wouldnt want to have children to one of those people!.
I dont think that he will want to date you, I think that he will think that you are not right for him!.
Its about time that you sought out the services of a counsellor to see if they can help you get over what happened when you were a child!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I dont think that he will want to date you, I think that he will think that you are not right for him!.
Its about time that you sought out the services of a counsellor to see if they can help you get over what happened when you were a child!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yeah, you need to find a good counselor and some close friends who will love you through this one!. DO NOT ENTERTAIN YOUR THOUGHTS of going back to this guy!. You have co-dependency issues you will have to deal with before you can probably have a healthy relationship and you should avoid this guy for the rest of your life if possible!. None of this is your fault, you were a victim, but now it is your responsibility to reach out and get the help that you need!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I agree with woman, I think you may be a little old for him!. But i bet if your willing to have children with him he may consider you!.
You know we all tend to have hidden feelings for our first love hopefully he still feels the same for you:)
Good luck i hope this helps:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You know we all tend to have hidden feelings for our first love hopefully he still feels the same for you:)
Good luck i hope this helps:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you considered seeing a counselor!? It is obvious that there are some issues that need to be addressed!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you should hurry up and get here!. I already bought you the plane tickets, babe!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I really hope you aren't serious!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
What!? I would want to kill the mofo!Www@Answer-Health@Com
What!!? This is totally weird!. You love the person who molested you!?
Hmm!.!. strangeWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hmm!.!. strangeWww@Answer-Health@Com
Go for it!. Maybe this time he will be gentle!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
this must be a joke!.!.!.if not then do not date him!. If I were you I would kill that prickWww@Answer-Health@Com
WTH!?! why on earth would you want to date your molestor!?!?
that's not normal!. maybe you need to get some help!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
that's not normal!. maybe you need to get some help!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
u stupid b-i-t-c-h as hoe for that dumb *** !? i hope he take yourass captive and beat you you need a physco phsycologist retardWww@Answer-Health@Com