I want to study for exam to do well. plz help. i dont know how to come out of th!
Question: I want to study for exam to do well!. plz help!. i dont know how to come out of this problem i got!.!?
I am a 25 yr old guy preparing for the most important exam for me after 2 months!.
I have prepared for the exam sitting home for about a year!.
i am a very sensitive person and an introvert!.
One of my friends of college has been in touch with me!.
He calls me up sometimes!.I cannot talk on phone with him in relaxed manner i normally do!.
I do not initiate topics when i converse!. And also, i listen uncomfortably which he senses
Now, i have a tendency of being tense from a couple of months before such important exams!. So, i am a changed person during this time!. !.
The friend who calls me up understands from this change that i am studying very seriously!. This thing happens only when i talk to him and one more of my friend!.
I do not want him to find out that i am studying so hard!. Because when he asks about how hard i am studying, I cannot put in the same amount and intensity of effort after the talk!.
As time passes, this problem makes me more anxious and tense for my lost efficiency and time lost in thinking [what should i hve spoken to sound normal]!. The problem multiplies further!. I know this should not happen normally!.
I fear that this is going to happen this time too and so i will end up with a score lesser than best i can get!. (Yes, my scores have come lesser because of such incidents in the past) I have had a very good academic record but this exam is decicive one for my career!.
What should i do!? How should i speak to him when he calls me next time!?
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I have prepared for the exam sitting home for about a year!.
i am a very sensitive person and an introvert!.
One of my friends of college has been in touch with me!.
He calls me up sometimes!.I cannot talk on phone with him in relaxed manner i normally do!.
I do not initiate topics when i converse!. And also, i listen uncomfortably which he senses
Now, i have a tendency of being tense from a couple of months before such important exams!. So, i am a changed person during this time!. !.
The friend who calls me up understands from this change that i am studying very seriously!. This thing happens only when i talk to him and one more of my friend!.
I do not want him to find out that i am studying so hard!. Because when he asks about how hard i am studying, I cannot put in the same amount and intensity of effort after the talk!.
As time passes, this problem makes me more anxious and tense for my lost efficiency and time lost in thinking [what should i hve spoken to sound normal]!. The problem multiplies further!. I know this should not happen normally!.
I fear that this is going to happen this time too and so i will end up with a score lesser than best i can get!. (Yes, my scores have come lesser because of such incidents in the past) I have had a very good academic record but this exam is decicive one for my career!.
What should i do!? How should i speak to him when he calls me next time!?
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Answers:
This may seem an obvious answer but your going to have to explain how he makes you feel when talking to him otherwise you'll never be able to get passed this stage in your friendship!. Also good luck in your exam!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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