HELP SAVE MY BOYFRIENDS LIFE!!!?!
Question: HELP SAVE MY BOYFRIENDS LIFE!!!!?
ohkae, so about a month before my boyfriend asked me out, i was depressed!. I was suicidal and into cutting, but im alright now!. So the night about a month ago when my boyfriend told me he liked me, *august 31st* Was the night i almost killed myself!. I was sitting there with the gun, rope and knife lined up deciding which would be best!. As i reached for the knife he (brett) i get a text from him saying he loves me and he has for the past few years weve been friends!. So tonight i decided to tell him!. and he freaked!. I saw him later that night *tonight* but he was ohkae!. He said, and i quote "so im basicly keeping you alive"
but anyway, enough about me!. so i just got home from seeing him and ive been talking to him somemore, hes talking about this girl who really likes him but he cant stand her and she cuts herself casue of it!. I decided to admit that ive cut before but that i really hated it!. and guess what he said!. HE CUTS HIS ******* WRISTS! im the only one who knows, but i cant figure out how to get him to stop!. he admitted he needs to stop, but he needs my help
ANSWESR PLEASE! I LOVE HIM TO DEATH, LITERALLY!. BUT I WANT TO KEEP HIM ALIVE!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
but anyway, enough about me!. so i just got home from seeing him and ive been talking to him somemore, hes talking about this girl who really likes him but he cant stand her and she cuts herself casue of it!. I decided to admit that ive cut before but that i really hated it!. and guess what he said!. HE CUTS HIS ******* WRISTS! im the only one who knows, but i cant figure out how to get him to stop!. he admitted he needs to stop, but he needs my help
ANSWESR PLEASE! I LOVE HIM TO DEATH, LITERALLY!. BUT I WANT TO KEEP HIM ALIVE!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Be there for him and don't judge him!. That's all you can do, short of asking him to see a therapist!. Having someone who genuinely cares about him is probably a good help in itself!. Therapy really isn't that bad; I used to think it was crap until it truly helped me!. I think you should both see someone for this!. Best of luck to you both!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you should tell him: you know i used to cut myself and then you asked me out and saved me but how would you feel if i still cut myself!? what if after you asked me out if i nvr stopped!? how wud u feel!? what wud you do!?
also, if you seriously r depressed, you should go tell your parents or the doctor or the school counseler or something!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
also, if you seriously r depressed, you should go tell your parents or the doctor or the school counseler or something!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I used to cut, but I found other methods that could take the place of cutting, and that would not make it feel good anymore!. Like having a rubber band on his wrist, and when he feels sad, like he wants to cut, pull it up, and let it snap!. Its a pretty known technique, that helps lot of ppl quit, it worked for me!.
Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why dont you just tell him that you really love him and would hate to see anything happening to him that would affect his chances in life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
is this some kind of whacked out underground society where everybody cuts their wrists!?
Tell him down the road, not across the street!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell him down the road, not across the street!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well posting it all over the internet doesnt help! now everybody knows!. he can really trust you with a secret!. you guys need serious help!.!.!.!.what are you 12!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
give him alternatives to cutting, like holding ice on where he would cut!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
GET HIM IMMEDIATE HELP - TELL HIS PARENTS OR YOUR PARENTS OR A DOCTOR!.
this is urgent because he is no longer contemplating or even planning suicide but has actually tried to do it!.
if u dont get him help, there may not be a second chance!.
depending on where he lives, he may be baker's acted (involuntarily commited to a mental health crisis center) for a period of 72 hours while he is evaluated by a psychiatrist!. after which time he has to be released or the psychiatrist can get a court order to keep him longer!.
this bakers act is only in florida!.
but the important thing is to let someone know whats going on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
this is urgent because he is no longer contemplating or even planning suicide but has actually tried to do it!.
if u dont get him help, there may not be a second chance!.
depending on where he lives, he may be baker's acted (involuntarily commited to a mental health crisis center) for a period of 72 hours while he is evaluated by a psychiatrist!. after which time he has to be released or the psychiatrist can get a court order to keep him longer!.
this bakers act is only in florida!.
but the important thing is to let someone know whats going on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if he had marks on his wrists how could you not notice them!? just make him feel confident!. do you think he would be open to counsoling with you!? tell him that if he killed him self it would be like some kind of modern messed up romeo and juliet and you could not live without him!.!.!.
good luck i will pray for the both of you
p!.s!.
dont tell too many of your friends!. if you actually feel like he might kill himself TELL HIS PARENTS!. trust me!. my boyfriend said he wanted to kill himself, and i felt like he actually MIGHT do it so i told his dad!. and his dad helped him out a lot!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
good luck i will pray for the both of you
p!.s!.
dont tell too many of your friends!. if you actually feel like he might kill himself TELL HIS PARENTS!. trust me!. my boyfriend said he wanted to kill himself, and i felt like he actually MIGHT do it so i told his dad!. and his dad helped him out a lot!.Www@Answer-Health@Com