Im having a major crisis?!
Question: Im having a major crisis!?
i need to tell my dad i dont want to live with him!. that i want to move back home with my mom!. he says shes unstable but i miss her alot!.
he says he wants me here!. so im scared to tell him i want to go home!. how do i tell him!? :( ive been here 1 day!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
he says he wants me here!. so im scared to tell him i want to go home!. how do i tell him!? :( ive been here 1 day!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
How old are you!? If it's a court ordered that your dad has custody of you than you have to stay with him!. If you want to live with your mom and are old enough to make that decision, you need to tell the judge this so he can allow your mom to have custody of you!. If you dad feels your mom is unstable to take care of you, than he needs to bring that up to the judge and they will also view that to decide if you mom is able to take care of you!. If so, than they maybe able to allow your mom to have custody of you and you can move back in with your mom!. In the mean time, give your dad some time!. If after a while of living with him, you still feel like moving in with your mom than tell him or your mom so they can help you move back in with her!. Take care!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If it's too hard to say it in person then maybe you could write him a little note and leave it out for him to see!. Just say you miss your mom and you want to go home!.
You have to learn to talk to him someday though because he should never say things like that about your mom to you!. Parents do that a lot - they try to alienate (distance) the other parent from their kid just to be mean!. At some point you may have to tell him or your mom that you don't want them to say bad things about each other!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to learn to talk to him someday though because he should never say things like that about your mom to you!. Parents do that a lot - they try to alienate (distance) the other parent from their kid just to be mean!. At some point you may have to tell him or your mom that you don't want them to say bad things about each other!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to give it time before you move back in with your mom!. There might be a really good reason that you moved in with your dad, and they might have done it for your own good!. Maybe your dad would be okay if you called your mom and talked to her to ease up on your homesickness!. You will be homesick for a bit, but it might be what's best for you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
look im been in the same crises with my mum though!. we where in hiding far away from him 4 like 4 months!
what u can do is (this isnt wut i did cause i was in a different problem but i know wut u can do) go up tp ur dad when hes not busy and say dad, can i talk to u for a moment!. then like sit down and say: dad it would be really nice if u could explain everything thats going on because i miss mum!. i dont mind is shes unstable or watever, i just want to be with her because she is my mum!.
u can change it a bit if u want
dont worry things turned out fine with me so it will 4 u (my parents r back together!)Www@Answer-Health@Com
what u can do is (this isnt wut i did cause i was in a different problem but i know wut u can do) go up tp ur dad when hes not busy and say dad, can i talk to u for a moment!. then like sit down and say: dad it would be really nice if u could explain everything thats going on because i miss mum!. i dont mind is shes unstable or watever, i just want to be with her because she is my mum!.
u can change it a bit if u want
dont worry things turned out fine with me so it will 4 u (my parents r back together!)Www@Answer-Health@Com
just give it a week before you tell him!. that'll give you time to work out exactly what you'll say, and by then you'll have settled in more, so you'll know if its what you really wanna do!. just hang out with friends and stuff, and you'll see, the week will pass in no time! and of course talk to your mum on the phone and stuff!. best wishes :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
give him a chance!. you might like it!. you can always go backWww@Answer-Health@Com