Ex-roommate anxiety/anger issues..?!


Question: Ex-roommate anxiety/anger issues!.!.!?
i used to have a roommate that really pissed me off almost all the time!. i eventually got so angry that i kind of wanted him dead, by my hand or otherwise(but preferably mine)!. so i finally just left, but even though were not roommates anymore, when i see him i get still get anxious and angry!.

what he did was when i was just sitting in my room with the door open, he would peek in at me(not just glance in as he walked by, but actually peek around the corner), and he did this multiple times in a day!.
he also ate my food then labeled everything that was his!.
and he left the door open when he used the bathroom!.
i told him to stop doing these things!.!.!. i yelled and screamed at him to stop doing them, but he wouldn't stop!.

how can i get over this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Well that's a lot of hate!.Are you or where you taking any medicines at the time!? Because some times meds have symptoms your Dr!.doesn't always tell you about!.If not then maybe you are a more private person and he just got in your space!.Hopefully you will get past this,it is in the past now!.Maybe you Just feel some anger by your having to leave and feel it was unfair!.Just the same let it go and move on,you are only holding yourself back and for not a very good reason,it may seem like it was but in the great scheme of life it was not!.Maybe you would just like an explanation of his behavior,chancres are it was your ages,it was childish not to respect your space but he probably doesn't know why he acted like that,who knows!? So now you just need to forget about it,put it down to a bad time in your life and look forward!.You are now wiser and know that you survived and you are ok!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

idk try moving to a different city or try confronting him the next time that you see him and tell him how his actions have effected youWww@Answer-Health@Com

forgive him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well,you cant kill him,so you need to imagine hurting him,then let it go!.He's HAPPY your NOT!.!.It really isnt worth the energy to be so angry!.Try everyday to think of one nice thing about him,eventually it should balance out and you can move on!.You do have the right to remember he was irratating you intentionally,but,your still letting him do it!.Is that really how you want to feel!? He's ajerk and I see your just letting it eat you alive!.Try to let it go!.He's no longer a roomie,so ignore him when he walks by or is in your crowd!.Dont even speak to him!.He will eventually catch on or start bugging someone else!.EWww@Answer-Health@Com

He was controlling you mentally and now it seem that your psychotic side has come out,it was him with the problem in first place but he has made his problem your problem!.

If i was you I would see my Doctor!.

Tell him all that you have told us,he should give you some thing to calm your nerves and I know that forgiving him is out of the question at the moment so what you need to do is get better,as long as you are feeling like this then it means that he is in Control!.

Please see your doctor he will understand you!. bullying can bring on mental health problems so you must mention it to your doctor!.

All the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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