I don't know how to live life......someone help me!?!


Question: I don't know how to live life!.!.!.!.!.!.someone help me!!?
well,
1!. i have no friends
2!. i have no job
3!. i have no life
so how can i live life!.
i suffer w/ social phobia
i suffer w/ depression
i suffer w/ paranoia
and i suffer w/ one more thing, that's just horrible, it's so embarrassing i won't even put it down, but this other phobia i have, is the one that caused the ones listed above!. I don't know what to do w/ my life anymore!. i feel like i'm just letting time go pass me!. I am in college though, so i guess that's a step!. but nothing has changed yet!. i'm crying out for help and answers, someone help me!. PLEASE!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
dude, sometimes you just have to get over things!.
i'm not trying to be mean, but there are some people like me with serious health problems, like freaking tumors on their colons in serious pain!. just live! get friends, find a hobby, there's tons!. like dancing, singing, painting, drawing, get a pet!, go outside, start swimming, take a bubble bath, jog!, read, get interested in something and stick with it, or go to your doctor, and ask for depression pills or anxiety pills, either one will calm you down enough to live your life!.
just live!. because like you said, you are just letting so much time go pass!. believe me, i've passed enough time down the drain in dr!.'s offices and everything!.!.!.just please live and just have fun!. life is what you make it, dont' make it serious, and scared, make it fun, and calm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are in college then you are already doing way more than most people! Why should you feel bad about yourself!?
I'm assuming you're already under a Doctors care and getting antidepressant medications!. If you are not you should and ASAP!.
I can't live your life for you but you have some serious problems and you're going to have to fight and work very hard to stay on track - best luck and I'll pray for you!.
And is your other issue an eating disorder!? Just curious!. Email if you want!. Bassdoc (Dave)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its hard to offer advice without knowing your other issue, especially since it seems to have caused all these other issues!.!.!.!.

you need to get therapy for this!. get to the bottom of it all!. you need to understand that people can accept you as you are, but first you have to let them in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

How can we really help you if you are not telling us the reason you are suffering from these things!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, let's see!. I have been where you are before!. When you are in the middle of problems, they seem huge!. And quite possibly they are huge!. Even looking back years from now, what you are going through now may still be one of the darkest times of your life!.

My best advise is to start small!.

Find one person who is willing to listen to you!. Someone who will just listen and not try to solve your problems!. Maybe one of your parents or a sibling!. Tell them outright you just want them to be there for you to help you through this difficult time!.

Start a gratitude journal!. I did this years ago and it really helped me through a hard time!. Everyday make yourself write down five things that you are grateful for!. This will not be easy at first!. Sometimes you may struggle to think of one thing!. To get ideas look out your window, think of all of the things you are able to do that you know others are not able to do or think of the people you do have in your life and what they add to it!. It does get easier after a few weeks and it is good to be able to look back and see how much you have improved!.

Find some self-help reading material!. Read, read, read! But don't read just anything!. Make sure your search is reliable and proven!.

Get out into society in a small way!. Go to the park or go to church!. You can usually remain fairly annonomus at both of those places!.

Remember you are not alone!. I'll be praying for you!.



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