Is my Boyfriend Sucidal? (Help)?!
Question: Is my Boyfriend Sucidal!? (Help)!?
We've been together for 7 weeks and his entire life changed last week!.!.!. is he suicidal now!?
My boyfriend is the nicest and most pure hearted guy I know, he has always defended me and has always protected me with his life, but now I fear for his life as his life has fallen apart!.!.!.
It began 2 weeks ago when his dad was killed by a drunk driver, Daniel became soulless after that (they were close since his mom died at birth) but he soon he accepted this fact and moved on after the Funeral 1 week later!. Although we chatted during this time conversations were short and simple one-word answers!.
But it gets worse :(
After the Funeral, he received a letter saying that his older brother died in Iraq (they were also close) and that he had to move to his uncle's in Alaska (we are in Florida)!.
Now he became soulless again
He has already suffered 3 mental-break downs and I can't stand to seem him in pain like like this!. I have tried to comfort him in every way possible and tried to get him to do things but he is still soulless and shuts almost everyone except me out of his world!.
I don't know what to do can some one help me PLEASE HELP, Please!.
What can I do!?
The only good news is that my parents became his Legal Guardians after we contacted his uncle!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My boyfriend is the nicest and most pure hearted guy I know, he has always defended me and has always protected me with his life, but now I fear for his life as his life has fallen apart!.!.!.
It began 2 weeks ago when his dad was killed by a drunk driver, Daniel became soulless after that (they were close since his mom died at birth) but he soon he accepted this fact and moved on after the Funeral 1 week later!. Although we chatted during this time conversations were short and simple one-word answers!.
But it gets worse :(
After the Funeral, he received a letter saying that his older brother died in Iraq (they were also close) and that he had to move to his uncle's in Alaska (we are in Florida)!.
Now he became soulless again
He has already suffered 3 mental-break downs and I can't stand to seem him in pain like like this!. I have tried to comfort him in every way possible and tried to get him to do things but he is still soulless and shuts almost everyone except me out of his world!.
I don't know what to do can some one help me PLEASE HELP, Please!.
What can I do!?
The only good news is that my parents became his Legal Guardians after we contacted his uncle!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You are doing the best you can for you boyfriend by Truly loving him!. I have had 3 serious sudden bereavements, a husband at age 30, an identical twin at age 35 and also a younger sister!. I felt that these experiences were unique to me and i did think of suicide!. however the knowledge that there were people who loved me stopped me!. However i was irrational and difficult and full of feelings I felt that no one could understand, You boy will be like that too!. Love him and be patient and try to help him just get a little respite from his sad feelings!. Try to divert him even if it is only for a little while!. There are no set techniques for this, just protection in his vulnerability and belief that he will come through!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i really think you should get him to see a therapist, because there is a definite possibility that he might be suicidal!. but he's in grief and it will take years to get through that!. i went way deep down into depression when my mom died from breast cancer in 1997!. so continue to care for him and show that there is some kindness in the world that seems so cruel to him right now!.
best wishes and condolencesWww@Answer-Health@Com
best wishes and condolencesWww@Answer-Health@Com
Your friend is severely depressed and may also haf PTSD due to the losses his has had so close together!. Other than get him professional help all you can do is be there for him!.
All of the summer salts and cheering-up efforts will be fruitless at this point if he is going through severe depression!. Is he on any sort of medication!? If not a Psychiatrist or his family Dr!. can help!.
Sometimes not saying a word and just being there helps more!.!.!.!.this will leave the door open for him to talk when he is ready to do so!. Try to act as normal as possible and whatever you do don't look at him with eyes of pity!.!.!.!.he does not need pity!.!.!.he needs a loving yet strong support system!. Make sure that he is caring for himself ie!. eating, sleeping, bathing!. Only he knows what he feels!.!.!.!.!.you just continue to be loving friend this will help your parents too!. They don't need for you to become depressed or sick over this situation!. God Bless them for taking on the Guardianship God Bless you for caring!.!.!.!.!.
DDWww@Answer-Health@Com
All of the summer salts and cheering-up efforts will be fruitless at this point if he is going through severe depression!. Is he on any sort of medication!? If not a Psychiatrist or his family Dr!. can help!.
Sometimes not saying a word and just being there helps more!.!.!.!.this will leave the door open for him to talk when he is ready to do so!. Try to act as normal as possible and whatever you do don't look at him with eyes of pity!.!.!.!.he does not need pity!.!.!.he needs a loving yet strong support system!. Make sure that he is caring for himself ie!. eating, sleeping, bathing!. Only he knows what he feels!.!.!.!.!.you just continue to be loving friend this will help your parents too!. They don't need for you to become depressed or sick over this situation!. God Bless them for taking on the Guardianship God Bless you for caring!.!.!.!.!.
DDWww@Answer-Health@Com
Wow!. He is probably suffering from major depression!. Which leads to suicidal thoughts!. Not everyone attempts on what they think about though!. I think you should ask him if he is feeling that way and tell him that you only ask because you care!. Let him know that you can understand why he would feel the way he does and just be there and support him!. Let him know you will always be there for him!.
I wouldn't try making it sound like you're accusing him either, because then it might possibly make him upset or angry with you, and if you're the only person he will talk to then I would be very careful about what I say!.
You also might want to reserch up on abnormal behaviors!. Like, what people act like when they have become suicidal and read how people act when they've had major losses in their life!.
His depression could also fade in time, not everyone always has depression with them the rest of their lives!. Some people go through short periods of depression after tragic losses!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wouldn't try making it sound like you're accusing him either, because then it might possibly make him upset or angry with you, and if you're the only person he will talk to then I would be very careful about what I say!.
You also might want to reserch up on abnormal behaviors!. Like, what people act like when they have become suicidal and read how people act when they've had major losses in their life!.
His depression could also fade in time, not everyone always has depression with them the rest of their lives!. Some people go through short periods of depression after tragic losses!.Www@Answer-Health@Com