I dont know if anyone can help?!
Question: I dont know if anyone can help!?
But, my Nana died 10 months ago now, and ive never let her go really!. I was pretty close to her, and grew up with her living with my parents!. I was not very nice to her when i was younger, and was immature!.!. i feel guilty for alot of things!. When she went in a care home a few years ago, i saw her and she liked seeing me!. She ended up with dementia a few months before she died, and i told her i loved her, but i think it was too late!. I should have said it earlier!.!.
When i do sleep i always dream about her!. I dont know whether to goto a clairvoyant!?!.!. whether that will help me!. I just cant seem to let her go and i dont know what to do!.!. has anyone else gone through this and what helped you cope!?!.!. thanks!.!.xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
When i do sleep i always dream about her!. I dont know whether to goto a clairvoyant!?!.!. whether that will help me!. I just cant seem to let her go and i dont know what to do!.!. has anyone else gone through this and what helped you cope!?!.!. thanks!.!.xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Hi there,
Sorry to hear for your loss!. My gran died just over a year ago and there is a lot of things i wish i had said to her!. But i lef it too late! You can't go on living your life with regrets, that is something i had to understand also!. You also have to learn to move on, i know its hard but moving on does not mean forgeting!. No matter where you are, your grandmother is there with you, she knows how you feel, so tell her now! Tell her everything you wish you had told her now, i know it sounds a bit wack but, it helped me get a lot of my chest!. My grandmother also had dementia, it was a terrible illness that i wouldnt wish on anyone, but just because you told her you loved her then does not mean that it wouldnt stick, she may not have remembered it of the top of her head, but trust me, it would have been there and she would have past away knowing that, be assured!. I think you still need time to greive but, im sure your grandmother would not want all this worry and panic stop you from getting on! Hope all goes well!.
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Sorry to hear for your loss!. My gran died just over a year ago and there is a lot of things i wish i had said to her!. But i lef it too late! You can't go on living your life with regrets, that is something i had to understand also!. You also have to learn to move on, i know its hard but moving on does not mean forgeting!. No matter where you are, your grandmother is there with you, she knows how you feel, so tell her now! Tell her everything you wish you had told her now, i know it sounds a bit wack but, it helped me get a lot of my chest!. My grandmother also had dementia, it was a terrible illness that i wouldnt wish on anyone, but just because you told her you loved her then does not mean that it wouldnt stick, she may not have remembered it of the top of her head, but trust me, it would have been there and she would have past away knowing that, be assured!. I think you still need time to greive but, im sure your grandmother would not want all this worry and panic stop you from getting on! Hope all goes well!.
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Your nana knows you loved her!. Think about it you are not the only kid she has been around!. As parents we know what a child said is not what it really thinks!. Sounds to me like Nana is just hanging around to let you know she is fine and also loves you!. If you need to talk to her then do so just one night let her know what is on your mind!. Once your feeling better nana will move on and all will be good!.
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We grow up knowing that we are responsible for our action!. But when we are younger we are still learning and don't really mean a lot of what we say and do!. I also felt guilty for my Granny dying!. My mom use to go in every few days to check up on her and take her to the store!. Most of the time it was fine!. But the last few weeks she was alive she seemed to always want my mom with her!. My mom would always stop what she was doing and go to her!. I feel left out!. I wanted mom to be with me!. So the last thing I remember saying about my Granny to my mom was I wish she would die so we don't have to always go see her!. Then she died!. A few weeks later!. I felt so bad!. But my mom talked me thur it!. She knew I really didn't mean it the way I said it!. I have had many dreams over the years of my Granny and I have told her I was sorry!. That has helped a lot!. There are still days that I feel bad, but I know that it's okay!. Those days just let me remember her and remind me how my I really loved her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Stars, you are in a period of mourning and this is normal so instead of attempting to curb your behavior, you need to understand that this is part of acceptance!.
While the sense of loss and the intermittent sadness may never go away completely, people experience the cycle of grief differently!. Some find that within a few weeks or months the period between waves of distress lengthens, and they are able to feel peace, renewed hope, and enjoy life more and more of the time!. Others may face years of being hit with what feels like relentless waves of grief!.
There is a time for grief and this is what you are going through Stars so grieve because your tears are cleansing your heart and before long, your grief will turn to happy remembrance of someone who truly loved you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
While the sense of loss and the intermittent sadness may never go away completely, people experience the cycle of grief differently!. Some find that within a few weeks or months the period between waves of distress lengthens, and they are able to feel peace, renewed hope, and enjoy life more and more of the time!. Others may face years of being hit with what feels like relentless waves of grief!.
There is a time for grief and this is what you are going through Stars so grieve because your tears are cleansing your heart and before long, your grief will turn to happy remembrance of someone who truly loved you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com