Incredibly lonely and sick of life, 20 year old guy.?!
Question: Incredibly lonely and sick of life, 20 year old guy!.!?
I'm so lonely and fed up since quitting uni!. Struggling to find a job, which is the only foreseeable way forward to me!.
I've got few friends about, in fact, just the one, but he's away at uni too!.
I just need people to talk to, my own age and culture, i feel detached from the world of my peers!. i'm going slightly insane with nothing but my own thoughts and despair!.
Somebody to care for and be cared for by would make it worth it, but i can't see me ever progressing!. I wake up and sigh at the thought of another day looming ahead, and half wish i had never woken up!. I just feel empty one day and hopeful the next, it's like some sort of a cloud, lifting and re-forming every other day!. there is the easy solution, but i'm too much of a coward to even contemplate that, i couldn't do that to my family!.
I would like to go back to uni and study screenwriting instead, but that is a fair way off and i just need to find a way to get myself of of the mess i am in right now, so i'm set up internally for when i do go back!.
I have nobody, and so i need to start fresh and don't know how, i'm quite quiet and reserved, and since i have nobody to go anywhere with, i can't think of solution to my problem!.
i hate having to turn to something like this, and i hate having to burden others' with my problems, but i can't speak to my family about this, they have enough of their own to deal with, and i have nobody else i trust!.
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I've got few friends about, in fact, just the one, but he's away at uni too!.
I just need people to talk to, my own age and culture, i feel detached from the world of my peers!. i'm going slightly insane with nothing but my own thoughts and despair!.
Somebody to care for and be cared for by would make it worth it, but i can't see me ever progressing!. I wake up and sigh at the thought of another day looming ahead, and half wish i had never woken up!. I just feel empty one day and hopeful the next, it's like some sort of a cloud, lifting and re-forming every other day!. there is the easy solution, but i'm too much of a coward to even contemplate that, i couldn't do that to my family!.
I would like to go back to uni and study screenwriting instead, but that is a fair way off and i just need to find a way to get myself of of the mess i am in right now, so i'm set up internally for when i do go back!.
I have nobody, and so i need to start fresh and don't know how, i'm quite quiet and reserved, and since i have nobody to go anywhere with, i can't think of solution to my problem!.
i hate having to turn to something like this, and i hate having to burden others' with my problems, but i can't speak to my family about this, they have enough of their own to deal with, and i have nobody else i trust!.
thank youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Honestly bro, i'm there with you, slightly different situation, but I feel you!. Picture this!. I just came out of a two year relationship, to which I hurt the woman I love (or think I do) and I feel like sh-t everyday for it!. It's worth trying to move on, but sometimes you just don't want to right!?
I hear your pain my friend!. The reality is that you ARE worth it!. You, Me, Everyone is worth it!. We have a whole life ahead of us!. Not only that, but some of us have medical conditions!. I have a heart problem, and I'm still pulling!. I am going to pull you through, along with everyone here!. We are here for each other my friend!.
With the situation I discussed, School became a major problem for me, being that she is there with me, and she knows all my friends, and I have nothing that I do that doesn't remind me of her!. So imagine where i'm going with all of that right now!.
My gift was music, I was able to write tunes (I use to be a drummer, now I don't know where to start the classification)!. You say you like screenplay!? I would love to read some of the things you would work on!. Pursue your dreams!. The reality is that this life we are only given once!. Don't contemplate that "easy" way out, because if life was "easy" we'd all be dead!. Harsh as that may sound, I believe it's true!. I'm far from perfect and you don't really know my situation, but We, as people, stuck in the same kinds of situations need to reach out for each other!. Here is my hand!. I'm 20 myself, just turned!. You know what I do (sometimes it doesn't always make it better but it helps), I play video games online when I can!. Maybe you need to get out there and embrace things that you KNOW you can do!. Reality maybe that you don't feel motivated!. That's why we are here!. I'm not related to you, but I relate to you!. Get me on that!?
You are never alone!. You may not need "faith" or "God" or anything!. I am not here to preach belief systems!. I am here to preach trust in yourself!. You CAN and (if you want to) YOU WILL get through this!.
My heart goes out to you!. Maybe you need to find a woman that can help!? Or maybe you need to just get out there with those friends!. If they aren't enough for you, then make some new ones!. My name's Ken!. Nice to meet you!
Take care of yourself brother!. Always keep your head up, because in the end, you want to see where you're going, not watch the ground as you get to the wall!. Right!?
Life is meant to be endured, when sh-t gets hard!. It's meant to be enjoyed when sh-t gets funky, and it's meant to tear you apart when disaster (on any level, emotional, physical, whatever!) strikes!.
Then it's meant to hold you high above the rest when everything falls into place!. It will ALL fall into place soon my brother!. Keep strong!. We all have to keep strong!.
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I hear your pain my friend!. The reality is that you ARE worth it!. You, Me, Everyone is worth it!. We have a whole life ahead of us!. Not only that, but some of us have medical conditions!. I have a heart problem, and I'm still pulling!. I am going to pull you through, along with everyone here!. We are here for each other my friend!.
With the situation I discussed, School became a major problem for me, being that she is there with me, and she knows all my friends, and I have nothing that I do that doesn't remind me of her!. So imagine where i'm going with all of that right now!.
My gift was music, I was able to write tunes (I use to be a drummer, now I don't know where to start the classification)!. You say you like screenplay!? I would love to read some of the things you would work on!. Pursue your dreams!. The reality is that this life we are only given once!. Don't contemplate that "easy" way out, because if life was "easy" we'd all be dead!. Harsh as that may sound, I believe it's true!. I'm far from perfect and you don't really know my situation, but We, as people, stuck in the same kinds of situations need to reach out for each other!. Here is my hand!. I'm 20 myself, just turned!. You know what I do (sometimes it doesn't always make it better but it helps), I play video games online when I can!. Maybe you need to get out there and embrace things that you KNOW you can do!. Reality maybe that you don't feel motivated!. That's why we are here!. I'm not related to you, but I relate to you!. Get me on that!?
You are never alone!. You may not need "faith" or "God" or anything!. I am not here to preach belief systems!. I am here to preach trust in yourself!. You CAN and (if you want to) YOU WILL get through this!.
My heart goes out to you!. Maybe you need to find a woman that can help!? Or maybe you need to just get out there with those friends!. If they aren't enough for you, then make some new ones!. My name's Ken!. Nice to meet you!
Take care of yourself brother!. Always keep your head up, because in the end, you want to see where you're going, not watch the ground as you get to the wall!. Right!?
Life is meant to be endured, when sh-t gets hard!. It's meant to be enjoyed when sh-t gets funky, and it's meant to tear you apart when disaster (on any level, emotional, physical, whatever!) strikes!.
Then it's meant to hold you high above the rest when everything falls into place!. It will ALL fall into place soon my brother!. Keep strong!. We all have to keep strong!.
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To curb lonelines, you can go to online chat rooms to socialize!. I feel less lonely when playing poker online or when I'm in a chat room!. Hope you make more friends IRL and find a job soon!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
there's no such thing as insanity!. everyone's different its just the way your brain works!. mental illness does not truly exist, its all a matter of opinion!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No one is ever alone!. Keep God in your life bro!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is no reason for anyone to be lonely!. You are wasting your time just sitting there!. The reason that Jesus has a church is for us to have fellowship with people who love and care about us!. Go now, to the nearest fellowship or church building that honors Jesus and check out the singles group!. They will welcome you with open arms and you will have a good time, fellowship, meals, recreation, and most of all you will help other people and care about them!. You are not a burden!. God bless!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You sound like a great guy with alot going for you your just in a rut right now your come out of it!. keep looking for a job and things will look brighter for you!. and please talk to your family they would want you to talk to them i have a twenty year old son and he talks to me and we are able to help each other god bless and good luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh, I am so sorry!!! I'd suggest you get into some type of therapy/counseling!. Sounds like you also need to be on an anti-depressant!. You are WORTH it!! I'm sorry you feel like you are burdening others, ESP!. your family!.
Counseling!
Medication!
Exercise!
Revamp your diet!
Give yourself a break, too!. You are still very young and you have your whole life ahead of you!. Do NOT consider the "easy way" out; your family would never get over it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Counseling!
Medication!
Exercise!
Revamp your diet!
Give yourself a break, too!. You are still very young and you have your whole life ahead of you!. Do NOT consider the "easy way" out; your family would never get over it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First off, its going to be O!.K!. It will all work out my friend!. ;-)
Watching this short youtube video each morning will help you to start thinking more Positive!. You have to become an Optimist!. Its the secret to happiness and success!. Your negative thoughts are something like swimming with a 50 lbs!. ruck sack on your back!.
http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=phL0RLKL8!.!.!.
There is also a great Social Networking site you can check out!. It is based on the idea of "Self-Actualization"!.!.!.the desire to reach your Full Potential!. It is a very positive environment to help get you heading in the right direction!. Here's my profile!.
http://www!.letsreflect!.com/profile!.php!?u!.!.!.
You have the potential to do great things!. I believe in you! ;-)
I hope this helps!.!.!.!.Best of Luck!
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Watching this short youtube video each morning will help you to start thinking more Positive!. You have to become an Optimist!. Its the secret to happiness and success!. Your negative thoughts are something like swimming with a 50 lbs!. ruck sack on your back!.
http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=phL0RLKL8!.!.!.
There is also a great Social Networking site you can check out!. It is based on the idea of "Self-Actualization"!.!.!.the desire to reach your Full Potential!. It is a very positive environment to help get you heading in the right direction!. Here's my profile!.
http://www!.letsreflect!.com/profile!.php!?u!.!.!.
You have the potential to do great things!. I believe in you! ;-)
I hope this helps!.!.!.!.Best of Luck!
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