I'm getting depressed about this?????????????????!


Question: I'm getting depressed about this!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
well all my friends are in college and doing things to make their future better !.!. i've flunked highschool and since my mother had been hospitalised i hadn't gone to school for one year!.!. single mom!.!. so now i'm doing highschool via correspondence and working a low wage job!.!. it helps get me through!.!. i feel really bad because all my friends are going to finich colege in a year and i'm going to start college then!.!. i feel like a real loser and don't know where my life is gonna go!.!.!. how do you deal with something like this!?!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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u accept the fact that things didnt happen in ur timineg but at least they r gettin done! enjoy the precious pricless things that keep u goin in everyday life!.!.stop being regretful and an no there is a purpose!.!.i dropped out high school at age 16 didnt go back till 18 and graduated when i was "old" at age 20, im 22 now and i used to tell myself "i could ofbeen done already if i wouldnt have dropped, now imma be all old when i get done with college" but hey imma turn 30 no matter what, the question is wud i rather turn 30 with a college degree or with out either way imma turn 30Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can only do one step at a time!. You have a heavy plate load with your mom being hospitalized!. You are young and you are doing everything right!. Completing your high school via correspondence is the first step!. The you are going to college within a year's time!. It is o!.k!. that your friend's will be one year ahead of you!. This will also give you the privilege to meet new friends when you do go to college!. Don't ever feel like a loser-ever!. You just need to get your confidence back and you will be fine!. You are young so you won't know where life is going to take you, none of us ever do!. Try too look at this in a positive way!. Everything will work out fine in the end, just don't look so far ahead!. One day at a time-o!.k!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


With your situation, you ought to be proud at least!. That you can help your self!. You should not compare your self with other people even your friends because every person is different!. You should just understand and give way to your self!. Work harder and time will come that you'll be able to finish high school and go to college!. And maybe you'll finish college too!. Don't feel depressed about it and never feel that you are a loser!. Coz loser never wins and you are a winner!.

Remember that there is a point in your life where you have to work harder and sooner or later, from that hard work you will gain something better!.

I hope i'd helped you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just know that you are doing the very best that you can at this time!. Nothing will happen before it is supposed to, Have you ever heard the saying "for everything there is a season"!? That's what it means!. I don't know if you are religious but god will take care of you regardless!. It may get worse before it gets better but you have to keep your head up and believe with all you have that it will get better!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your life is going to take you exactly where you want it to go!. You have a plan and you're working on it, it may not be exactly what you'd hoped for!. But that's the way life is sometimes!. You've adjusted and take pride in that!. Give yourself a pat on the back, say good job and let yourself dream the best outcome!.We have to see it in our minds before we can make it come true!. All great people started out that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It can be difficult to want to keep going, but no matter what finish your degree!. You will need it in this world!. No matter what keep focused and keep moving forward!. If your unsure what you want to do visit the counselors at some local tech schools and colleges, they can help to guide you in the right direction and help you get there No matter what just don't give up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its not all your fault!.
crap happens and you have to deal with it!.

if you had gone to college when all your friends did you probably wouldn't have done well with your mom being sick!.

everything happens for a reason!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Join the military!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell yourself, "it could be worse!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, there are people of all ages in college now and so you won't be the oldest by far, believe me!. Many, many women have postponed going to college in order to raise children and then gone back to school after their kids were older!.

Your life is far from over and you still have plenty of decades of work, parenthood, and just life ahead of you!. It is not the world's worst tragedy to finish college a few years later than your friends!. Actually, it is probably better because you see how important the degree is and how much you don't want to work at a low-wage job forever!.

Believe me, in ten years or so you won't be living any differently than you would if you had finished college a few years earlier!. As long as you continue on with what you are doing and then get to college and get your degree you won't be a loser!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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