Maybe this is it, I'm at the end of the road of hope!?!


Question: Maybe this is it, I'm at the end of the road of hope!!?
Hi,

I will try and keep this short - I have Borderline personality Disorder & Depression and have done for years!. I have seen my GP, counsellors, a key worker, psychiatrists etc Been in hospital at the start of this year!. Had a serious suicide attempt in Jan!. Am on anti depressants etc!.

At the moment the only person there for me is my Key worker, she is lovely and I can't fault her for her efforts but I don't feel any better!. My Gp is really cold and off with me these days, I think she's fed up that I am not better!. I seen my psychiatrist a week or two ago and when I asked was theer anything else that could be done to help he just said no!.

I have tried being positive, going on walks, doing small things to challenge myself and to distract myself all the things that we can do to manage mental illness alone too but I feel like I am coming to the end of the road and suicide is playing heavy on my mind!.

I feel like everythings been tried and that's it!.!.maybe I just won't get any better than this and at the moment I completely hate life!. I have told people this but it doesn't make any difference because theres nothing anyone can do, including me!. yes i maybe giving up but what am I supposed to do!? Please don't suggest the samaritans, i think they are a great service and I have used their services many times but it's beyond that now!.

any advice!?

thank you
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Answers:
Don't give up!
The doctors etc!. cant cure you by themselves they need you to be hopeful and cure yourself!.
Keep up with the treatments!. Think positively!.
The doctors shouldn't have acted off towards you or simply said no!.
Don't give up!
I don't have borderline disorder (as far as I know) but I have been depressed!. I have considered suicide plenty of times!. Im glad I didn't do it!. (I know what you are going through is much worse and im so sorry that it is)!.
Eat right, get enough sleep, try to think positively, don't give up!.
XxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

Don't give up!. Medication is personal, and you have to work with your doctors to get the right medication, the right combinations of medications, and the right dosages!. Instead of telling your dr!. that something doesn't work, you might want to make suggestions!. Like this makes me feel a little better, can we increase the dosage on this!? And this one gives me bad side effects, can we take it out completely, or reduce the dosage!.

Read up on the topics and become your own advocate!. I know it is hard but it will be worth it in the long run!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Please have a little look at my site - http://mentalhealthmadeeasy!.com
I can't believe that they told you that they couldn't do more for you!. That's shocking!. I never fail to be amazed by the ineptness of these people!.

There's always more that can be done!. This flaw is their's, not yours!.
Please try my site!. It's completely free so you've nothing to lose and potentially a lot to gain!. It's not like the samaritans and it's not a friendly ear for your problems!. It's an explanation of why you think the way you think and why non-depressed people think differently and how to change easily!.

Good Luck

Lee-AnneWww@Answer-Health@Com

To tell you the truth I really don't know what to tell you!. The fact is whatever happens in your life is up to you!. Just try to enjoy life anyway you can!. Give yourself a reason to live and stick with that!. I wish I could help, I really wish I could, but unfortunately I'm not the person that should be giving you advice!. You need to really talk to someone close to you for the right answer!. Just remember the people in your life and keep your head up!. Never give up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree that you must never give up & you must stop thinking about suicide!. You have one life to lead and it has real value - therefore, you have real value!.

Start taking better care of your self physically!. Eat as healthily as you can, start exercising and prove to yourself that you are important!.

In the future you'll be in such a good place to help people who feel how you do now!. You are free and have choices - start making good ones!. You may not be happy with where you are now, but as they say 'life's a journey' and somewhere down the road will be a better place!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

!.!.!.Our life is a journey that begins at birth and ends at our death!. Each one of us has their own destination and travels on many roads and paths to reach it!. The price that we must pay for this journey are the trails and tribulations that we encounter along the way!. We must all make this journey which is long for some and short for others and there is no cancellation or refund allowed!.

The route we take determines the ease and success that we have in reaching our destination!. Many who take the wrong path wind up on the wrong road and suffer many torments and calamities as the consequences of their erroneous decisions!.

Sometimes the road we are on is the only road that we can take to reach our personal destination and it is riddled with pits and traps that are there to undermine our attempts to reach our destination!. If we continue on our journey despite the obstacles that we encounter along the way we realize that the only way to survive the torment is to create a life that will ease our sufferings and give the rest, tools and help that we need to continue on

You must have a life as well as be alive to reach your final destination and place that you must be at on earth!. For those who give up or those who die before they have reached and done what had to be done to reach their destination; woe unto them that ended up where they should of not been and doing what they shouldn



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