Lonely i need advice please?!
Question: Lonely i need advice please!?
I feel hopeless, stressed out to hell and all alone!. I feel like crawling into a hole and just wait to die!. My grandma is horribly sick!. She was in the hospital for a month and they just recently put her in a assisted living home until she recovers but I know she will be back in there next week!. She has her good days and her bad but they are mostly bad days!. I know people get old and die but when you love someone so much its so hard seeing her like that!. I couldnt take seeing her like that i started crying everytime i was there so i stopped going to see her!. Now I call my mom and ask if shes doing ok and if she is i will go see her but its still hard!. I feel as if i have no friends except 1 person at my work, my fiance, and of course my wonderful parents!. My bestfriend moved away to florida and i feel as if we are drifting apart!. I told her i got engaged and all she said was OH wow!. I also just had a biopsy done on my cerix and i might have the early stages of cervical cancer!. Im stressed, worried, scared, lonley and hopeless!. How can i make myself feel better!?
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You need to break it all out into pieces so you don't feel so overwhelmed!. There's a lot going on right now which is making you feel bad, but you have some good things too!. You just got engaged (CONGRATULATIONS!) that's a wonderful, happy thing! You have a loving family and you have a friend!. One good friend is worth more than 10 not so good friends, right!?
I know that no fluffy, pretty words are going to make things seem better so maybe you need to find a counselor to talk to!? Maybe to help lighten the load a little bit!? Sometimes there are things you cannot say to family or friends that you really need to get off your chest!.
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I know that no fluffy, pretty words are going to make things seem better so maybe you need to find a counselor to talk to!? Maybe to help lighten the load a little bit!? Sometimes there are things you cannot say to family or friends that you really need to get off your chest!.
Hang in there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Never stress over the little things!.!. Congrats on the engagement!. Yes it is hard when you know a loved one will die!. But she will be in no more oain afterwards!. Look at it at that way!. Friends come and go!. So don't stress over that!. Focus on the wedding that is coming soon!.
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Things will get betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
people constantly enter and leave our lives and because of them and their time with and away from us we are changed!. Our minds are adapted to strengthen when there is a loss, and they open up when we find new friends!. change is inevitable!. so is death and dying because the world is going to keep spinning and changing itself!. All you can do is make the most of everyday you're on this world and be thankful for the moments you are allowed to share with the people that love you!.
I thank the world every morning that i wake up!. I am so happy to be alive and so fortunate to have such loving parents and caring friends!. You seem like you have a lot going for you as well!. Dont let the sad things in life get you down!. be happy with every gift you're given and every moment you have with your grandmother and make more memories with her, because that's something that will always last!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I thank the world every morning that i wake up!. I am so happy to be alive and so fortunate to have such loving parents and caring friends!. You seem like you have a lot going for you as well!. Dont let the sad things in life get you down!. be happy with every gift you're given and every moment you have with your grandmother and make more memories with her, because that's something that will always last!.Www@Answer-Health@Com