I've made a lot of really bad mistakes?!


Question: I've made a lot of really bad mistakes!?
I'm 19 and a few days ago, I had everything I could have wanted!.

I used to do drugs a lot, until I found out my girlfriend of 4 years was pregnant and I stopped!. Well, 2 days ago, we found out that we'd lost our unborn son and we'd made so many plans on a future so it was horrible to hear!. That day, I went out and got high again and drank until I stopped thinking about it!. It was selfish, stupid and immature and now I've lost my girlfriend and all the life I had ahead of me!.

I've gone back to drugs, parties and alcohol!.

How can I get over what I've found out and live a better life!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You hold your head up and move on!. Bad things happen to good people but drugs and crap are not the answer!. Believe me I know!. Been there done all you could imagine and have been sober for almost 3 years now!. So you can get the life back that you had and by doing drugs and drinking is NOT the way to do it!.

Good luck!.!. need to talk let me know!. My stuff is availableWww@Answer-Health@Com

hey buddy, you still young man and i'm pretty sure that you want to be changed after all what happened!. hey take this, noone is perfect, you got it!? good!. if you gf has gone you still can get her back but after you become a new person new character, no alchohol, no more drugs!. maybe she left yu because of you actions, every woman gets hurt when she loses her child!. but here is the thing go back to her, talk to her, show her that you wanna build a new life with her, with no troubles

and verything will be alright

good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

First of all you have to stop your bad habits!. I still don't understand why people that are depressed drink more, alcohol is a depressant!. Right now you are probably depressed from the events that have taken place, and the things you are doing now are making it worse not better!. Get your head straight and make choices that you think will make you successful!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am not going to judge anyone, but the only person who can help is YOU!.

If you don't 100% decide to give up drugs permanently,
you will ruin your life and all around you!.

It is your choice!. Your decision!. There is no one you can blame!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

shhh listen!. you already know the answer!. dont drink!. dont do drugs!. and if your girlfriend left you then shes not the one your supposed to be with!. you just need someone to talk to!. talk to me if u need!. id be glad to helpWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think you have answered your own question!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like fate already dealt you a hefty load of punishment!. Sorry, I know you hurt, but don't be your own whipping post!. Fate also has a funny way of turning things around once you get some perspective!. Mistakes happen, do some thinking on what you can learn from them, and don't repeat the past!. Beyond that put it behind you, and mostly, FORGIVE yourself!. At nineteen you have plenty of time to find the right path, give yourself some permission to be a kid, fun isn't a bad thing!. I'm almost 49, and if I'd obsessed about my bad decisions throughout life, I'd be a basket case! Laugh, play, and smile, once you've come to grips with what you've gone through!. Also, please don't misunderstand me, but miscarriages usually happen because nature is telling you that the unborn fetus was not healthy!. Harsh as it may seem,this can be a blessing!. For the child, as well as the parents!. Again, honey, I'm sorry for your hurt!. Please, contact me if you need a friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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