I'm happy with social phobia...?!
Question: I'm happy with social phobia!.!.!.!?
well,i'm not sure that i'm kind of social phobia or not!.
but anyway i used to get pain and upset from monophobia before when i was a teenager!. but it was long time ago!. i was cured by changing my life style and some meditation therapy!.
so,when i'm late of 20 something - early 30,i'm kind of happy people,party all the time and had lots of friends!.
but suddenly something change when i was almost 32 years old (now i'm 34)!. i begin to dislike people!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
i know that there is a reason behind (i was upset with many friends and people i knew in last couple years)!.
so i begin to feel that human is such a selfish creation!.
finally i start to party less and now stop party!. don't make friends,don't contact with old friends anymore,don't trust or go in a deep friendship with anybody (except my boyfriend and my dog!)!.
well,my job is kind of meeting people,new people all the time!. but as i told u that i don't go in a deep friendship with anybody!. and i still help some people sometime if they need some help and i can help!. but that's it!. no connection in a deep feeling of freidnship!.
so now the best friend i have now is my boyfriend and my dog!. this two person that i trust and give my deep feeling for them!.
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i know that it's weird,but i start to like it more and more!.
i'm not sure that this is a social phobia or not!. but if it is,i'm happy with it!.
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but anyway i used to get pain and upset from monophobia before when i was a teenager!. but it was long time ago!. i was cured by changing my life style and some meditation therapy!.
so,when i'm late of 20 something - early 30,i'm kind of happy people,party all the time and had lots of friends!.
but suddenly something change when i was almost 32 years old (now i'm 34)!. i begin to dislike people!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
i know that there is a reason behind (i was upset with many friends and people i knew in last couple years)!.
so i begin to feel that human is such a selfish creation!.
finally i start to party less and now stop party!. don't make friends,don't contact with old friends anymore,don't trust or go in a deep friendship with anybody (except my boyfriend and my dog!)!.
well,my job is kind of meeting people,new people all the time!. but as i told u that i don't go in a deep friendship with anybody!. and i still help some people sometime if they need some help and i can help!. but that's it!. no connection in a deep feeling of freidnship!.
so now the best friend i have now is my boyfriend and my dog!. this two person that i trust and give my deep feeling for them!.
!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
i know that it's weird,but i start to like it more and more!.
i'm not sure that this is a social phobia or not!. but if it is,i'm happy with it!.
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Answers:
If mine is a social phobia, then I like it too! I'm 49 and I am most happy when it's just hubby and I !. Well, there's our two dogs, 6 cats, hairless rat, etc!.!. I love just us!. I do love spending time with the grand kids and all that, but it's not the biggest part of my life!.!.!.tho it is sooo special!. I went to a therapist recently for my co dependency to my family's problems!.!.!.mom's chronically depressed and seems to be overly content there in the dark place!.!.!.sis is an alcoholic, meth user!.!.!.the drama goes on,!.!.!.AND the therapist thought it was sad that my "metaphoric" sandbox consisted of just hubby and I!. I don't party anymore!. I hate drama, users, people that don't nurture your soul!. I'm not a recluse!. I've got grown kids, a job with clients I adore, but nothing like that ole sandbox for two!. Label me as you wish, I don't find it unhealthy nor unhappy!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its easy to isolate!.Whats happens when you put so much energy in someone you feel comfortable and trust!.I am in the same situation,but the person I trusted now wants out,this is after 23 years!.There is no way you can predict ,and there is no way to stop it !.Sometimes feeeling alone is good!.Now I have no back up at all and have to start over!.Its not easy when your older!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This could be Avoidant personality disorder Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's not a social phobia, people with that tend to hate going out to stores or busy places or even having boyfriends!.
It just looks like you have been hurt in the past!? Or maybe you just don't like being around people which is a natural personality!. You're getting older and you just need your space now, nothing weird or anything!.
Now about the disliking people PERIOD thing!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.have you ever been hurt by a friend or family member!? That could be your reason but that is a little not normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It just looks like you have been hurt in the past!? Or maybe you just don't like being around people which is a natural personality!. You're getting older and you just need your space now, nothing weird or anything!.
Now about the disliking people PERIOD thing!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.have you ever been hurt by a friend or family member!? That could be your reason but that is a little not normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com