Do i have separation anxiety?!


Question: Do i have separation anxiety!?
my sister is hopefully getting married to somebody she likes i think he is a good person but i can't help but feel like i am losing her what to do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You don't have Separation Anxiety, as in, the disorder, but certainly what you are going through must be a difficult!. Especially if you and your sister are close, of course when she gets married, the reality is that the dynamics of your family are going to change!. The good news is that you mentioned that you think her fiance is a good person (which is a WHOLE lot better than HATING him, LOL!)!. Here's what I would do:

1) Acknowledge that your feelings are real and valid, and maybe try talking to a counselor or some people that you trust to help you through this transition!. Although you will always be sisters, she IS going to need some time to adjust to being a wife as well!.

2) If you haven't already, (and without "raining on your sister's parade during what is hopefully a very exciting time for her), have a heart-to-heart talk with her and let her know how happy you are for her, but that you just want to make sure your relationship remains close and that you love her and want to stay super-connected no matter what!.

3) Then, just enjoy this process WITH her!. It may even make you closer as a result!. The two of you have a lot of wonderful experiences ahead to share as sisters and there will be times when she needs you and not her husband to talk to!. You will see that everything will balance out, and re-regulate itself once the dust settles!.!.!.just give it time, and have a little faith in the relationship that you and your sister have established thus far!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're not losing her!.!.!.!.You're gaining a brother-in-law! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have separation anxiety!.
Your not losing ur sister, just keep in super touch, you may be geting a new bro-in-law though =]Www@Answer-Health@Com





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