How do you battle loneliness ?!
Question: How do you battle loneliness !?
I've been feeling really lonely lately, more so than ever in my life before especially right now!. I'm actually use to it but it really gets to me now!.!.!.i don't have many friends now just a handful, since I graduated highschool a year ago i havent really done much with my life, i dont go out that much : ( i really never had that many friends in life!.!.just a few!.!.now it feels like i have none even though I do i have some!.!.!.!.!.plus I dont have any brothers or sisters, I wish I really did!. The person I talk to the most in my life is this boy I really love but he is far away from me which makes it even more sad and painful for me, it really is heartbreaking so i feel more and more lonely as each day goes by!.!.!.i dont get to even spend that much talk time with him!.!.!.!.!.!.!. :( i really feel lonely in this world what can I doWww@Answer-Health@Com
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i feel the same but i kill the loneliness to try new thing like i try to start photographing or u can take guitar lessons when you do that u express how u feel in (music or pic) and you will see interesting people that have anther side not just an ordinary same personality , try it you maybe u will get a hobby and friends !.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Exercise, go to gym, do yoga, go for walks/jog in nature, go swimming etc!. When you keep your body moving, and energy moving, it stimulates lot of positive hormones, and you wont have time to think about being lonely!. Also try to find some activity you love and dedicate yourself to it!. Loneliness is caused by lethargy and energy being stuckk, so keep your body moving, keep your breath moving and enjoyWww@Answer-Health@Com
The worse thing you can do is stay home and feel bad, nothing is going to change doing that!. At the very least go for a walk everyday with music!. You need fresh air and movement!. If you don't have a job look for employment, there are always people to befriend there!. You could volunteer or look at furthering your education, but you need to go out and do something!. To feel better about yourself you need to be productive, the world is a different place after high school!. I much enjoyed it after lol!.
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make yourself busy, do productive things!. Go to college, better yourself, that will not only keep you busy and keep your mind off things, but it will give you more to offer someone else!. Of course love is love, but there's so many fish in the sea and so much competition, go to school, start an excersize program, you can meet new friends at school and the gym, maybe even that special guy who has ambitions and goals!. Better than hanging at the bars, making friends with ho's and drunks!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are probably suffering from great depression and loneliness!. There are many ways to fight this:
1!. Get a photo of your loved one or get on with him on the net!. chatting for long hours!.
2!. Time to read a book!. You may not be liking novels or big books!. But You can try them in loneliness!.
3!. Play PC games!. Sometimes it works out and you come to spend time unknowingly!.
4!. Freak out or Go out for shopping that;s the best thing to do!.
5!. Make friends on ORKUT and decide to meet with them!.
6!. If you hate all the above topics, then meditate!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1!. Get a photo of your loved one or get on with him on the net!. chatting for long hours!.
2!. Time to read a book!. You may not be liking novels or big books!. But You can try them in loneliness!.
3!. Play PC games!. Sometimes it works out and you come to spend time unknowingly!.
4!. Freak out or Go out for shopping that;s the best thing to do!.
5!. Make friends on ORKUT and decide to meet with them!.
6!. If you hate all the above topics, then meditate!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to close friends or go for a short trip vocation!.
If you keep on having this kind of feeling and also having sleeping problem (can't sleep properly) then you need to see a doctor asap!.
There are many ways to kill your time!.
Working, Exercising, Meet old friends or School friends!. !.
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If you keep on having this kind of feeling and also having sleeping problem (can't sleep properly) then you need to see a doctor asap!.
There are many ways to kill your time!.
Working, Exercising, Meet old friends or School friends!. !.
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Go out and volunteer and do something good for someone else!. You will feel good about it and you will not be alone!. Heck, you might even meet that special someone that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well look around, and find some other guys, sorry i dont know what to say, im a guy and younger than u and got a girl and a lot of friends sooooooooo, yahWww@Answer-Health@Com
by being with some one who is really special to you you can drive away loneliness
join orkut/face book make friends there
don't fall in any bad habits like drug abuse or alcoholWww@Answer-Health@Com
join orkut/face book make friends there
don't fall in any bad habits like drug abuse or alcoholWww@Answer-Health@Com
I would get out and be with other people, just to get out of the house!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have always found drugs and alcohol helpfulWww@Answer-Health@Com
you need to make new friends!. Take a pottery class, find a job, find people who have same hobbies, etc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
do volunteer work, join a clubWww@Answer-Health@Com
yeah what she said^^Www@Answer-Health@Com
call out your friendsWww@Answer-Health@Com
1st off i tend to self medicate like "Jack Two" but I wouldn't advise that!. I just wanna tell you that I'm an only child too with basically no family members so I can relate!.
Not to burst your bubble but I want you to be prepared for the things to come!. Either fix the problem now or prepare for it to get worse!. If you think you lonely now just wait 10yrs when you damn near 30!.
What friends or associates you do have die or go to jail 4ever and you never see them again!.
Learn to deal with the cards you've been dealt and count your blessings!.!.!.you could be alone in a cell for life, on a gurney paralized!. Atleast you're free to laugh, play, go out, watch tv!.!.!.whatever!. just don't let it get you down!.
To make a long story short, quit focusing on what you don't have and accentuate what you do have and what you , me and people like us have is strength and you'll see that others admire those who stand alone and stand strong!.
never let'em see you sweat!. It's us against them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not to burst your bubble but I want you to be prepared for the things to come!. Either fix the problem now or prepare for it to get worse!. If you think you lonely now just wait 10yrs when you damn near 30!.
What friends or associates you do have die or go to jail 4ever and you never see them again!.
Learn to deal with the cards you've been dealt and count your blessings!.!.!.you could be alone in a cell for life, on a gurney paralized!. Atleast you're free to laugh, play, go out, watch tv!.!.!.whatever!. just don't let it get you down!.
To make a long story short, quit focusing on what you don't have and accentuate what you do have and what you , me and people like us have is strength and you'll see that others admire those who stand alone and stand strong!.
never let'em see you sweat!. It's us against them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well I can say several things:
1!. Talk to your medical doctor about it!. Even if he doesn't work with mental issues like that at least he can recommend something to you!.
2!. Be appreciative of what you have you could have it a lot worse (like if you lived in developing countries in the midst of famine and poverty)!.
3!. Talk to your parents!. Ok, you may not find that meaning anything given that your parents have to love you no matter what, but they may know more about life's challenges than you'd think and can find help for you!.
4!. Know that there is always hope for any innocent person in the world!.!.!. note that suicide is a forever decision and is never the right one!.
5!. Talk to me (no guarantees of anything and should be careful)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1!. Talk to your medical doctor about it!. Even if he doesn't work with mental issues like that at least he can recommend something to you!.
2!. Be appreciative of what you have you could have it a lot worse (like if you lived in developing countries in the midst of famine and poverty)!.
3!. Talk to your parents!. Ok, you may not find that meaning anything given that your parents have to love you no matter what, but they may know more about life's challenges than you'd think and can find help for you!.
4!. Know that there is always hope for any innocent person in the world!.!.!. note that suicide is a forever decision and is never the right one!.
5!. Talk to me (no guarantees of anything and should be careful)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think that everyone feels lonely at times!. Right now I am feeling a little lonely, but I shouldnt feel lonely at all!. I came from a huge family that consists of 4 sisters and 1 brother (one of my sisters is my identicle twim) and I have both my parents who are so loving, and I also am married to a great guy and have a wonderful 3 year old son!. I think that I feel lonely sometimes because I really dont have friends!. I have friends, but none that are best friends, or who I could go to for anything!. And When I was in high school I had so many friends!. I couldnt even count all them on my hands or toes!. And I had a handful of best friends!. But for some reason, after having my son, they just wernt so great anymore!. Then the one best friend I had left, who I was there for through her divorce and everything!.!.!. she just disappeared!. She changed her number, moved and havent heard from her for almost a year!. And we were like best friends!. I didnt do anything to her!.!. I think that she just got sick of her ex bothering her, and she cut off any connections she had!. I used to think "who cares about friends!.!.!. I have my family" but it is important to have friends!. Do you go to college!? Maybe you should join some type of group in college, or if you dont go to college go!. It is pretty easy to entrol!. Dont feel so down, everyone goes through these feelings and you are still young!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
hopefully it is just for a time and hopefully it will pass!.
My wife died in 2006 and it's been a very lonely time for me, and I'm always out doing social stuff too and it's still lonely - every day!. with or without people it's still lonely!.
I guess the best thing to do is to pray and all that and see what you can learn about life during this time - and hopefully it will pass after a while!. During your life you are going to have times when you are just alone and after a while you have to learn to be ok enough with yourself that you can handle it!. it's hard!.
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My wife died in 2006 and it's been a very lonely time for me, and I'm always out doing social stuff too and it's still lonely - every day!. with or without people it's still lonely!.
I guess the best thing to do is to pray and all that and see what you can learn about life during this time - and hopefully it will pass after a while!. During your life you are going to have times when you are just alone and after a while you have to learn to be ok enough with yourself that you can handle it!. it's hard!.
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