Are you scared of dying?!
Question: Are you scared of dying!?
how do you feel about dying!? i am terrified, not of pain or anything like that just the fact that i wont see family of friends etc again!. ever since i was about 8 (i am now nearly 27) i have had these episodes every couple of years that usually last a few weeks!. i go to bed and then basically lie there wth a horrible feeling in my stomach and cry about death!. will i remember my kids etc!. i try and think positive and imagine we all meet up in an 'afterlife' but i cant seem to snap out of it, then after a couple of weeks of sleepless nights i manage of snap out of it!. i know death comes to everyone and i just should accept i but it terrifies me knowing i will never see my family again!. do you think i shopuld go and get help or am i normal!? how does everyone else feel about dying!? honest answers please!. i just feel i spend too much time worrying about what happens when i die, rather than enjoying my life!.
i just read a question about death which triggered this off so thanks for that!!! xxxxxxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
i just read a question about death which triggered this off so thanks for that!!! xxxxxxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I'm scared of death to a point it may cross my mind everyday for a split second lately its been a lot just before bed, the main worry is not about me dying its all those around me, the fact that i'd be alone when there gone a would i ever meet up with them again in the afterlife!. This may help you a little bit, there was a scientific study what happens to energy after its lifespan is over don't know if i phrased that right, it doesn't die it changes form, we are energy so when we die we just change that part hasn't been proven but the first part to it has!. I don't know what is going to happen i'm not religous but i'm quite spiritual i believe there is more to life than meets the eye!. The reason death is so hard to just accept is because we don't truly know what happens after we die, we can try to cope my thinking or believing we know but truth is we don't no one can truly say that when we die thats it game over, or religion in this case!. You just have to think positive, live life the best you can, and instead of thinking of doing something or wanting something just do it!.
Hope it all gets better for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hope it all gets better for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When I'm feeling scared about death, I just remind myself that EVERYONE has to do it eventually!. There is no one on Earth who can avoid the situation!.
And I also think about really brave and admirable people who have died and I say to myself, 'well if they did it, why can't I!?'
It's natural and it's what God made us for!. To live, and then to die!.
Don't stress!. It needs to happen!
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And I also think about really brave and admirable people who have died and I say to myself, 'well if they did it, why can't I!?'
It's natural and it's what God made us for!. To live, and then to die!.
Don't stress!. It needs to happen!
:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not really afraid of dying!. If it happens, it happens!. I don't have children or anything, and I've never really thought about not seeing my friends of family!. That doesn't scare me though, just makes me scared!. As for seeing a doctor, I'm sure it's just a terrible phobia!. Mines being buried alive!. If I think about it before bed I'm up for hours, just like you!. I'm sure things will get better though!. Try not to think about it!. Goodluck!. ( :Www@Answer-Health@Com
i am not worried about death my self it is one of the most natural things to happen to you!. if you keep worrying about death its going to consume you and it could affect your family!. did you have some bad experience with a bereavement in your family or one of your friends when you were younger it could be linked with that!.
i would tell you go and see some one about it they might be able to find the root cause of it !. good luck and enjoy life to the fullest Www@Answer-Health@Com
i would tell you go and see some one about it they might be able to find the root cause of it !. good luck and enjoy life to the fullest Www@Answer-Health@Com
i welcome it, i would thank god to never see my family again, except the good one is already dead so doesnt matter!. granted i probably wont see my other family ever again either, but life is so full of crap sometimes, does it really matter!? its a bit weird not to exist anymore, but that could be good too!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
i feel sorry for anyone that IS afriad to die!. its unavoidable!.
and honestly, at this point in my life, i will welcome it!.
im not surre what happens after you die, im not really religious, well not anymore!. but i guess we will find out someday!.
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and honestly, at this point in my life, i will welcome it!.
im not surre what happens after you die, im not really religious, well not anymore!. but i guess we will find out someday!.
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I'm more afraid of the ones I love dying!.
I care about them far more than myself, and I worry about them every waking moment!. I wouldn't be able to live without my parents, friends, and the love of my life!.
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xx!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I care about them far more than myself, and I worry about them every waking moment!. I wouldn't be able to live without my parents, friends, and the love of my life!.
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xx!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hi there, no i'm not scared of dying!. if thats the way God wants it then thats that!.i know my family will be taken care of!. God will provide if you ask!. i know that this is not how everybody thinks but it's what i beleive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I do not fear death!. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it!. - Mark Twain Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am scared about the way i am going to die!.!. Long and painful!.!. But I dont think about it cuz I know that i have NO control over how its going to happen!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Nope, just enjoy life, don't worry about a thing you can't change or stopWww@Answer-Health@Com
im not scared of dying!.!. im scared of living =(Www@Answer-Health@Com
In the words of Robbie- I'm not scared of dying I just don't want toWww@Answer-Health@Com
no when you die all your problems go away!. just imagine being without any problems at allWww@Answer-Health@Com
No not at all!. After death we can't see or fell anything!. We would not no what is happening in the world!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes,I am scared of dying!.Obviously people die all the time,but in the last two years I've lost my dad and my brother!.
My dad died slowly of cancer,at the end he couldn't speak and it consumed me that maybe he was in a great deal of pain,or wanted to say something and couldn't tell us!.
Then my brother died suddenly of a heart attack,again,I worried about any pain he may have had,or thoughts that went through his head before he died!.We were there too trying to revive him,giving him heart massage,mouth to mouth etc and managed to get a pulse!.I wonder if he had thoughts at this time and realised he was dying and if he was scared,didn't want to go etc (he was only 42)!.
So yeh,after my dad,I was scared of dying,the actual act and time of death,I guess I'm worse now and won't actually realise,until the time comes,whether I'm going to accept it or just let go!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My dad died slowly of cancer,at the end he couldn't speak and it consumed me that maybe he was in a great deal of pain,or wanted to say something and couldn't tell us!.
Then my brother died suddenly of a heart attack,again,I worried about any pain he may have had,or thoughts that went through his head before he died!.We were there too trying to revive him,giving him heart massage,mouth to mouth etc and managed to get a pulse!.I wonder if he had thoughts at this time and realised he was dying and if he was scared,didn't want to go etc (he was only 42)!.
So yeh,after my dad,I was scared of dying,the actual act and time of death,I guess I'm worse now and won't actually realise,until the time comes,whether I'm going to accept it or just let go!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am really not afraid of dying, but i am very worried about leaving my 2 grown up and dependant disabled children!. I worry about it to the extent at one time a few years ago it was making me feel like i was going to go under!.
I had to make the conscious decision that if i went on like that and did not get a grip, i would lose them anyway as i would be unfit to care for them!.
You have to put that out of your mind and concentrate on the here and now!. If i ever do think of it i think it will be out of my hands then so as there is nothing i can do about it!.
I get comfort from the fact that life is short and it will not be long before we are all together again!.
In the twinkling of an eye!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had to make the conscious decision that if i went on like that and did not get a grip, i would lose them anyway as i would be unfit to care for them!.
You have to put that out of your mind and concentrate on the here and now!. If i ever do think of it i think it will be out of my hands then so as there is nothing i can do about it!.
I get comfort from the fact that life is short and it will not be long before we are all together again!.
In the twinkling of an eye!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's not unusual to go through periods in your life that you think about death, or that the thought consumes you!. If it continues or you feel you cannot get a hold over it, then seek some professional counsel!.!.!. no harm in that!.
Personally!?!.!.!. I'm not afraid of death!. I'm a full believer in evolution and when my time comes, I simply cease to exist!. I know my family left behind will bear the brunt of sadness!.!.!.!.but we all must expect that in our lifetime!.!.!. that's just the evolution of life!. I guess my fear lies in growing old and loosing my mental faculties or loosing my ability to walk/move!. I'm currently watching my Father die right now and it's beyond horrible!. I am a great supporter of Human Euthanasia!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Personally!?!.!.!. I'm not afraid of death!. I'm a full believer in evolution and when my time comes, I simply cease to exist!. I know my family left behind will bear the brunt of sadness!.!.!.!.but we all must expect that in our lifetime!.!.!. that's just the evolution of life!. I guess my fear lies in growing old and loosing my mental faculties or loosing my ability to walk/move!. I'm currently watching my Father die right now and it's beyond horrible!. I am a great supporter of Human Euthanasia!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good morning from England, Gemma!. What a brave and emotive posting - and a question which many of us must have asked ourselves from time to time!.
I fully accept that you have just read a question about death, but, with no disrespect intended, I cannot help but feel that this problem has been concerning you for some considerable time!.
Death is an essential part of our life, Gemma!. Indeed, death in this world is actually birth into the next world - the astral plane!. When you are born into this world, there are people waiting to help you - doctors, nurses, et al, and when you die and are born into the next world, there are people waiting to help you there, too!. Death is often cast as the "grim reaper" yet I often feel that, particularly in cases where someone is in great pain and has no chance of recovery, death can be a true friend!.
You do not need help, in my view: your feelings are perfectly normal!. Whilst most of us keep our feelings on this subject pretty much hidden, you choose to let them out!. That's all it really is! Feelings which are repressed can cause problems of all kinds: feelings which are not, can not!. If you feel it would help to talk this through, you must feel free to contact me - I shall be delighted to listen, and try to answer whatever questions you have!.
We are all going to die sooner or later, Gemma: that is a fact!. Try to accept this, and relax!. Not easy, I know, but look at it this way!. As a spiritualist, I firmly believe that, when we pass over, we are reunited with those we have loved on this plane, in spirit!. And do bear in mind, also, that the difference in time between our world and the spirit world, is absolutely incredible!. Thus, when you do pass over, it will not appear to be long before you are joined by those you love!.
I hope this has helped, Gemma - and I wish you well!.
Regards!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I fully accept that you have just read a question about death, but, with no disrespect intended, I cannot help but feel that this problem has been concerning you for some considerable time!.
Death is an essential part of our life, Gemma!. Indeed, death in this world is actually birth into the next world - the astral plane!. When you are born into this world, there are people waiting to help you - doctors, nurses, et al, and when you die and are born into the next world, there are people waiting to help you there, too!. Death is often cast as the "grim reaper" yet I often feel that, particularly in cases where someone is in great pain and has no chance of recovery, death can be a true friend!.
You do not need help, in my view: your feelings are perfectly normal!. Whilst most of us keep our feelings on this subject pretty much hidden, you choose to let them out!. That's all it really is! Feelings which are repressed can cause problems of all kinds: feelings which are not, can not!. If you feel it would help to talk this through, you must feel free to contact me - I shall be delighted to listen, and try to answer whatever questions you have!.
We are all going to die sooner or later, Gemma: that is a fact!. Try to accept this, and relax!. Not easy, I know, but look at it this way!. As a spiritualist, I firmly believe that, when we pass over, we are reunited with those we have loved on this plane, in spirit!. And do bear in mind, also, that the difference in time between our world and the spirit world, is absolutely incredible!. Thus, when you do pass over, it will not appear to be long before you are joined by those you love!.
I hope this has helped, Gemma - and I wish you well!.
Regards!.Www@Answer-Health@Com