Insane ex boyfriend... how can I deal with him?!
Question: Insane ex boyfriend!.!.!. how can I deal with him!?
Ok this is a very complicated story but I'll make it as easy to understand as possible!.!.!. I really need your help!.
I dated for a month and a half an ex-cocaine addict (he was for 3 years and he tried to stop 'for me' when I didnt ask him for **** but anyway) and the days have passed and he became more and more attached, after 2 weeks he told me if I leave him he's gonna kill himself, and the more we spend time together the more he tells me insane **** about his past such as well he does illegal **** but that doesn't need to be told also he told me he believes he's a vampire a werewolf and some kind of wizard (eek) and he is very paranoid and thinks hes got a person inside of him (kinda like double personality) and so on!. He's got massive issues and I really wanted to help him but he kept on trying to hurt me by bringing me down and always saying I'd go cheat on him and this and that!.!.!. so I went on a break with him about a week ago saying he needs to get his life together (he doesnt work he doesnt go to school or anything) and I'm willing to help him as a friend and see how things go!.!.!. but then he started doing cocaine again for two days he did not sleep and friday night we hungout as friends and i saw how ****** up he was!.!.!. i got a little mad and then he insulted me by many ways so i told him to get the **** away from me and to forget my name!. But today I got stalked at work by someone I don't know and I also think I saw my boyfriend sitting close to my home when I came back from lunch!.!.!. I believe he's stalking me and I'm kinda scared because I know he could do something crazy!.
What should I do!? Go to the police!? Try to speak to him!? I'm really confused!.!.!. thanks for helping!. Gosh what did I get myself into!.!.!.!. i wont give away chances anymore!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I dated for a month and a half an ex-cocaine addict (he was for 3 years and he tried to stop 'for me' when I didnt ask him for **** but anyway) and the days have passed and he became more and more attached, after 2 weeks he told me if I leave him he's gonna kill himself, and the more we spend time together the more he tells me insane **** about his past such as well he does illegal **** but that doesn't need to be told also he told me he believes he's a vampire a werewolf and some kind of wizard (eek) and he is very paranoid and thinks hes got a person inside of him (kinda like double personality) and so on!. He's got massive issues and I really wanted to help him but he kept on trying to hurt me by bringing me down and always saying I'd go cheat on him and this and that!.!.!. so I went on a break with him about a week ago saying he needs to get his life together (he doesnt work he doesnt go to school or anything) and I'm willing to help him as a friend and see how things go!.!.!. but then he started doing cocaine again for two days he did not sleep and friday night we hungout as friends and i saw how ****** up he was!.!.!. i got a little mad and then he insulted me by many ways so i told him to get the **** away from me and to forget my name!. But today I got stalked at work by someone I don't know and I also think I saw my boyfriend sitting close to my home when I came back from lunch!.!.!. I believe he's stalking me and I'm kinda scared because I know he could do something crazy!.
What should I do!? Go to the police!? Try to speak to him!? I'm really confused!.!.!. thanks for helping!. Gosh what did I get myself into!.!.!.!. i wont give away chances anymore!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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When this loony started showing signs of being on drugs and acting all weird, was when you should have split (like after the first few days)!. Now a month into it, he thinks you are a pushover for his psychoness and believes he can bully you into staying in the relationship!. You can't help this guy out!. You need to go to the police and get a restraining order where he cannot get within so many miles of you and if he does they can put him in jail!. Also no contact with him from now on!.!.!.!.!.!.!.period!. He can only get help by checking himself into a drug and rehab center/psych ward and you don't need to get involved!. Just get away and keep him away with police protection!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go to the police and get a restraining order!. Change your number and all of that!. Don't ave anymore contact with this guy, he obviously has issues that he needs to see s shrink for!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
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got a guy friend!?'s that can *discourage him !?
+1 to the above post!.
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+1 to the above post!.
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There is no talking to this guy!. You can not fix him!. If you don't cut all ties from him now, then you are going to be dragged down with him!. You need to contact the police, tell them that you want to end this relationship but fear there may be bad consequences!. Put yourself first, he has issues that only a doctor can fix!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Step 1: call the non emergency police number and tell them the story!. They will tell you inform you of how to get a restraining order!.
Step 2: serve the restraining order!. And don't be afraid to call the cops when he breaks the order!. You don't want to get hurt and this guy sounds very dangerous!. I have experience with coke addicts and they are unpredictable and psycho!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Step 2: serve the restraining order!. And don't be afraid to call the cops when he breaks the order!. You don't want to get hurt and this guy sounds very dangerous!. I have experience with coke addicts and they are unpredictable and psycho!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Police can Not guard you 24 / 7 !.
It is advisable to go to them so they know what to do if they find your body !.
Speaking to him !? He is coke deaf , the brain damage
( similar to alcoholics ) leaves the vast majority terminally screwed !.
You are talking to a brick wall , wasting your time and further endangering your life by interacting with him !.
IF you really ' Get It ' from the learning curve and have vowed
NEVER to engage another chemical abuser ,
Get a new apt ASAP , Now not later or move in temp
with a relative whom he does NOT know !.
Get a post office box for mail so your home address is NOT out there anywhere !.
Hope he does Not know where your relatives live !.
Hope you get out before you get dead !.
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It is advisable to go to them so they know what to do if they find your body !.
Speaking to him !? He is coke deaf , the brain damage
( similar to alcoholics ) leaves the vast majority terminally screwed !.
You are talking to a brick wall , wasting your time and further endangering your life by interacting with him !.
IF you really ' Get It ' from the learning curve and have vowed
NEVER to engage another chemical abuser ,
Get a new apt ASAP , Now not later or move in temp
with a relative whom he does NOT know !.
Get a post office box for mail so your home address is NOT out there anywhere !.
Hope he does Not know where your relatives live !.
Hope you get out before you get dead !.
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i think you should call the police and get a restraining order!. hes on drugs!. he cant control himself so he can hurt you even if he doesnt want to!. you also can't tell him to get his life together!. he has to realize that on his own!. if he is serious enough to say he'll kill himself thats not your fault!. he was already ****** up wen u came into his life!. you can't get him help he doesnt want!. sometimes the world works like that!. about the person at your job, i think you should consult that with your boss and have them escorted from the facility!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel so sorry for you, if you love him you need to contact the police and the doctors, he won't know who did it so you should be fine!. This guy can't be helped by you talking to him he needs doctors!. I know this is hard because I was trying to keep my grandad alive by talking to him but it didn't work, he still died!. I suppose that was how stupid I was!. Anyway If he's threatening g you and makiing you feel uncomfortable then the police need to know and he has to be stopped!. I hope I kinda helped!. -X-Www@Answer-Health@Com