How do I get through the anniversary of my father's death without family or !


Question: How do I get through the anniversary of my father's death without family or a boyfriend to help!?
One year ago my father died of prostate cancer!. His death was during my first semester at college!. It was very hard for me to get through the last year because the reason I chose to stay in Boston (which is close to home) was that I would be near him!. I did not have close friends at college to lean on and all my friends from home could not be of much help since they were dealing with adjusting to college life!. I became very dependent upon my mother and my boyfriend to help me through the tough nights, which now I see was not healthy!. Now that I am reaching the one year anniversary, I do not have anyone close to help me get through this time!. My mother is going to be away with her church and my boyfriend and I broke up!. How do I get through this time on my own!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Hi,

I know what u must be feeling just now, it is approaching the 1st anniversary of my dads death- (in 2 weeks to be precise!.)!. I was also at university when my dad died, but fortunataly stayed at home with my family, which helped me through! Is there no one else that you are close with that u could be around, speak to!? What about close friends!? I do think its important to be with someone close at such a sad time, but even if u cant be with your mum, try and stay in touch, talk through your feelings with her! Even if just over the phone, I dont think its a good idea to be on your own- I know I couldnt cope on my own!.

Good luck, take care

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go out in public (e!.g!.see a movie or to a pub)!?
After my dad had died, i cried everytime, every year people celebrate father's day!.!.!.shed tears a little when I saw a little girl holding her father's hand!.!. !.!.it's hard to go through!.!.!.it took me almost 9 years to calm down!. You'd ge there!.!.!.good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com





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