How do you help your fiance deal with loss of a loved one?!


Question: How do you help your fiance deal with loss of a loved one!?
My fiance's grandfather passed away Sunday and he was very close to him and he has been upset the past few days!. I know how bad it hurts, my grandmother died a year ago and she helped raise me, I was a mess!. I know it is hard on him because he lost his mother two years ago, and he lost his grandmother and now this!. I just want to help him!.!.!.!.is this possible!?

He already stresses out over everything!.!.!.i mean EVERYTHING!. I already told him he needed something for anxiety!. Now it is worse because he is overwhelmed with stress and he is upset over his grandfather!.

Is there anything I can do to help him!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
What an angel you are to care about this man so much you're asking for help on how to help him!. How awesome! =) I would suggest praying for him!. You already know the obvious, listening, doing what you can to comfort him and all that since you have gone through something similiar!. However, most people don't pray, when that's the easiest and cheapest, yet most rewarding thing anyone could do!. You could pray something like this: Thank You for blessing (fiance's name) with being as peaceful and serene as You will, from this moment forth!. You can also include yourself in that if you want or even his entire family and all existance!. =) You are an angel!

You can also say covenants for him (and yourself) like this:

As of right now and forever (fiance's name) is completely aligned and centered with God and The Lord!.

As of right now and forever (fiances' name)'s emotions, thoughts, and feelings are as God and The Lord will!.

Hope some of this helps!

God bless you and your fiance!

p!.s!.!.!. please please please don't resort to drugs, even if prescribed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

give him some space if he needs it!. just love him with all your heart!. ask him what you can do to help!. when i lost my aunt to cancer at the age of 24 last year, and lost my great-grandma shortly after, all i wanted was some space!. you will be in my prayers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

show him that not everythings lost that his grandfather is in a better place and your still there for him!.!.!.
hug him and show him you love him and you care about him!.!.good luck :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Give him room and air and time!. Be there to listen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just let him know that you are there for him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm in a very similar situation!. My mom passed away a few years ago and my grandma passed away less than a year ago!. The doctor put me on a new type of hypertension medication (but this can be used for generalized anxiety as well) called a beta blocker!. Some musicians actually use this drug to counter stage fright because it takes away all the shaking, sweaty palms, cracking voice, etc!. You can still be nervous mentally, but it helps with all the physical symptoms!. The specific beta blocker I'm on is called bisoprolol!. I'm not saying he should get on this medication, but I am saying that he should probably talk to a doctor about his anxiety and consider taking some meds to hedge that anxiety!. He doesn't have to be stressed out all the time, he does have options!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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